This Question is for the Ladies in High School. What do you like to see in a guy and am i attractive

want to ask this really beautiful girl out (we're both sophmores in high school-i'm 15, she's 16) %26amp; i want to be as attractive as possible (it's complicated but she might have liked me last year because of my smarts but i haven't talked to her in a year). And do i sound attractive (personality wise, i don't think looks r that much of an issue here)? if ur going 2 say that i'm 2 young to have a gf then don't answer.

i have okay looks (asian, black hair)

height: 5' 6"

very mature

makes money on ebay- $25-100/month

golf team- very busy during golf season (February - May)

smart (4.0 GPA, taking a college class next year)

dedicated and always tries my best

courteous

honest

shy-never had gf

good with children- teach golf 2 little kids on Fridays.

not strong but not weak

caring/friendly

neither popular or unpopular

not cocky but not insecure

doesn't show much emotion

would take the relationship seriously %26amp; wants a serious relationship, not a fling

respects the ladies

This Question is for the Ladies in High School. What do you like to see in a guy and am i attractive?

Sure you sound like a great guy, the kind that a decent girl would be happy to date-- but do you plan on acting in the way that you described yourself? Obviously you're capable of it but is this how you act on a regular basis, or are you a bit goofy or a little to glued to your studies? Remember that what we know about ourselves isn't always what the rest of the world perceives.

Do you know why you like her? Is it just looks or do you have something in common? Would you prefer a girl you can have fun with or a girl you can study with? Do you know what kind of a girl she is (I would guess she's more of a party girl since she's popular-- but anyway...) are you compatible or at least comfortable with those aspects about her?

The one thing that you have working against you is that SO many High School girls are in love with that stupid 'bad-boy' image. The nice guys I know didn't get their steady girlfriends until college (including my current boyfriend *grin*).

The one thing you have working against any relationship that you do get into is your limited display of emotion. If you don't have a developmental disability that restricts your emotional expression please, PLEASE learn how to bring them out. Communication is unbelievably important through EVERY stage of a relationship. The one tragedy of my relationship is that my boyfriend doesn't talk to me about what's bothering him and it honestly KILLS me to see him upset.

There's nothing sexier than a caring, confident guy. You should never find yourself fighting over her but there's nothing wrong with fighting on her behalf (hopefully you'll never get stuck in that situation, but she should know what your reaction would be if she got groped or something).

There's so much I could advise you on, relationships are incredibly complicated. I guess the most important things are these: be honest, be humble, be brave, be her anchor, tell her you love her-- often and boldly, listen, talk, touch her face when you find yourself staring at her, hold her when she's close, and if you can: cherish each day with her as if it were your last.

If you really want a serious relationship, you have to be willing to go to Hell and back for her but it is not her place to ask you to.