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Every tick of the clock seems to move backward, and watching it only makes those movements backwards a hell of a lot slower. And as those ticks clicked backwards, Johnny could feel his pulse and temperature rising ever so slightly. The back of his neck felt like sun burn after being slapped, and his blood pressure bumped and thumped like the blood was trying to break loose.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He鈥檇 look back at the clock, waiting, and waiting, and waiting for 3:15. 3:15 was the book of Revelation to him. It meant the day was over, at least for a couple more hours. It meant he could back home, relax, take a shower, masturbate, discuss the meaning of everything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But 3:15 was still a ways a way. He yawned and positioned himself in as many awkward positions as time would allow. Any awkward position would keep him awake, but only for a moment. Soon his inner body would adjust, and start falling asleep again. He felt mechanical. Two sides of him were competing for attention. Neither one was really winning, except whoever was making the more rationale argument.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I could leave. Leave early, say I have a doctor鈥檚 appointment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (You would miss the rest of the lecture)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I鈥檓 missing it anyway. I can barely stay awake.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (You鈥檙e parent鈥檚 aren鈥檛 paying for you to sleep)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Shut up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (You鈥檝e got a child on the way)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Those words woke him up more than any awkward position was ever going to. It made him breath deep breaths and sweat big sweats. He wasn鈥檛 even sure who he was, and now he was going to have to direct someone else鈥檚 life. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It didn鈥檛 help that the professor was talking in somewhat hypnotic speech. Eerily soothing, and causing those eyelids to become perhaps a dozen times heavier than they already were. Johnny stuck it out. Just like he did every Wednesday.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Across campus, Timothy was already deeply engrossed in another afternoon film. It was the second film he had watched today. This semester he cleared most of his schedule for watching movies. He got a job at the campus library checking in and out books. Occasionally, he鈥檇 push the rack all over the library placing books in their respective places. He mother ****** the Dewey Decimal System to high heaven, claiming their had to be an easy way to catalog books. He always assumed someone else could do it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This afternoon鈥檚 selection was the 1948 Orson Welles version of Macbeth. Timothy was on a Shakespeare kick for the past two weeks. He鈥檇 brought home just about every version of Hamlet from the library last week. Bragnah and Zeffirelli and Olivier and Burton, not to mention the half dozen or so stage productions with names no one would ever recogonize. He said he saw something about himself in the character of Hamlet. Something about the madness, and the way Hamlet carried himself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The library was the perfect place for him to work. The campus library housed nearly every film ever made. The rows and rows of cinema, past and present, screamed 鈥渨atch me.鈥?Timothy was just the person to do that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Concluding her fourth week teaching was Jocelyn. She was just finishing a lecture on neurons and how they worked.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淩emember there is to be a test on Monday. This is going to be on. I鈥檓 going to ask you some tough stuff.鈥?Her voice was drowned out by the sound of zippers and notebooks closing. You wouldn鈥檛 think of a notebook closing, making any noise at all. But given the onslaught of three hundred notebooks, and it was a symphony of whooshes and wishes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The semester was just getting started. She had settled in nicely, to the student teaching position. It curbed most of the cost of her graduate education. Her parents were happy about this. They weren鈥檛 so happy about the seven month unborn child she was carrying around. Unmarried. Still in school. Oh yes, her parents were plenty worried about that situation to even fully appreciate the tuition waiver for her graduate work.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She had refused to tell her parents who the father was. At least up until now. Her parent鈥檚 patience was running thin, and she soon would. But first she had some thing of her own to clear up. She was constantly pondering her graduate degree, wondering and wondering if any of it was worth it. She wondered if she only enrolled to quell the fact that this child was the end of her young life. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No condoms, how could I be so stupid.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She thought this constantly, and consistently. She felt like the girl in the sex ed video, who stayed home on Friday, when her friends went out, just so she could watch her baby.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her friends, all of them, were so supportive, but their eyes fed her that thank-god鈥攖hat鈥檚-not-my-child look. She could feel their eyes move up and down her body, the same way a guy does to a girl he sees coming his way. But there eyes were not with with lust, or love, but complete relief. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No ******* condoms, you stupid piece of ****.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The last of the students headed out the door, just as she was gathering up her things. Just a lonely pregnant women in the middle of the auditorium, all alone. That鈥檚 how things for her had felt lately.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淭he ending is more pronounced because of the change that Ching Fong goes through.鈥?Johnny professors says, to a mostly interested class. Johnny鈥檚 arousal level is less than willing to continue. Who would have thought 18th century Japanese literature could be so boring? Johnny wondered if all literature was so boring. He even went as far to wonder if culture in general and everything about it was this boring. All the films, books, and paintings. Every poem, paragraph and page every written and typed, was it all bullshit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲hat do you think, Johnny?鈥?his professor asked. He realized his wandering eyes, and heavy yawns had attracted the attention of his teacher.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淯h, yeah.鈥?He answered. The class giggled in unison. He had no clue what the lecture was about, hadn鈥檛 even paid attention in the last week. Johnny wasn鈥檛 even entirely sure he was reading from the same book as everyone else.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淢r. Walsh, part of your grade is participation. So I am asking for your opinion.鈥?The professor was dead serious, in your face. The class鈥?eyes were all on him, waiting for his opinion. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚鈥檓 going to be honest, I have no clue what you鈥檙e talking about.鈥?He answered. The laughs came back, but there were fewer this time around, like an inside joke that only a few are apart of.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淟ooks like that will be an F for participation today, Mr. Walsh.鈥?The professor stared at him, half expecting a reply but continued right on with what he was talking about. Johnny wondered what this guy was like in middle or high school. Probably the kid who got quarters thrown at him in study hall.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Johnny laughed on the inside at the thought of flying George Washingtons hitting him on the head. His gazed returned to the outside, where the weather was becoming more and more brilliant by the moment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The clouds were turning a light gray, not the kind that bring rain, but the kind that make Johnny feel complete. There was a slight breeze, he could discern from the swaying trees. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Some kids were playing soccer on the lawn. Kicking the black and white ball back and forth. It didn鈥檛 appear there were any defined goals. There didn鈥檛 need to be, the whole point was just to be outside. Some other kids were just sitting under trees text or fictional books sprawled across their laps, ingesting the whole sum of human knowledge.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Johnny鈥檚 deep blue eyes slightly watered at the thought that this was it. This room would be the end of him, and he knew it. His mood was in a downward spiral since the start of the summer. When she told him. When she told him, that within her, his seed had reached her egg, and together they were creating a child. She hadn鈥檛 quite put it like that, but he always preferred the most defined definition he could reach.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I gave it to her. I gave it to her too damn good.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (Better watch your mouth, round that newborn)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My parents swore around me, and look, I鈥檓 fine.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (Yeah you conceived a child that you have no clue how to care for)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He remembered an idea from Introductory Psych. Objective Self Awareness. Whenever the focus shifts inward, you enter this state of subject awareness. When your self and self image don鈥檛 align, it produces negative feelings. His teacher then suggested this is why we see so many IPODS and ZUNES. So people can drown out their own thoughts and remain focused outward.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Johnny sighed and succumbed himself to the last fifteen minutes of class. The outside was not much farther away.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淭his is terrible.鈥?Timothy said out loud to the walls and the carpet, and the stack of recently viewed movies on the floor. Among them such classics as the Campbell Scott version of Hamlet, the 1989 film When Harry Met Sally, and the fifth Star Trek film. The odd assortment of films was the way Timothy liked to watch them. He never liked to watch the same genre twice in a row. The past two weeks had been a rare exception to the rule. Consistency was key, as he examined the various productions of Hamlet. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Timothy was looking for the differences between each production. The smallest of details, such as camera or lighting, and he jotted them down in a notebook. With his copy of Hamlet to his side, Johnny would here him all the way down the hall. Quoting Shakespeare four hundred years after the Bard had suffered the deep dark plunge we all go to.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥h all you, host o heaven! O Earth! What else?鈥?Timothy would recite. It would seem the voice were coming from the walls, or that Johnny was schizophrenic. But no, not at all. It was the sounds of the Globe Theatre traveling through time, and space to America. To Pennsylvania. To Pittsburgh. It was being absorbed in the hearts of the young, being prepared for passage to another generation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Timothy was not enjoying this version of Macbeth at all. Maybe it was the black and white of it all, but Timothy could not even stand to finish it. He turned it off and returned it to it鈥檚 proper case. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; His afternoon was carefully planned to have enough time to watch this, then the Roman Polanski version, then study for the up and coming 鈥渆xam of the semester, quite possibly my life鈥?is what he was calling it. The change in plans gave him some extra free time. So he stared at the wall, working on the story waiting to be poured onto paper.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Johnny quickly left the lecture hall, not wanting to be stopped by Professor Asshole on the way out. For the obvious and not so obvious reasons. The first of course being he was afraid he might actually slip and call him professor ASSHOLE! And the second being, he didn鈥檛 feel like getting the paying attention will help you do better lecture. Or the I鈥檓 not standing up here for my health lecture. He鈥檇 heard them before, or some version of them. He had pretty much been uninterested in anything but philosophy since he took his first class all those years ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The ideas and thoughts and logic of the past four thousand years was constantly bouncing around in his mind, and his pure undivided attention was constantly on that. Pondering and wondering. Thinking and reasoning. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Timothy had a notebook where he kept pictures and comments. Little shreds and bits of information that he eventually thought would help him in the screenwriting process. His whole view of Planet Earth changed when he would doodle away at the notebook. The cries for help from Africa, the depleting ozone layer, the pollution and over population, the whole world just went away. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; His friends, mostly Johnny, often wondered if there was a screw or two loose. Something just never made sense with Timothy. In all actuality, that is just the way he presented himself. One step behind the rest.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He scrawled a few shapes and figures into the notebook. Hoping that some ultimately amazing wonderful tidbit of dialogue would come pouring outward onto the paper. Some great quote that college kids, and adults alike would continue saying for years afterwards. Something inspirational, and spine tingling. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; His getting longer by the day black hair was at his eyes right now. He loved the way it blew in the wind, even if everyone he knows did not. He was slightly chubby, but nothing a doctor would recommend a safer diet over. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Most of the clothes he wears are two sizes too big, and he only shaves when he absolutely has to. Yet he cannot grow a full beard at this point. More like sporadic spots of hairs. A 鈥渃hin strap鈥?is what some up tight sorority girl had called it last semester. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; His school nurse, and his eye doctor all decided he should wear corrective lenses. He never does, except when he鈥檚 behind the wheel of a car. The glasses he has now are the same ones he got in junior high. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He writes in his notebook: The fate of your life is directly affected by the fate of those around you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淭hat鈥檚 the worst quote in the history of quoting.鈥?He says to himself. He ponders lighting up the old bubbler. Let rip a few quick hits of the wacky tobaccy before he sails off to watch the other version of Macbeth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He draws a man drowning at sea with a bubble above it screaming help. Next to that he draws a big boat and writes TITANTIC along the side. The guy in the tower has a bubble now too. It says 鈥渟orry pal, can鈥檛 stop for nothing.鈥?br&gt; He laughs to himself and closes the notebook. Another day at the office he assures himself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jocelyn is walking down the aisle of the auditorium, the weight of her bag to her side. If someone was observing her from the backside, they would think she was having a seizure the way she was walking. She could truly care less though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Abortion was an idea that she hadn鈥檛 really thought about at all. She remembered in the weeks after she told Johnny she was pregnant, she could see it in his eyes. Those eyes that were begging for an abortion chit chat. It seemed to her that he was just waiting for her to bring it up.She had wanted to talk about it, but every time she saw that he was eager and willing to get rid of this child, it angered her, and made her want it that much more. And now, she insisted it was too late.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She remembered when she was an undergrad, and walking along Forbes Ave, some old lady was holding a great big poster, depicting an abortion at twenty-three weeks. The picture was disturbing but effective in one aspect. She stopped and yelled at the old woman, declaring it was a women鈥檚 right to choose. She even attended a march for Female鈥檚 Rights a few years back. She had always argued in favor of it, but now, when it was her child, she couldn鈥檛 help but cradle her belly and imagine the life she planned to give her child. Whether or not Johnny was going to be apart of it, was debatable. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In the last ten minutes of each hour, the hallways filled up with students from every area of the globe. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Johnny had come from a suburban white man鈥檚 paradise. Coming to Pitt was the biggest culture shock he had ever received. A lifetime of one type of person, and suddenly inserted into the throbbing heart of the idea of America. He had savored every moment, unlearning everything K through 12 taught him. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Public Education, he declared in an essay, was flawed. It was one dimensional. He considered the pledge of Allegiance. Writing about the pledge, he realized he couldn鈥檛 even remember it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We spend thirteen years, reciting the Pledge daily, to leave it behind once we leave high school.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He had not said it once since then. And it was a system of control. Implemented by men in suits far away trying to curb individualism. Or so he had wrote.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淗ey.鈥?A voice called from behind him. It was Justine. He turned to see her smiling and eager to talk.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淗iya.鈥?He replied, smiling. Justine was a nice break from the going to be a father routine. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淏oring class.鈥?She said, slugging her book bag over her shoulder.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚s it ever exciting?鈥?he questioned.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淵ou damn philosophers, always asking questions but never coming up with any real answers.鈥?She laughed. Johnny leaned in real close to her, almost directly next to her ear. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淭hat鈥檚 what makes us so attractive.鈥?He laughed, and so did she. It was a I-Want-You laugh. But both of them knew the reality of Johnny鈥檚 situation. Both of them knew that on it鈥檚 way was a boy or girl, and for the next eighteen years or so, Johnny would be busy cradling, raising, and sending off to college a child.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淵ou wanna go get a cup of coffee?鈥?She asked. He shook his head. He wondered what they were brewing down at the French Press.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淎lright, but I insist on you buying.鈥?He laughed again and they took to the steps.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Johnny this is masturbation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (Dude)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Well, you鈥檙e a child, and this is the big boy鈥檚 menu.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (Touche)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jocelyn stopped to talk to one of her students waiting outside the auditorium. Her name was Tammy, and she nearly waited everyday outside the door. Tammy always asked the most interesting questions about psychology. She seemed generally interested in it, and Jocelyn assumed this girl would eventually declare psych as a major.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She just hated the idea of her waiting till after class to ask the question. Tammy was obviously shy. But the questions she was asking were ones the whole class could benefit from. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淢s. Everett, hey, how are you.鈥?Tammy said. She was still holding her notebook, and glancing at it as she walked up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚鈥檓 pregnant.鈥?She replied, solemnly. She hoped the question would be simple. She wanted to go lie down and eat a half pint of ice cream. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥h, really, I hadn鈥檛 noticed.鈥?Tammy smile, nervously. 鈥淎nyway, I just have a quick question.鈥?br&gt; 鈥淐oncerning neurons?鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淯mmm, not quite. I was looking through your page on the school鈥檚 website.鈥?She started. Jocelyn felt suddenly violated.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You looked at my website, for what?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚 saw that you were a part of a undergraduate research project.鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Christ, this is going to take forever.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淎nd I was curious how one gets involved in such things.鈥?She was just a curious student, curious like she was when she started school. Interested in how the great big gray matter could produce feelings of love, hate, and complete and utter dissatisfaction with life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淭ammy, I have to head to a OB appointment. Can you stop by my office tomorrow around 11. I鈥檒l give you all the details, and introduce you to the researcher involved in that.鈥?br&gt; 鈥淥h, yeah, sure.鈥?She laughed, but it was filled with anxiety, and embarrassment. Jocelyn didn鈥檛 really have an appointment, at least not today. But she was exhausted, lugging her bag of education all around campus. She never envisioned doing this while pregnant. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She suddenly was jealous of her friends from high school. They were either engaged or married to men who were going to take care of them for the rest of their lives. Till death or divorce do them part.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚鈥檒l see you tomorrow then.鈥?Tammy hurried off. Jocelyn watched as she walked away and headed out the door. Was Tammy so much different then her three years ago? She wondered if she had just shattered a girl鈥檚 dreams of making a difference. She always said the biggest problem with the youth was no one wanted to make a difference. Perhaps it was because there were so many problems that the aspect of making a difference was such a loaded issue. Global warming, overpopulation, health care, mental health. There were more problems than solutions associated with those.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And now it was her generation鈥檚 responsibility to correct all this. The past fifty years of American Hedonism and unilaterialism had pretty much destroyed any prospect of America in the future. And now, when her generation failed there would be nothing but cynicism towards her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She imagined her child, starving to death, or dying of an uninsured illness saying 鈥淭hanks a lot, Mom. Thanks for letting me die.鈥?br&gt; She felt like crying. And maybe as she was watching t.v. and eating Ben and Jerry鈥檚 she would. She would let a small river, or creek of tears stream down her face and try and be optimistic.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Timothy burnt his thumb lighting up his bubbler. He usually did, especially when trying to take a big hit. Smoke billowed up from the marijuana, and he held in the lung-full hit he had taken.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He could feel it lingering in his lungs. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A little longer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He could see the gray color sinking into his lungs, and the smaller molecules journeying to his brain. He could see the smaller molecules binding to his neurons, and completely ******* him up. Joceyln had explained it all to him one time. One day when the two of them were stoned, she told him exactly what happened upstairs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He always liked getting stoned with Jocelyn, but she hadn鈥檛 smoked in a long, long time. Ever since she decided she wanted to be a doctor. But only lately had she become the uptight chick she was.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; At this point, he just felt bad for Johnny. He could see the way Johnny looked at her and knew his friend didn鈥檛 want that. But the two of them were far past breaking up at this point. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Even if they wanted to, they had been brought up to respect the idea of the American family. Raised in a house with a mom and dad. The sad part was that neither of them were completely sure of it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Johnny had never said anything, but it was the way he acted around her, or didn鈥檛 act around her. He did not respond to her like he used to. It used to be she said jump, and he was in the air. But now, it seemed it was all Jocelyn could do to keep him around. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He remembered one night he鈥檇 come home from class, and there was a note one the table saying he was going away for a little bit, to clear his head. Johnny had just up and left. But he was back by the next day. When Timothy asked him what was wrong, he just said he was stressed and left it at that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Another big hit, and he could feel the drug kick in. Everything became heavy and light. It felt like his conscious was trying to keep up with reality.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Just started this story, rough, rough draft, looking for opinions?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Didn't have time to read the whole thing, but what I read was excellently written.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't even believe in "The Bible", but it seemed wierd that it was referenced in a way that lead to masturbation..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good literary usage..the masturbation just takes a little away from it, in my opinion. Also..not everyone does believe in "The Bible"; those who don't know the story might not understand the literary usage...even though it's not a bad one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; EDIT:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In my opinion...forget about "the wider audience" and keep the "x-rated words". If the story the words are used in, is good, which it seems to be, you'll find an audience. Write the story in whatever way you relate to it best.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I forget who the quote is from, but..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "The only writers who write about all people and times, are those who write about thier people and time."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...something like that.. I'm not looking it up now, but I think you're smart enough to get the point. Stay true to yourself, and you'll have an audience. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'll read it, at least. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good work, I'll have to finish it later.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Just started this story, rough, rough draft, looking for opinions?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Excellent so far... but cut out the X-rated words and keep your attention to the larger audience. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Terry Brooks is a master at keeping his books readable by all. I feel you have the flare for writing and holding your audience in words alone and the x-rated words you did use seemed to be out of context for your writing abilities&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Keep us the good work&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Nesssssst&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Just started this story, rough, rough draft, looking for opinions?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Some words, need to be changed, I don't believe in the bible but it is excellently written.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Just started this story, rough, rough draft, looking for opinions?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes well not every prophecy is in Revelations. First the Rapture shall occur and the true followers of Jesus shall meet in heaven too receive their crowns for their Christian services. The Antichrist aka abomination that makes desolation. The 7 year tribulation shall commence once Israel signs a peace treaty for 7 years. Once that happens the judgments shall commence. The first is the seven seals of the scroll opened by Jesus. By order of the treaty of the Antichrist the Jews are now allowed to build their Temple. During this time because God has such bountiful grace and mercy he dispatched 144,000 Jewish evangelicals out of the 12 tribes of Israel 12,000 each Tribe to proclaim the gospel AND MANY shall be saved. God shall also dispatch the 2 witnesses to preach their testimony for 1,260 or 3 陆 years, these witnesses are indestructible during this time they will command fire to come from the sky as well as shut the sky to inhibit rain from falling and execute as many plagues and torments as often as they wish. Some speculate that it shall be Moses and Elijah, we know it shall be Elijah as written in Malachi 4:5. Then the seven trumpets of Judgment shall commence which are worse than the 7 seal of the scroll. During this time while Israel is in their false sense of Security Rogue nations that harbor hatred towards them shall do a sneak attack on them this is prophesied in Ezekiel Chapter 38 and 39 know as the Prophecy Against Gog. It is when Russia, Ethiopia, Libya, Iran, Turkey and other nations try to wipe Israel of the map but to no avail for God obliterates them in his wrath and hot anger. During the first half of tribulations the false world religion controls everything even the Beast of the Sea. Also some of the Jews heeding the warning of the Jewish Evangelicals shall be suspicious and disillusioned by the antichrist (world Leader) and flee to the ancient Ruins of Petra/Bozrah there they shall be supernaturally protected by God. While the raptured followers of Jesus are given their crown they are pestered by the Devil accusing them they are not worthy to be saved but his accusation (Satan) are in Vain. God having enough of his dribble and comments from the peanut gallery expels Satan out of the atmospheric heaven. When the midpoint of the tribulation comes about the antichrist shall slay the two witnesses and the whole world is so morally bankrupt that they shall rejoice over their death and even give gifts to each other. After 3 陆 days they shall come back to life and a voice from heaven shall say 鈥渃ome鈥?and a cloud ascend them both to heaven while their enemies look below a tenth of Jerusalem is destroyed by an earthquake and 7,000 people are killed via earthquake worldwide. Then the antichrist shall sit himself on the throne and proclaim himself to be 鈥済od鈥?and demand worship. The beast out of the Earth (False Prophet) shall make sure everyone accepts the mark of the beast failure to accept it means you cannot buy or sell and you shall be beheaded. This will separate the true Christians from the pseudo-Christians. During this time God in his mercy shall do something that has never been done before!!! He shall dispatch 3 powerful angels in the guise of humans to preach the everlasting gospel. They will adamantly stress and warn that those who accept the mark of the beast shall partake the winepress of God鈥檚 wrath. This means accepting the mark of the beast is THE UNFORGIVABLE SIN!!!!!!!! Once the Antichrist sit on the throne and declares himself as 鈥済od鈥?then the wrath of Sovereign Lord will reach its zenith and his boiling anger shall commence the 7 bowls of his wrath which is worse than the seven seals of the scroll and the 7 trumpets of Judgment. Babylon shall be rebuilt and all commerce shall be transferred to there as in total opposition of God. Babylon is finally destroyed. The heavens rejoiced at its destruction. Jerusalem shall be taken over and then the nations meet at the valley of Megiddo or known as Armageddon. After Israel recognized its national sin the rejection of Jesus they pray for 2 days and the Lord hears their prayers and Jesus comes back by landing his feat on the Mount of Olives Zechariah 14:3-5. Jesus shall defeat the antichrist and his forces by uttering the word of God and for 1,600 stadias or 2,000 miles up to the horses鈥?bridle the whole valley of Megiddo shall be a sea of blood thus written in the book of Isaiah 63:1-6. Everyone but the antichrist and false prophet have been turned into fodder by Jesus. The antichrist and false prophet are thrown into the lake of fire tormented day and night. Blessed are those who make it to 1,335 gays what does that mean Daniel 12:11-12. It means that a saved Christian or Jew that accepted Jesus as their savior are invited to the millennium. From the period of the abomination that makes (midpoint of the tribulations) desolation of the temple to the end of that shall be 1,260 days plus 45 days to purify the Earth from the grievous damage and filth and plus 75 days to judge the nations treatment towards Israel the parting of the sheep and goats the sheep are allowed to enter the millennial kingdom governed by Jesus that equals 1,335 days!! This is the kingdom that was in Daniel 2:44-45 that is the millennial kingdom!! At this time Satan shall be bound in the bottomless pit so he may not tempt for the next 1,000 years. Creation shall be radically changed as the Adamic curse shall be partially lifted there shall be new healthy bodies at that time disease is no more. People can live for 1,000 years!! Nature shall be transformed and wild animals shall be tamed and we all shall be pretty much vegetarians as written in the book Isaiah 65:17-25 However great that is people are still going to rebel as written in Isaiah 65:20 !! Even under utopia conditions via Jesus people shall go against Jesus. Satan shall be released and the rebels will be destroyed by fire from God. Those who are at the Great white Throne are not saved and are not written in The book of life they are thrown in the lake of fire forever and the ones who are saved are in bliss with God and Jesus in the new heaven and Earth. Praise the Lord Jesus!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-2363319780505044183?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/2363319780505044183/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/just-started-this-story-rough-rough.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2363319780505044183'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2363319780505044183'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/just-started-this-story-rough-rough.html' title='Just started this story, rough, rough draft, looking for opinions?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-9201934435401093070</id><published>2010-06-22T21:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:37:24.496-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I need a cute winter outfit for wednesday?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;hi all. so im gonna be meeting up with a friend who i think has a really cute bro and i know he likes me too (i know this sounds so first gradish) but i really want to dress nice since i always go to their house in scrub wear. sooo a little about me. im 19 and 5'6. im indian so i have brown hair and really long black hair. i have glasses :D and i love them uhh and im not super skinny nor am i obese. im average and ive got a lil tummy action going on. so uhh its really cold and i need warm stuff. all my outfits have either shrunk or are too thin for me to wear during the winter. any links will be appreciated! the mall is where im going to shop at and theres an AE, abercrombie, and basically ur department stores like macys, jcpenneys. sooo any help will be much appreciated :D i gotta catch his eye ;) lol take care all. byeeeeee&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need a cute winter outfit for wednesday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I absolutely love this style of clothing. It's cute and warm too ! =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Kay, so you wear a long sleeve shirt underneath a baby doll tank top, top it off with darn jeans (skinny or straight or whatever looks good) and wear boots or just shoes! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You don't have to go with these clothes (cause it's so expensive) but it's something to look at and take example from&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.abercrombie.ca/webapp/wcs/sto...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; - baby doll tank &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A white long sleeve with no v-neck, scoopneck or whatever. (sorry I couldn't find a picture) &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Mm, dark wash jeans and boots! or flats, or something cute-sy. =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sorry, I couldn't find much more pics but I hope this gives you some ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need a cute winter outfit for wednesday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well i got 2 that might be nice... i like the second one... if you want more ideas i'll be up probably for a bit more... bored..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www2.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www2.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; o hope i was of some help&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need a cute winter outfit for wednesday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i would go to forever21. great stuff but not as expensive as ae, hollister, etc. i'd probably find a nice jacket and wear a cute long sleeve top/sweater or something! it really depends on your style and i'd probably do something w/your hair(:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-9201934435401093070?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/9201934435401093070/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-need-cute-winter-outfit-for-wednesday.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/9201934435401093070'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/9201934435401093070'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-need-cute-winter-outfit-for-wednesday.html' title='I need a cute winter outfit for wednesday?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-7276261718949286544</id><published>2010-06-22T21:36:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:36:52.344-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How to talk to this girl?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;It was the 2nd day of school, and this regular average looking girl comes up to me and askes me to be friends.. i said 'whatever, i dont care'&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; then she asked for my #, i told her to give hers to me instead. and finally she asked to get something to eat after school, i said 'no, i have better things to do'&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; we didnt %26amp; still havent talked since then (about 2 months).. she didn't meet my 3 criterias i wanted in a girl at that time :&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1.a girl who wears Lacoste shirts with collars popped up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. a girl who wears large belts 2.25-4 inches above the hip&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.a girl with blond hair blue eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but then yesterday.. everything changed. I saw her wear a pink Lacoste shirt with the collars popped up and I fell in love with her. she has dyed black hair with natural blond streaks (which i dont prefer), but i know we can make it if we try.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; How should i approach her? i have her # but somethin inside tells me its too late to call her.. what would u do?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you were a bit rude but if you really think it'll work you should ease on up to asking her out just start by saying hi in the halls and then start a conversation and then act as charming as you possibly can once you think she likes you ask. If you realize you don't like her be her friend she can't be that bad can she.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well hello u just blew it like maybe 2 months ago!!! so if you want to get to know how to get her to like you u have to become her friend again&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ps i am having the same problem&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you're so picky! and cold! But any ways, just talk to her. not by phone, that is wimpy. act like you never met her before, so you can be more romantic. just be honest.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No your doin good young jedi. Blowin her off 2x was the smartest thing you could do to get it wet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now just say you lost her number and need it again. Get her on the date and you'll bag it the first night. If not you'll at least get head.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If I were you I wouldn't even bother calling her. She is obviously too good for someone who wouldn't even get to know her because of how she dressed and her looks. There is alot more to a relationship or friendship than that. Spare her the aggravation of having a materialistic jerk of a boyfriend and go find some idiot that cares what kind of clothes you're wearing. Someday you'll grow up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ok bud, you're never going to find a good girl if you have a certain check-list you go by. Look on the inside, not the outside....that's what really matters.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You sound like a jerk.... she's better off not having you for a friend.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;To be honest, you sound too superficial for her. You turned her down and now later on you see her wearing the right clothes and you want to get things rolling? I think you lost your chance awhile ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you should leave her alone. She's right. It's too late. You can't just suddenly decide that you want to be with some girl because she's wearing different clothes now. She tried to be direct with you, and you blew her off. You shouldn't get a second chance. She just wanted to be friends. You couldn't even give her a chance? Shame on you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You dumb idiot you shouldn't of said that in the first place but sinced you asked i am gonna say that you should um letts see go up to her and be like um exscuse me hi do you remember me i am that boy from how ever long ago that was and then say that you was sorry for whatever had happened and then if she say something just be like ok know you can ask me over again what you asked me long before a while and if she don't ask then you say ok... let me refrese that um what i meant to say was that you could ask her like um hi would you like to out with me sometimes and if she say no then what you do is move on but i really hope this helps.(just remember neva say something to a girl like that or trust this situation will start all over again and this is true and this happened to me once but i didn't do nothing the boy did so jst be careful.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just go to her, n tell her the truth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There is absolutely no reason that a perfect man like yourself should have to compromise. Buy her some blonde hair dye and give to her as a present. Let her know that you would be willing to "be seen with her" if she would meet your three criteria. Do not under any circumstances, negotiate the three criteria or change your standards. Hang tough!!! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Taking this approach will give you plenty of time on Saturday and Friday nights to stay home (alone), hit the books hard and bring those grades up. Good Luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WoW, you're easy to please!))0 i wish all the guys were like you, just get a belt, hair dye, pop up the collar and you're ready to mate like a lusting cat at the pick of the mating season!))))))0 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You can give her a call, but honestly, I don't think she will enjoy your company much. Unless, she is that desperate.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you should just leave her alone. You didn't give her a chance before because of how she looked. That's just not right. But to answer your question you should just go up to her and apologize for being mean to her before and just try talking to her. And if she asks why you didn't call her before then say you lost her number and if she asks why you just didn't ask for it tell her you were just too shy or something. Hope that helps but if it doesn't then you deserve it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;haha you bein serious?!?! you cant just go out with someone because of how they dress... you should have gotten to know her and be her friend. IF she decides to give you a chance you are one lucky guy coz u dont deserve it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;why you were rude to her in the first place is beyond me but I hope she doesn't talk to you anymore. you are too picky and selfish. arrogant ..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to talk to this girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There is absolutely nothing in this world more beautiful than a girl wearing Lacoste with the collars up. I have almost the exact same criterias. Except I only date Dark black hair girls with green eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You need to strategize.. and follow these methods and alter them as you see fit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; MISSION : Bag the Girl with the Lacoste collars up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; [I] Know your target's friends. Get to know them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; [II] Through her friends, try to get to know her. The next time u see her, tell her a slick line like "I'm sorry for being so mean before, but your face reminded me of a girl I had just broke up with. She totally ripped out my heart, stabbed a knife in my back, and left me to bleed to death' .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; [III]Accidently see her at her favorite places i.e. Lacoste stores,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; [IIII] Through her friends, learn her interest, see if has a Myspace, and remember the things she likes, the music, the games, topics etc&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; [IIIII] Talk to her about the music, games, topics, she likes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; [IIIIII] Earn her trust, &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; [IIIIIII]Do what you need to do and keep the Lacoste collars up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-7276261718949286544?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/7276261718949286544/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-to-talk-to-this-girl.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7276261718949286544'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7276261718949286544'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-to-talk-to-this-girl.html' title='How to talk to this girl?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-8417997201282866129</id><published>2010-06-22T21:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:36:20.967-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Every where on answers it's "illegal mexican".Why?Why not illegal Honduranian or illegal Guatamalan Or illegal dominican republican?Does their latino skin color automatically label them as mexican?Isn't that a bit presumptuous?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What about those dark skinned Honduranians that look black or the Dominicans with dark skin?You'd see them on the street and never classify them.Because they don't fit the typical "mexican"look?Did you know there are white skinned mexicans also?Blonde hair and blue eyes.They could all be illegal,but they wouldn't be accused and put down soley by the way they look.But let a brown skinned woman with black hair stand in the food stamp line and there'd people go,calling her another government cheating illegal mexican.Or worse,a *******,which is what they are called where I live.It wouldn't matter if she was born here ,along with the last 5 generations of her family.She could have more american roots than you or I,but no one would care,cause she lokks mexican.Sad.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I wonder the same thing every day, and its sad. My husband is Mexican and is a greencard holder. The stigma still stands, most people are ignorant. If somebody speaks spanish they are an illegal mexican here to steal jobs and welfare.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Because we Americans are too ignorant to take the time to learn the common characteristics that differentiate any non-white race from any other non-white race.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The sad thing is, it took me all of 4 weeks to be able to train myself to pick out the racial characteristics of both East Asian peoples and South Asian/Asian Minor races.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Pretty pathetic.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Tha is why I use the term "illegal" I think you might just be sensitive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What are you babbling about? It's the olive skin colored "Mexican" that's really from Egypt, Syria, Or Saudi Arabia is what we are worried about and they are the reason the border needs to be closed NOW.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No doubt you can feel this because you are one of the darker skins of your country men/women.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But have you ever heard the word stereo typing that goes for anyone that have a tan naturally.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You can check it out yourself if you could find say an Indian from India, that had a very light skin tone then you would find that they will never tell you that they are Indian because, that is their passport to indirection.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; On the other hand a dark skinned Indian can be identified immediately from a distance.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just like so called African Americans with very light skin, straight hair, blue eyes, straight nose and an American accent.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Of course it shouldn't mean that you are an illegal but because you have dark skin, it is assumed that you are in the USA illegally.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I guess because they come across the border illegally from Mexico. They dont have to be from Mexico, but they are coming in that way. I would say the majority are brown skinned and dont speak english...but that doesnt mean all are brown skinned. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I havent seen any white skinned illegals coming in from Mexico in my neck of the woods, but that doesnt mean they are not here...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't care if there purple, if they are illegel they are illegal....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm not sure that it does? I've certainly never insinuated that. I am not racial in my disagreement of illegal immigration, I feel anyone from anywhere that is illegal should be deported. It is a legal issue, not a racial one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most of us want all illegals gone, I even got into it for a while with Metro900, a white Polish illegal.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The problem and reason people are so down on Mexican illegals is because of their attitude.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; They are the only illegals at the rallies waving Mexican flags, burning American flags, cursing Americans and America.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; They are the only ones claiming to be conducting a war of reconquista against our people and country.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; They have made themselves stand out as our enemies and so we focus on them more actively.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If they and you don't like it, then perhaps they need to accept they are illegal criminals and understand if we catch them they need to be deported by our laws which they disregard.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All illegals need to go home, Mexican illegals are making it hard on all brown skin people, and forcing a war on us for our country"s survival.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you have 50 rattlesnakes in you house where your family lives; and 25 of them have their poison sacs removed and are are only looking for a place to live, do you separate them or kill them all?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The same situation applies to the illegals with brown skin, if they are illegal, and many are declaring a war, do you waste time separating them or fight for your home and family. If some are innocent, too bad, the law says they shouldn't be here anyway.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And can you tell us how to easily tell the difference between them?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sometimes the questions from the pros are couched that way, you will notice. However, I agree. Mexicans DO make up a greater percentage of illegal immigrants than all the rest put together, HOWEVER it is still about 57% by the Pew Hispanic Center numbers (Latin Americans combined make up 75%) That means almost half are NOT Mexicans, so equating illegal immigration with Mexicans, while it may suit a particular neighborhood's impact, isn't logical.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i like latinos so i dont have a problem with any of them. it dontmatter the color of their skin people still dont like them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You can't look at a person and tell their nationality, so you take a guess. As for your friend, stuff like that will happen untill we get these illegals out of the country. You need not blame the American citizens, for her problems, but blame Mexico and its people. They are the ones breaking U.S. law .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most women on welfare are white trailer trash females.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The only people who care about someone's nation of origin are the people from those countries. I couldn't care less whether you are Mexican, Honduran, San Salvadoran, Guatemalan, Panamanian, Nicaraguan, or whatever. If you are here illegally then you are here illegally; please exit the country and come back in appropriately.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Skin tone/color is completely irrelevant.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you would be amazed at the people out there that accuse me of being an illegal alien and I am an American Indian with a mix of French ancestory. I was born here, my ancestors are from Texas, Oklahoma, Georgia, Alabama, Tennessee, and North Carolina. You would be amazed at the ignorance of some people. I do say I am Hispanic, but I speak Spanish and have the exact same characteristics racially as those not born here do. My direct lineage escaped to Texas, then Mexico, during the Trail of Tears in 1838. So I am as American as Apple pie yet I still get accused of being here illegally.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;it could mean you fell into a vat of guiness&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-8417997201282866129?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/8417997201282866129/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-should-brown-skin-mean-you-are.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8417997201282866129'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8417997201282866129'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-should-brown-skin-mean-you-are.html' title='Why should brown skin mean you are an illegal mexican?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1540559239672703900</id><published>2010-06-22T21:35:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:35:53.917-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Do u like, 4 the girls?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;What is ur favorite kinda guy?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (this could just be the look)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jock&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Punk&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; goth &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; emo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; nerdy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; skateboarder&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; serfer&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; short &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; same&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; tall&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; super skinny&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; average&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; still a little bit of muscle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; lots of muscle like jocks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; freakishly muscular like &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; a little chubby&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ect.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; blonde&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; brunette&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; black hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; redhead&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or a few funky colors, purple blue redred, ect.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; blue eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; brown&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; green&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or on some things u just dont care&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or u dont care what they look like at all&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; also some personality or awsome traits&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; romantic&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; thoughtful&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; in charge&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; outgoing &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; quiet&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ect.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; pick more than 1 if u want&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if u have anything else then add it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; sorry so much&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Category 1: I like nerdy jocks. A nice toned guy with brains.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Category 2: Same or taller - I'm 6'1", so....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Category 3: Toned - not a lot of muscle, but a little outline doesn't hurt... ;-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Category 4: Doesn't matter, though I tend towards the darker hair/complexion latin-types.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Category 5: Outgoing and romantic, smart and thoughtful.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;can we talk on msn.... kcicek3005@yahoo.com please....i wanna meet with new people...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well I dont think that a guy's looks matter much but if i had to choose I would pick : Jock or Surfer&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Same or Tall&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; still a little bit of muscle or a little chubby&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; everything but multicolored (hair)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; any eye color&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; romantic,thoughtful,outgoing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I asked my friend, and she's a girl.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Here's her response:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Emo/Skater&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Tall&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Average/Still a little bit of muscle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Blonde/Brunette/Black&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Any colour eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Romantic/Outgoing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. skateboarder/surfer&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. tall&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3. stil a lil bit of muscle/ a little chubby&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. prefer brunette/black but dont mind bblonde or dif. colours&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5. brown/green/blue &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. romantic/thoughtful/outgoing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; added7. i like them to be able to play an instrument or a sport or have some sort of hobbie!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8. to make me laugh and to dance with me even if there is no music!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;-same height or taller than me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -little bit of muscle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -not really attracted to blondes or guys with rainbow hair haha&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -any colour eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -romantic, thoughtful, in charge&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Jock/Nerd&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Tall(hubba hubba)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Average with muscle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Brown hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Brown eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Tanned Skin&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Romantic, Funny, Caring, Sweet, Passionate, Nice &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; hehe =]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do u like, 4 the girls?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1jocy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.tall&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.musile like john abraham&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.black hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.blue colour&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6.i don't care what they look like all&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7 .romantic&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1540559239672703900?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1540559239672703900/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/do-u-like-4-girls.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1540559239672703900'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1540559239672703900'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/do-u-like-4-girls.html' title='Do u like, 4 the girls?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1351246067359271581</id><published>2010-06-22T21:35:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:35:48.203-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I grew up in Central Florida and the part of town i grew up in was 97% white. I'm Indian/German/Hispanic. I have black hair, Hazel/blue eyes and a brown complexion. So in result my friends and GFs have been white preppy types. Also seemed like all that i attracted....However there was this one girl Brooke i wanted to go out with. She only dated white guys. I was friends with her and nothing more could of ever happened. They're alot of girls like her mainly cause of her parents not wanting her to go out with someone that isn't white. However NY for an example where i was born, no one seems to care or even stress if a white girl or guy went out with or even married someone thats not white. If they did care they're more discrete and not as verbal as most people that grew up in the south. Why is it a big deal in the south? I'm also asked alot on what race i am. A girl would talk to me on how cute or hot i am and right after... I'm ask what am I?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most people from the southern states are different from most people in the northern states. It is just different cultures. Almost like neighboring countries. It's not just white people. It's also true that most people prefer to date and marry within their own race. Also not restricted to just white people. Inter-racial dating and marriage is more acceptable in the north because of the slavery issue in the south. Many southerners were taught that blacks were inferior to whites. While anyone with reasonable intellegence knows that is not the case, racism is still more prevalent in the south.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree, and if you want to live in a general society where you are accepted, California is the place to live. I lived in Northern and Southern Cal and it casual and accepting. The south is where I would NEVER live. The Mason/Dixon line is alive and well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yes, and so are blacks, hispanics, asians, etc. your environment shapes all kinds of social mores, even though the most impact rests within the immeadiate family, ie parents&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Gypsy girl said only one thing that made sense; that people prefer to date and marry within their own race or culture. Many times it has to do with who's the best mate available.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The rest is baloney.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The worst case of racism I ever saw took place in Pennsylvania, not a southern state.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Discrimination takes place on many levels as GG just proved when she made a broad, general statement about people from the south being more racist than others.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You sound handsome and smart. You'll come across the "right girl" when the time is right.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;YES. I live up North and have been down South, I can tell you overall Northern people are much rurder, and Souther folks are much nicer and easy going.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes, the south is still fighting the civil war and are (for the most part) very racist. I grew up in the north and now live in the south. It is amazing how not too much has changed....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;How should I know? They all look alike to me!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; GOSH, folks! SIMMER DOWN!!! I was just KIDDING!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I honestly have no first-hand experience with "Southern White Folk"... my BF is from Texas, and he keeps reminding me that Texas is DIFFERENT from being "Southern," except when it comes to certain Southern foods and traditions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As for myself, I'm from "JOISEY." We're all screwed up there!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Have a polite day.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1351246067359271581?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1351246067359271581/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/are-white-people-really-different-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1351246067359271581'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1351246067359271581'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/are-white-people-really-different-in.html' title='Are white people really different in the south U.S. Compared to the ones up north U.S.?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-9041559429539171327</id><published>2010-06-22T21:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:35:17.072-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My friend is not really pretty, so i'm going to give her a makeover before graduation. Clothes, face, etc. . She wears too many necklaces/ jewlery, is oblivious on how to put on makeup, and wears a certain shirt every week. The way she wears her clothes are not appealing for nothing really matches. It's like she's colour blind! No, she is not poor, she has tons of clothes, but she doesn't know how to wear them. She has black hair which is bad cuz she got some upper lip hair going on. My other friends are like "she needs to shave or get that thing waxed!" ii do not have any wax, and ii don't think she'll let me shave her upper lip, so will like duct tape work? plz, ne tips u can give will help tremendously! i am limited of special supplies, so ne home found care products/ concoctions will b best! ii also need to know how to shape eyebrows.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;First off, I think it's great that you're doing this for your friend. If she has a lot of clothes, see if you can work with what she has to make a great outfit. Otherwise go shopping - you can probably get a nice summer dress that will show off her body in all the right places. She probably only needs to wear either earrings or a necklace with the dress. And uh, wax the lip? Pluck it? I don't know - it's going to be painful either way. As for makeup, go to a makeup counter at a dept store. They will do her makeup for free and show her how to apply things. Maybe she can use their tips at home with the stuff she has already. As for the eyebrows, don't even attempt it. I'll wax my legs at home, but eyebrows are just something I don't want to mess with. What matters the most is that she is happy about her makeover. I know you want to make her look great, but if she feels like you've made her into someone else then she won't feel comfortable. If she's comfortable then she'll be confident, and that's the main goal. There is no stopping a girl who is confident in herself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay, maybe you can tweeze her upper lip. Works for eyebrows right? Whatever, I wouldn't know.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And make-up. :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My advice... Say a prayer...You're gona need it!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Go to her house and do a test. Ask her to put on her fav outfit, accessorites shoes and all. Then take a picture with a digital camera. Now YOU teach her what would look better, for example lets say shes wearing a dark blue shirt and a jean skirt and a yellow neckalce and pink flipflops then change the flipflops to pink and the necklace to a better color... BUT you cANNOt change the shirt/bottoms. Hav fun&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;EYEBROWS&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Over-tweezing is the number one eyebrow blunder women make, Anastasia says. To find the perfect place to start tweezing, she says to use your natural eye shape to discover where your eyebrows should begin and end.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; By positioning an eyebrow pencil straight up from the middle of your nostril to your eyebrows, you can see the point where the brow should begin. Then, by tilting the pencil on the outside corner of your nose, aligned with the outside corner of your eye, you can find the ending point. Finally, Anastasia says to take a pencil and line it up with the tip of the nose and middle of the eye's iris. The point where it hits the eyebrow is the perfect place for an arch.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; MAKEUP TIPS&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.oprah.com/presents/2005/young...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; this site tells you EVERYTHING to do and not to do with your friends makeup.....good luck to ya! ;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;For $10-25 she can get her eyebrows waxed and her upper lip done at a salon. That will be a lot better than duct tape and someone plucking her eyebrows.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I commend you trying to help your friend look better for graduation but, please limit some of your home repair work. Makeup, yes. Clothes, yes. Hair suggestions, yes. But no duct tape, please.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well darling are you doing this for her or yourself? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; does she want a makeover because you shouldnt try to changer her or her personality could change into a shallow mean Girl&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but if she wants one you could teach her how to apply make up and you can learn how to shape eyebrows by using this site&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.bbc.co.uk/slink/fashion/index...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and honey and avacado can make her skin glow &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but also try sugar waxing her moustache try searching it up on the internet as it is a DIY project&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; make sure she doesnt mind you doing this though&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and maybe buying her a few fashion magz like elle and teen people and seventeen would help her see how to put clothes together&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-9041559429539171327?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/9041559429539171327/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/im-giving-my-friend-makeover-and-ii.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/9041559429539171327'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/9041559429539171327'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/im-giving-my-friend-makeover-and-ii.html' title='I&apos;m giving my friend a makeover and ii need some tips!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4562373611485015186</id><published>2010-06-22T21:34:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:34:44.086-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Question for you all which describes us all?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;does anybody really know me &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; does anybody really care &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i,m a guy who walks down the street&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; with black brown or grey hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; do you see me when i am passing &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; do you smile and say good day&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or do you go about your business&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; it,s just another day&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; would,nt it be nice &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if we could pass each other by &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; with a smile on our face &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and greeting with a hi &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ok it is only wishful thinking would be nice though&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;its just a perfect day &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; oh sorry got caught up in your poem&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;and a red rose behind your ear?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ahhh bless....loves ya&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; xx&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that would be perfect i do it sometimes but people look at me as if i am daft&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I always smile at strangers...It confuses them, when I'm in the car wth my hubby we always 'beep' at strangers and wave, that's funny, as most of them wave back with a confused look!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lovely idea and would so easily work.Lets lobby for a "smile at a stranger day"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if i make eye contact i will say hi&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well when i pass ppl i do smile because i get tired of seeing ppl that have a smug or sad or empty look on their faces. I see the same thing when i see them in their cars. So i do not want to be like them. So I smile at them and sometimes they will smile back. A smile takes no effort, i also wave at ppl that are walking when i am in my car, so i wish everyone would try it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I live in Hawaii and I do this everytime. I smile and say good morning to people I know or don't know. Or I'll smile and say "Hi" as I pass people through out the day. Why not? Doesn't cost me nothing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And if they don't want to smile back or offer a greeting, no biggie! I'm not offended or think the person is rude. Maybe they don't want to greet me. It's their right. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I guess I'm just in a happy place that some people may not be at or care to be at. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just have to remember, it's all good!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you must live in london! There are some places where people smile you know-it's quite a revolutionary, but nice thing!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for you all which describes us all?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Very good sentiment but in the real world?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4562373611485015186?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4562373611485015186/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/question-for-you-all-which-describes-us.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4562373611485015186'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4562373611485015186'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/question-for-you-all-which-describes-us.html' title='Question for you all which describes us all?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-7871571596638960595</id><published>2010-06-22T21:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:34:12.712-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I like this girl at my school. She is...I guess what you'd call "Goth". She dresses in all black with the black hair, black eyeliner, black shoes, etc. Sometimes she wears some bright colors amongst the black, which is cool, too, to break up the all black thing. But anyway...her personality is nice/bubbly. I love that, it's awesome.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'm...NOT "Goth". In fact, I can't be classified into one style. One day I'll wear a 24 inch silver chain, long shirt ("Ghetto" outfit), and the next I'll wear a rock band tee and a studded belt. And the next a polo shirt. See? I'm all over the place. I can pull off an all black look every now and then, but I'm just...NOT "Goth".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My question is...if I asked her out, do you think she'd care the fact that we're so different? The whole "Goth"/all black/eyeliner thing has always been a huge turn-on for me, she has the personality I like, I'm a great bf, honestly...Think it'd work? I overlook differences entirely, but...you think she would? Thanks 閳?br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well, i'm sort of like you i don't really have one kind of style and i hang out with just about everybody. i have alot of gothic friends and at least they are attracted to guys that aren't gothic. love has nothing to do with what you look like, and your style it has to do with feelings and gothic ppl have feelings like everybody else but they usually show them in different ways. i have also been attracted to a gothic person and it ended up that they liked me too. so go for it!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;its not the appearance that matters.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you dare to be different, she dares to be goth. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I seee.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; no harm in trying. I dunno the gurl, sO i can't tell you, but you only live once, so I'd try it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;doesnt matter how you look or dress.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; go for it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Go ahead ask her out and see what she says!!! If she likes you back then you guys are going out...if she doesn't like you then move on with your life!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The only thing to do is ask her out and see what her response is. You sound like a really great guy so go for it!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;only one way to find out!!! go for it... whats the worst that could happen... she could say no... really it aint that big of a deal :p&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think it would be great since you are so all over the place and shes goth.high school is a funny place.i bet you get a lot of whispers if you two were a couple.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; go for it i bet you would have a great time&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'd say go for it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; GL =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i would say it might cross her mind but i don't think it should matter as long as you like her and she like you go for it hope it works out&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;some girls are flat out HOT in goth clothing...others..NOT SO MUCH...but when those girls are hot..they are amazing...goth latinas are all the hotter because those eyes and that smile...DAMN!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;First of all, I think you should talk to her a little more often before you ask her out. If she is anything like me, then she would definitely turn you down without conversation for a while. Girls like to know a little bit more about a guy before they just start dating =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But, I don't think differences such as that would really hurt anything. All that matters is personality. That is all that should be considered in a relationship, if you ask me. I wouldn't want to date someone that was the same as me. That, my friend, would be really boring. Uniqueness is sexy, incomparable. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Go for it. =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-7871571596638960595?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/7871571596638960595/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/highschool-girls-this-is-for-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7871571596638960595'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7871571596638960595'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/highschool-girls-this-is-for-you.html' title='Highschool girls, this is for you (involves stereotypes, adult input rather...unnecessary) Opposites'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1062078164270478771</id><published>2010-06-22T21:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T21:33:40.573-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Interacial dating?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;im 14 and i really want a boyfriend (i know what your thinking oh your too young) yeah well just listen, im hispanic but im not like the tan black hair kind im usually mistaken for a white person.I mean i dont really care what my race is but do think that guys arnt gonna go out with me because of that.I mean i dont think i'm ugly and i have a lot of friends....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Interacial dating?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It depends were you grow up, some parts of the country could really care less about that. Anyway you shouldn't worry about that too much. If someone doesn't like you for your race their not good for you anyway.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Interacial dating?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;and just what do u want?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1062078164270478771?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1062078164270478771/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/interacial-dating.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1062078164270478771'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1062078164270478771'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/interacial-dating.html' title='Interacial dating?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-2608041176297963545</id><published>2010-06-20T18:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:39:03.220-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Lyrics task!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;so me and my friends are in a production class and we want to recreate the song "High school never ends" by bowlig for soup. it would be like a dream and one of my friends would be performing it on a table. (its a dream lol) and i was wondering if anyone wanted to change the lyrics of the song to make it school appropriate and more middle schoolish. like instead of "high school never ends" it would be "middle school never ends." if you read the lyrics, it wouldnt make much sense, but it doesnt really have to lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; thanks. heres the lyrcis -----%26gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "High School Never Ends"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Four years you think for sure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That閳ユ獨 all you閳ユ獫e got to endure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All the total *****&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All the stuck up chicks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So superficial, so immature&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Then when you graduate&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You take a look around and you say HEY WAIT&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is the same as where I just came from&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I thought it was over&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Aw that閳ユ獨 just great&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole damn world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユΞ the best dressed and who閳ユΞ having sex,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ got the money, who gets the honeys,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ kinda cute and who閳ユΞ just a mess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you don閳ユ獩 have the right friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Nothing changes but the faces, the names, and the trends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Check out the popular kids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You閳ユ獟l never guess what Jessica did&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; How did Mary Kate lose all that weight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And Katie had a baby so I guess Tom閳ユ獨 straight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And the only thing that matters&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Is climbing up that social ladder&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Still care about your hair and the car you drive&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Doesn閳ユ獩 matter if you閳ユ獧e sixteen or thirty-five&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Reese Witherspoon,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She閳ユ獨 the prom queen&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bill Gates,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Captain of the chess team&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jack Black, the clown&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Brad Pitt, the quarterback&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I閳ユ獫e seen it all before&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I want my money back&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole damn world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユ獨 the best dressed and who閳ユ獨 having sex,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユ獨 in the clubs and who閳ユ獨 on the drugs,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユ獨 throwing up before they digest&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you don閳ユ獩 have the right friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you閳ユ獧e still listen to the same **** you did back then&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole damn world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユΞ the best dressed and who閳ユΞ having sex,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ got the money, who gets the honeys,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ kinda cute and who閳ユΞ just a mess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I still have the same three friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I閳ユ獡 pretty much the same as I was back then&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Here we go again&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Lyrics task!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;"High School Never Ends"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Four years you think for sure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That閳ユ獨 all you閳ユ獫e got to endure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All the total pricks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All the stuck up chicks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So superficial, so immature&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Then when you graduate&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You take a look around and you say HEY WAIT&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is the same as where I just came from&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I thought it was over&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Aw that閳ユ獨 just great&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole dumb world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユΞ the best dressed and who can't rest,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ got the money, who gets the honeys,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ kinda cute and who閳ユΞ just a mess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you don閳ユ獩 have the right friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Nothing changes but the faces, the names, and the trends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Check out the popular kids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You閳ユ獟l never guess what Jessica did&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; How did Mary Kate lose all that weight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And Katie had a baby so I guess Tom閳ユ獨 straight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And the only thing that matters&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Is climbing up that social ladder&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Still care about your hair and the car you drive&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Doesn閳ユ獩 matter if you閳ユ獧e sixteen or thirty-five&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Reese Witherspoon,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She閳ユ獨 the prom queen&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bill Gates,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Captain of the chess team&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jack Black, the clown&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Brad Pitt, the quarterback&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I閳ユ獫e seen it all before&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I want my money back&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole dumb world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユ獨 the best dressed and who can't rest,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユ獨 in the clubs and who閳ユ獨 on the stuff,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユ獨 throwing up before they digest&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you don閳ユ獩 have the right friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you閳ユ獧e still listen to the same crap you did back then&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole dumb world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユΞ the best dressed and who can't rest,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ got the money, who gets the honeys,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ kinda cute and who閳ユΞ just a mess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I still have the same three friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I閳ユ獡 pretty much the same as I was back then&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-2608041176297963545?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/2608041176297963545/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/lyrics-task.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2608041176297963545'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2608041176297963545'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/lyrics-task.html' title='Lyrics task!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5106794801505333515</id><published>2010-06-20T18:38:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:38:47.287-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Why don't guys ask me out?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;well i am and oreo. i have curly brown hair and a black girlsbooty. my lips are big and full. i have a muscular build my waist is very tiny. my friends say they envy me but i don't get asked out by guys. guys come to me for advice, some do flirt but don't do much else. i dont really care but i just wanna kno why guys dont ask me to dances&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why don't guys ask me out?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;the guy's may think your gonna turn them down, take your time when the right one come along you would know, the ones that don't ask you out are probably a waist of time.you are not a oreo you are a human being oreo's are cookies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why don't guys ask me out?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;How should we know? maybe it's your personality or guys are afraid of you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why don't guys ask me out?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;they are prob intimidated by your looks, switch it up a knotch and you ask them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5106794801505333515?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5106794801505333515/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-dont-guys-ask-me-out.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5106794801505333515'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5106794801505333515'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-dont-guys-ask-me-out.html' title='Why don&apos;t guys ask me out?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-7287915369335274528</id><published>2010-06-20T18:38:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:38:31.404-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;High School Never Ends by: Bowling for Soup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lyrics:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Four years you think for sure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That閳ユ獨 all you閳ユ獫e got to endure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All the total *****&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All the stuck up chicks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So superficial, so immature&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Then when you graduate&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You take a look around and you say HEY WAIT&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is the same as where I just came from&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I thought it was over&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Aw that閳ユ獨 just great&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole damn world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユΞ the best dressed and who閳ユΞ having sex,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ got the money, who gets the honeys,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ kinda cute and who閳ユΞ just a mess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you don閳ユ獩 have the right friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Nothing changes but the faces, the names, and the trends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Check out the popular kids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You閳ユ獟l never guess what Jessica did&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; How did Mary Kate lose all that weight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And Katie had a baby so I guess Tom閳ユ獨 straight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And the only thing that matters&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Is climbing up that social ladder&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Still care about your hair and the car you drive&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Doesn閳ユ獩 matter if you閳ユ獧e sixteen or thirty-five&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Reese Witherspoon,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She閳ユ獨 the prom queen&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bill Gates,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Captain of the chess team&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jack Black, the clown&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Brad Pitt, the quarterback&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I閳ユ獫e seen it all before&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I want my money back&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole damn world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユ獨 the best dressed and who閳ユ獨 having sex,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユ獨 in the clubs and who閳ユ獨 on the drugs,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユ獨 throwing up before they digest&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you don閳ユ獩 have the right friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you閳ユ獧e still listen to the same **** you did back then&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The whole damn world is just as obsessed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With who閳ユΞ the best dressed and who閳ユΞ having sex,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ got the money, who gets the honeys,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who閳ユΞ kinda cute and who閳ユΞ just a mess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I still don閳ユ獩 have the right look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I still have the same three friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And I閳ユ獡 pretty much the same as I was back then&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; High school never ends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;BFS is turing out to be a really good band....lots better than most of the other rock band who have come out in recent years. I really like the song 1985. Thanks for posting this. I probably would've never heard it otherwise. I tend to just listen to cd's or classic rock stations, since most of the music that comes out now just blows.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;'Tis an amazing song!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Now that song is stuck in my head&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sad but true. Life just keeps rolling on...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;???????????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;omg!!! THis is the first time i see this song!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and it sounds so real!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i love it!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;its a good song i guess lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WHAT! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What do YOU MEAN IT NEVER ENDS!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Holy CRAP!! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I gotta make some changes then.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :D ^_^&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I LOVE this. I can completely relate to it. I loved the video too. I'm definitely going to check out this band! (The Circle Jerks have a song that's sort of like this called, "Beverley Hills")&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ur gay&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-7287915369335274528?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/7287915369335274528/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-cannot-get-this-song-outta-my-head.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7287915369335274528'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7287915369335274528'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-cannot-get-this-song-outta-my-head.html' title='I CANNOT get this song outta my head!... (explicit words)?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4647214302432943625</id><published>2010-06-20T18:38:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:38:13.527-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Heres the situation! I need honest answers here, no politically correct grand standing...just let me know what the issue is. Every Mexican man and some Mexican women, when they see me with my wife who happens to be a Mexican princess (Catholic, Gorgeous, Long flowing black hair, short, small waist and big butt). They give me harsh looks, bad customer service. Refuse to assist me sometimes. They make comments behind my back because they assume i dont speak spanish. They flirt with her in front of me. Why do you hate me so much, or is it her? What did we do wrong, her family wont speak to her cause I'm Black. They say shes with a Black man, she is scraping the bottom of the barrel. I work hard, i take care of her, I pay all the bills, i send her family money (mom and grandma), i dont abuse her mentally or physically, i love our kids%26lt; why dont they like me. We were both an oppressed people why cant we bond and share culture?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I am hispanic myself, so maybe I can offer a little insight.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I was raised partly in Colombia and I was exposed to similar attitudes about the color of people's skin. It was considered more desireable to be light skinned - it showed better breeding.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The darker the skin, the kinkier the hair - you were considered to be more of a commoner - lower class.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I used to get dark in the summers and I would get comments about my darker tone. It was all said to me playfully, but I remember always telling people that I was much lighter during the rest of the year. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; At 8 years old, you would think I would not have thought to point that out to anyone unless I felt that being lighter was better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Many maids working in the larger city homes were from an area called El Choco %26amp; were mostly black.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now, this may not be everyone's attitude - but it is what I distinctly remember while living there many years ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Other cultures still have lingering attitudes and ideas about people's skin color. It's something that will hopefully change over time, but may not ever change.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Seriously, it just doesn't matter. You love your wife, she loves you %26amp; you are both living in the "Great American Melting Pot."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Let her family be petty and closed-minded. Ignore what everyone else thinks about this issue. You made your choice to be together and now you must stick to it and not let anyone else break your bond over something so silly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What you need to do is worry about your children and prepare them for any injustices they may face from her family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I wish you the best %26amp; I apologize for the mistreatment you may have received from the hispanic community.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;We all lived in a messed up world... I would that judges everyone by the color of their skin.. language they speak.. culture they're from... but really, none of this stuff matters... because we're all the same inside!!!!!! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The mexicans that talk bad about you and flirt with her are obviously jealous... they're thinking "How could such a beautiful women ruin her heritage?" many people think that they have to stick with their own race... I certainly don't... I'm mexican and my boyfriend is white, I'm fine with it and so is he! But many people give us weird looks so I know how that is!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So I know what sitution you're in... I think you should talk to you're wife's family... tell them how you feel. I'm sure that they'll understand... just use you're heart. everyone has a heart! and if they still refuse to accept you, then they're not worth your time. you're wife should realize that too. and so should you're children. good luck!! I hope everything works out!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well, I am mexican american. And the reason that her family is so absurd is because they can't understand why is it that she couldn't keep on living like her mother and grandmother and the rest of the family tree with a mexican. Mexican tend to be very you-should-follow-what-your-mom-did culture. And the other people who don't like you guys is because mexican women have the reputation on being gold-diggers. Sorry, but is the truth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wow you're wife sounds hot. I bet those guys are just jealous because they couldn't get a great woman like her. Ignore the haters. All that matters is your love for your wife and kids.I have the same problem. I'm also in that type of situation. My sweetie is Cuban and I'm a Black Creole, but I don't care we've been friends for a while and just started to go out. I get called all different types of names the by Latina girls and the Black folks: sellout, mayata, muyo. My boyfriend's crazy ex even questioned my sexual purity and was saying stuff like,"she's a dirty black *****" or "I sleep around town." The worse thing that happened to me while I was with my boyfriend, a couple of guys tried to jump my sweetie but luckily I was close to my house and my mom called the police on them. I really don't care what they say about me and my boy. Love has no color.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I hate to be so frank, but I think they're just mad becasue they themselves couldn't gt a woman like her. I, being half mexican, can say that another reason they act that way is because a lot of mexicans or hispanics atleast see someone that's a little darker as "undesirable" or "lower class". It's the truth. Growing up my parents always had a desire for a more light skinned grandson. I never agreed, and still don't because love has nothing to do with the outside, but everything on the inside. I wish you two the best of luck and don't care about what people think.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay, I see you have some wonderful answers but I myself as well as these others are mexican so this is what I think. My family is the same way. I was dating a black guy and my father pretty much disowned me. Alot of mexican families are like this because it deals with a sense of "La Raza". They want to keep the blood pure but have failed to realize that even their blood is not pure all in itself. Aztec and Spaniard, or Mayan and Spaniard, etc. there is an "and" inbetween those words. The mexican community is probably treating you that way because they feel she has "sold out" so to speak by marrying a black man. Also alot of mexican-americans and african-americans do not seem to get along. Using words like miatte and such. If you love her, and she loves you than I wouldn't lose to much sleep over it. I'm sure you two are wonderful for each other reguardless of the heritage you both possess.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wow man i feel sorry for u! im mexican-american so i know what u mean! they prefer that they marry in their own race! i have very few family members that have married non mexican men or women, but they dont really think nothing of it! not all mexicans are alike, it sounds like ur wifes family is messed up! some mexicans think there better than other people! its mostly the light skinned mexicans that feel that way! dont worry about her family! worry about your wife and kids, damn your wife sounds hot!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; hope everything works out for u buddy!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4647214302432943625?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4647214302432943625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/machismo-mexican-men-mirra.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4647214302432943625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4647214302432943625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/machismo-mexican-men-mirra.html' title='Machismo Mexican Men mirra!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-7110229782486257694</id><published>2010-06-20T18:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:38:00.145-07:00</updated><title type='text'>British guys over 30, do you remember this?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Snooker loopy nuts are we&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Me and him and them and me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We'll show you what we can do &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With a load of balls and a snooker cue&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Snooker loopy nuts are we&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Me and him and them and me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We'll show you what we can do &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With a load of balls and a snooker cue&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Pot the reds then, skrew back&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For the yellow green brown blue pink and black&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Snooker loopy nuts are we&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We're all snooker loopy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; from the good old days when snooker was cool&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Remember good old Steve Davies, Dennis Taylor, Jimmy White, Hurricane Higgins, Cliff Thuborn, Willie Thorn, Tony Knowles, Ray Reardon, Kirk Stevens?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Those were the days when Robson was captain of England, footballers didn't care about their hair, and rock music ruled the radio waves&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes, I remember. Len Ganley should be Prime Minister :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes they were the days never to return.Memories&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wasnt a snooker fan but remember the song very well&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes,Happy days long gone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm going to be singing that bl**dy song all night now, lol.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Think it was Chas and Dave.... awful cheesy double act, 2 blokes with beards singing about contemporary issues in a "knees up Mother Brown" kind of way....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bloody funny though!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes I remember, but it wasn't by choice considering we only had 3 channels, and you can guarantee the others were showing panorama and songs of praise!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;British guys over 30, do you remember this?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There was never a time when footballers didn't care about their hair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-7110229782486257694?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/7110229782486257694/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/british-guys-over-30-do-you-remember.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7110229782486257694'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7110229782486257694'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/british-guys-over-30-do-you-remember.html' title='British guys over 30, do you remember this?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-3052187099212898095</id><published>2010-06-20T18:37:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:37:43.160-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Do you think this poem deserved to win?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;the following poem won me first place at a poem contest.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; do you think it deserved to win?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Steven Bonafide Rojas&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Invisible Ones&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We walked&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We talked&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We bought&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We fought&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We lived&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We died&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We are the ones&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With accents in conversations&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who get passed by on every street&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As something else&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Urban jibaros&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Questions of skin complexion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Light or dark&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 椹碊e d璐竛de eres?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We who are&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In the middle of every discussion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Of race relations because we are dark light&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Spanish English speaking tongues&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Broken dialects to go with broken dreams&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We who are&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Fed images of false equal opportunities&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And non-green carded citizenship&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Capitalism and congressman&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Put us all in the arms of big brother&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The stranglehold of the IRS taxes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We who are&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cursed by machismo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Love salsa and meringue&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Battled for self respect and our independence&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Considered second-class citizens,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A prize of war of bloody Sundays&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Radiation treatments&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For I will tell you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bombed by Vieques and bombed by Bushwick&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Gentrified Harlem and justice rallies&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Your existence we protested&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you fired your utensils of death&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; On women, children, and men&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All dressed in white&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Invisible&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We who breath&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The same polluted air&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The same infectious water&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Pray to the same gods&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sit by each other on the same train&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Eat food in the same places&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Listen to the same music&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Attend the same schools&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But are always in the middle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Trapped in the television of life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That閳ユ獨 black and white&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Never believed in Technicolor dreams&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Only in the color of green&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Underpaid and over slaved&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sweatshops and chop shops&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In a schizophrenic American dream&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Invisible&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We who fought&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Over which island is better than which&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; On New York streets&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Speaking colonized English&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Instead of colonized Spanish&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And fight over who has&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The better food, better music,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Better ball players and better cars&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Which are either American, Japanese, or German made&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Never understood that we閳ユ獧e all from a history&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That neglected us&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Transformed us from savage Indians&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; To 21st century Pepsi pop stars&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And never cared for our culture&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Unless they can make a profit out of it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A media that bleaches our color&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; From our skin and believes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We all come with Eurocentric features with English tongues&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We have afros and dreads&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Straight hair, curly, kinky&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Black, blonde, red hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Thin and thick lipped&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Brown eyes, blue, green&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hazel contacted eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Full spectrum of life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Rainbow閳ユ獨 beauty&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Never understood&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Our full potential&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For our darkness and brightness&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We are the invisible ones&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We walked&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We talked&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We bought&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We fought&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We lived&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We died&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But all we wanted was&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; To be seen, heard, and respected&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Because we bleed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Like everyone else does.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you think this poem deserved to win?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Put it to rap music, it might fly somewhere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you think this poem deserved to win?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thats been proven to be a fraud&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you think this poem deserved to win?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well if it was a contest of reading poetry and you read it well then yes. If it was a contest of writing poetry well then you plagiarized ( well actually just plain ripped off ) someone elses work.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; its a pretty well put together work albeit really long.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you think this poem deserved to win?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i write and read poetry, i appreciate a good poem when i read it. yes it's good. but i must tell you it sounds a little racist. i agree with it, but what does it have to do with illegals?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you think this poem deserved to win?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is a reall good good poem but the fact is illegal is breaking the law no matter how beautiful you make it sound.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you think this poem deserved to win?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I like it. It's a little long but it's a good poem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-3052187099212898095?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/3052187099212898095/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/do-you-think-this-poem-deserved-to-win.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3052187099212898095'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3052187099212898095'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/do-you-think-this-poem-deserved-to-win.html' title='Do you think this poem deserved to win?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4189301146532044051</id><published>2010-06-20T18:37:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:37:26.976-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Miley Cyrus' New Look?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;She just recently dyed her hair a dark brown/black color.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Love it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hate it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't care&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i luv it actually i think her dark hair looks better then ugly brown.. but i luv hannah hair wayy much better!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i luv emily osment!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;dont care&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;#3&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;LOVE IT 閳?br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Who cares?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;she's trying to b punk, but she's just a fu***kng b*tch&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ehh. :\&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;its ok&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's a beautiful girl...I love it =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I really don't like it because its like shes trying to be a punk person or what preppy was more her style!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;IT CHANGED MY LIFE WHEN I SAW IT - IT REALLY DID.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;D. Who?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Oh phleeeeeze , enough now, this shite is doin me nut in.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think it looks good do love it !!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't really care for it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;dont care.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i think she shouldnt keep changing it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I actually like it, i think its fits her well&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I really don't care &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but i liked it a little better brown&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hate it, it looks like a spider's on her head...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She looks HORRIBLE.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I liked her hair when it was brown long and curly, it doesn't look very good now&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;very irrelevant waste of letterz&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's like a Megan Fox wannabe.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.flickr.com/photos/brazuky/728...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Miley Cyrus' New Look?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;hate it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4189301146532044051?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4189301146532044051/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/miley-cyrus-new-look.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4189301146532044051'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4189301146532044051'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/miley-cyrus-new-look.html' title='Miley Cyrus&apos; New Look?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-618740062660433017</id><published>2010-06-20T18:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:37:10.809-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Make School Uniform Look Better?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;The uniform is polo shirts and no jeans. The colors are navy blue, white, khaki, yellow/gold, gray, and black. They don't care about jewelery and sweaters. What kind of jewelry, hairstyles, hair accessories, and shoes can go with this? What colors go together? I appreciate all the help! Thanks!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Make School Uniform Look Better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wear like a cute in-style necklace, but don't overdo it, like not a bracelet, necklace and earings just maybe a necklace and earings. anyway- for your hair. you could straighten it one day, curl it the next, then tie it up in a bun or a ponytail, or you could get a layered hair cut (if u don't already have one) and maybe put a ribbon in it (like a headband) .you can wear gold flats. flats are really cute. and now for the colors. you can really do anything, like gray and yello, gray/black, gray/white. then yellow/white, yellow/gray.but u might not want to do khaki with white a lot. Hope it helps, i wear uniform, too so i know how it feels =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Make School Uniform Look Better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;idk..that's hard =] GL anyways hehe.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Make School Uniform Look Better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;make sure you have your basics first. get a good pair of black pants, chocolate brown pants, a pair of brown moccasins and a pair of ballet flats, either leppard print or black with bows on them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; now, accessorize! if you buy brown and black pants, you can go crazy with everything else. invest in a big, semi-gaudy watch that you can wear everyday. colorful, chunky bracelets will really help, too. i wear silver stud earrings that look really neat when you put your hair in pigtails or a low sidepony. headbands can really look good, too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-618740062660433017?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/618740062660433017/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/make-school-uniform-look-better.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/618740062660433017'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/618740062660433017'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/make-school-uniform-look-better.html' title='Make School Uniform Look Better?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-434711320279652876</id><published>2010-06-20T18:36:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:36:39.030-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Guys, which girl do you prefer?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;pick one of these 5 girls based on thier looks:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Mel- 5'3", kinda chubby tummy but curvy, straight brown hair shoulder length, big brown eyes, small feet and hands, skinny legs, 36 C cup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Karen- 5'0", tiny, small hands and feet, wavy blonde hair shoulder length, medium blue eyes, skinny yet curvy in the legs, hips, ect. 28 B cup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Becky- 5'8", skinny, but cuvry, has no belly and a small butt, curley auburn hair just past the shoulder, big brown eyes, skinny fingers, 30 D cup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cindy- 5'6", very curvy and a little chubby all around, has a round butt, short black hair, black eyes with eye makeup, 34 DD cup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lindsey- 5'4", very skinny, barely curvy, has stick straight blonde hair just above her shoulders, has baby blue eyes and wears lots of makeup, 30 A cup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now pick your favorite personality:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Heather- serious, laid-back, on time, dependable&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hayley- bubbly and fun, energetic, likes to make people happy when they are sad&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hannah- shy, likes to tease, likes to take care of close friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys, which girl do you prefer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;mel and heather&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys, which girl do you prefer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;karen - hannah&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys, which girl do you prefer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;karen and hayley&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys, which girl do you prefer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;hayley&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys, which girl do you prefer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;cindy and hayley&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-434711320279652876?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/434711320279652876/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-which-girl-do-you-prefer.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/434711320279652876'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/434711320279652876'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-which-girl-do-you-prefer.html' title='Guys, which girl do you prefer?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-969831907713028790</id><published>2010-06-20T18:36:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:36:22.182-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Question for ALL ?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Hello&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; what is your favorite style on a girl or guy ?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; mine on a guy....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; def. dark hair. i like black. has a mystery about him. hair a little gothicish, but still can look like an adult and not a 15 year old.. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; doesnt really care about how he looks and is into working out with me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Personality: isint cocky or rude. doesnt say mean things about any women. always there for me, good listener. easy to watch tv with, and of course, funny.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for ALL ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I like guys with a nice smile or eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And they gotta have a good sense of humour!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Question for ALL ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I like guys with dark hair and light eyes. I think that's so sexy. I like them to play with their hair. I love David Beckham's hair. He looks good in any style. I like guys to wear emo/prep type clothes. Like...Fitted jeans, and fitted tshirt, and a studded belt. I love guys with defined facial features. As for body type I like lean, muscular. Not too skinny, not too bulky. Can't be too pale. I like tanned/light skinned skin complexions. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For references, look at Beckham:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://mlmblog.typepad.com/blog/images/2...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.villami.com/blog/wp-content/u...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.hollyscoop.com/BlogImages/697...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He has great bone structure, a hot body, and not afraid to experiment with his hair. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Personality: a little cocky/very confident, fun, good listener/talker, open-minded, somewhat independent, sucessful, funny.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-969831907713028790?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/969831907713028790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/question-for-all.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/969831907713028790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/969831907713028790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/question-for-all.html' title='Question for ALL ?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-6950445614560734236</id><published>2010-06-20T18:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:36:06.179-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Relaxed or Natural, Or does it Matter?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I am a member of a site called Napptruality. It is a great site for educating yourself on how to care for Natural hair, and to find out what products work. But I don't visit it often.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Why don't I visit often? Because, this site and majority of the members hate relaxers and love to tell you about it, and what they think of those who wear relaxers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Once just to create Drama, I posted that I loved relaxers and straightening my hair, and that I had no intentiono of given up the "Chemical Fire Cream" as they call it up. If they new where I lived I probably would have gotten death threats. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; To all my brothas and sistas wear your hair how you want. I discovered I love being natural. However, that dosen't make me more black or even more acceptant of my race or culture, it just means I like being "Nappy". &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Anywho, my question is, Does it Matter?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Relaxed or Natural, Or does it Matter?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Chemical Fire Creamer!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Your hair is gonna fall out!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Were gonna find you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I am joking. Your story made me laugh. Thank you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Relaxed or Natural, Or does it Matter?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't think it does anymore.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I finally decided to grow my hair out of the "fire cream". I couldn't decide what I would do for the transition - cut it all off or maybe put in some braids or twists for a while. I went searching through all the magazines and internet images I could find for ideas on what "style" I could wear. The sheer volume and variety of styles I found suggests to me that it doesn't matter anymore.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'm getting real excited about my return to my natural "roots"!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Relaxed or Natural, Or does it Matter?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ok, yeah I'm not black but stuff like this drives me nuts. Just because one group of people like to do things a certain way does NOT mean the entire world has to do it their way too. I think you should be happy which means doing what YOU want with YOUR hair. If you want to straighten your hair, good for you. If you want to go for a natural look, great.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I got a perm over 2 years ago and my hair is still curly. People tell me all the time that my hair will stay curly now and I have seriously considered straightening it because the curls drive me crazy, I can't imagine what you go through.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Relaxed or Natural, Or does it Matter?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sounds like the people on that site have way too much time on their hands. The answer to your question, is NO, it doesn't matter. Who cares? Do your hair how it looks best on you, not based on how others define your "Blackness." Not everyone has the same type of hair. I'm black, but I could never have one of those awesome afros that my mom rocked back in the day b/c my hair is just too soft. So, I relax my hair and look fabulous doing it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Relaxed or Natural, Or does it Matter?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, it doesn't matter. I tried growing my hair out naturally because I loved how it looked on certain people but the longer I had my hair natural (almost 2 years) the more I hated it. It just wasn't for me. The style just didn't match "me." So now I'm back to being relaxed and just taking better care of my hair. I don't understand why some women who have natural hair want to attack women with relaxed hair for our choice in hairstyle. It's a style decision, not a race decision.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-6950445614560734236?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/6950445614560734236/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/relaxed-or-natural-or-does-it-matter.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6950445614560734236'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6950445614560734236'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/relaxed-or-natural-or-does-it-matter.html' title='Relaxed or Natural, Or does it Matter?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4521490087312388945</id><published>2010-06-20T18:35:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:35:50.630-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Girl question?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;alright i asked a question earlier but i didnt word it right, basically i think my personality is everything a girl would want i am extermly emotional, im NOT emo i just really care about peoople and stuff u know?, want just love no sex in a relationship, would care deelply about her, just have no idea how to talk to girls gfless for life at 18 almost and dont know what to do. I am 5 6, muscular, long black emoish hair that curls at the end, its frizzy sometimes but i brush it a lot to stop that from happening, well thats how i look. Theres an emo style girl (she dresses emo but is a normal girl not like emo wierdo) that i really like seems like the one but never talked to her, how could i approach her without being creepy, i pass her at lucn and in the hallway alot. Ive been told i am creepy before by the way i talk, I get nervous around people I guess just have poor social skills. Would saying hi with a smile be enough? Thanks for input.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You just need to talk to her one day and not worry about how you sound or anything like that. If you feel like you could date her make a move and see. If not find another girl. To get a gf you will have to take some risks and try which is hard but you gotta do it chief!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you definitely sound good...and the emotional part makes you sound even more attractive so i think you shouldnt have a problem getting her once you get over the sick...quesy..nervous feeling around her. Saying hi with a smile is good for a start but i think if you want to get closer, try hanging around her like where is goes sometimes or whereever. Bring some buddies along to make it look not as obvious. Try saying things like "hey, how's it going?", or "I like that top ur wearing"...compliments usually work...most guys dont have the best social skills around girls...i can see that..but if what you say is what you mean...like ull care deeply and that stuff...once she gets to know you. She should really really like you..cuz its hard to get guys that say and feel things like that. Just be yourself and maybe try being where is she a bit more..and smile more too. she should start noticing, even if you dont talk to her..lotsa luv..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Saying hi with a smile will be a great start. :) Slip her a note with a compliment and a way to contact you if you don't want to talk. If you're willing to talk, ask if you could join her for lunch(or to sit at her table when you are done eating.).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;why, you mumbling too much! girls don't like that dude. don't take it too serious. be cool yeah!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your not weird..people that dont know u just dont understand you. smiling at her is a good way of saying hi.. i recommend trying to find her on myspace, then try to message her from there. just start out with saying hi, or something.. if you dont have a myspace, make one!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You suffer from social retardation (don't take that the wrong way I was too). And you need to get over the Emo label people are people trendy hair cut or no. You sound very cute but perhaps a bit lacking in the self confidence department. You have to know what you want and go for it thats what girls want. If you really like this girl then be the stereotypical man get her attention only to avoid her be short when you speak but do something unexpected and sweet every once in a while she'll swoon! Its sad to say thats what girls want but its true if you give her too much attention too fast she'll get bored.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;dude, make your move or else you will forever be the door opener of this girl that you like... anyway when you smile at her make sure you have eye to eye contact... goodluck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girl question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i would actually think highly of you if you want love from me for example and not just sex,if she is really emo,try giving her a poem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4521490087312388945?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4521490087312388945/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/girl-question.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4521490087312388945'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4521490087312388945'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/girl-question.html' title='Girl question?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-8881181111616697712</id><published>2010-06-20T18:35:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:35:34.760-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Is there racial discrimination in hiring?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;This is a repeat to the same question now resolved. I need to reply to a person citing Reverse Racial Discrimination slighting Whites. I suggest you merely state you are Black on the application or in your resume. Let me know how that helps you out. If you get called in to the interview, perhaps a bit of black or brown shoe polish will help you get that favoritism you are talking about. But I'll bet a dollar to a doughnut you don't get the interview. I'm White. But I sure wouldn't care to be Black and applying for jobs. Its tough enough not being 6 feet tall with blonde hair and blue eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sadly discrimination will always be there because were human. It would be futile to say that we dont prefer someone over the other. Take note, I said that while its futile to say we dont prefer it, our actions can be controlled.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Im also not in favor of quotas: that they need to hire 5 females at least, or 5 handicapped people.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Let the job go to the best qualified applicant.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I suggest people in HR be blindfolded when they interview applicants. Much of what and how we judge others is based on what we see (its something like 87% right? that we use sight to judge people, 87% of our judgement is based on it?) so it would equalize things if they were just like Lady Justice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;u gonna try that&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There is all kinds of rascists. This would be a yes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;DITTO!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes, there is racial discrimination in hiring. There are all kinds of laws about it, but there are so many ways to get around those laws. Most employers want, among other things, someone they can identify with and feel comfortable with. God bless the ones who give people of other ethnic groups and races a chance in the workplace. And, yes, I am white.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You could take the Racial part out and just leave the discrimination. I am sure throughout history racial discrimination has been the most prevalent. However the level of descrimination out in the workplace is simply overwhelming. Your too short, tall, fat, skinny, smart, stupid, immature, mature, young, old, white, black, brown, the list could go on and on. No one is safe.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Honey, every applicant is discriminated by the employer to get the employee that they desire.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is there racial discrimination in hiring?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You bet its called reverse discrimination and its excepted by all the so called broad minded liberal hypocrits that cry all the time how whitey is the root of all evil. Talk about double standards. I think a person should be hired by his or her job skills and knowledge not on how many females, minorities, or handi capped people they have on staff. Its called QUOTAS and its for real. I know some lilly livered liberal is going to cry the blues about this reply but its because they know I speak the truth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-8881181111616697712?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/8881181111616697712/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/is-there-racial-discrimination-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8881181111616697712'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8881181111616697712'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/is-there-racial-discrimination-in.html' title='Is there racial discrimination in hiring?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-2573469123574611021</id><published>2010-06-20T18:35:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:35:19.897-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Rate my story on a 1-10! Tell me what can be improved and what you like! 1- 2 chapter?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;鈥淐UT!鈥?Jason, the director cried. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15 year old Lily Evans and her two co-stars, Lila Trace and Dan Borski, sighed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When Lily had got the main role in the new movie, Lookout, seven months ago, she would have never have dreamed it would be this hard. If she did no more than blink at the wrong time, this was no doubt that Jason would notice and make them start over. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淕uys,鈥?Jason said in a disappointed tone, 鈥淲hen people buy tickets to see my movie, they are expecting it seem real, not like a bunch of kids acting it out poorly. Start from the top, and please make it good this time. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lily, Dan and Lila exchanged a three-way eye roll before starting the scene over鈥?again. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淎aaaaaand ACTION!鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淢arie, I鈥檓 sorry.鈥?Dan acted. 鈥淛ust listen to me-鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淣o!鈥?Lily screamed, forcing tears down her cheeks. 鈥淵ou have no idea how much you hurt me! Just- Just leave me alone.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She waited for the end of Lila鈥檚 line, for that was her cue to walk off set, but it never came. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淢ike,鈥?she started, pretending to tell off Dan 鈥淵ou are such a-鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lila broke into a fit of giggles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚鈥檓 sorry, I鈥檓 sorry,鈥?she apologized to Jason, trying not to laugh, 鈥淚t鈥檚 just-鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Making it even worse, Lily and Dan started cracking up because of Lila鈥檚 sudden burst of giggles and the raged look on Jason鈥檚 face. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淓NOUGH!鈥?Jason screamed over the laughter, 鈥淓veryone take 5.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jason looked at the three stars still laughing uncontrollably and rephrased his statement.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淢ake that 10.鈥?He sighed cradling his head in his hands. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Wiping there eyes, Lily, Dan, and Lila walk over to the food cart. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淭hat was so funny.鈥?Lily giggled, grabbing a handful of skittles. 鈥淒id you see Jason鈥檚 face?鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚 know,鈥?Lila laughed back. 鈥淗e has absolutely no sense of humor whatsoever.鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淏ut that鈥檚 why it鈥檚 so fun to get him mad,鈥?Dan agreed, taking a swig of Dr. Pepper, 鈥淩emember that time when we put a whoopee cushion on his director鈥檚 chair?鈥? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lily laughed at the memory. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淵eah, he was so mad, his face was priceless.鈥?Lila smiled, 鈥淕ood thing he never realized it was us.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淛ust think about what he鈥檇 do if he did find out,鈥?Lily Pondered.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The three shuddered at the thought. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淗ey,鈥?Dan said to Lily and Lila, 鈥淟ets go somewhere after work.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淵eah like鈥hili鈥檚 or something?鈥?Lila suggested. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚f we survived,鈥?Lily rolled her eyes, as Jason yelled for them to get on set.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dan smiled. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She looked into his baby blue eyes. Every time Lily did she found a scene of two people together. The girl had curly red and bright green eyes as Lily did. Like Dan, the tall boy had jet black hair and blue eyes. This time, the girl was being given a piggyback by the boy, in a calm and serene field of flowers. The girl was laughing as she was put down by the boy. She seemed so carefree, happy and safe as the boy put his hands with hers. He tucked her hair behind her ear. There lips meet. Lily smiled. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淯h, Lily?鈥?Dan laughed as he waved his hands in front of her face, 鈥淎re you there?鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She was suddenly thrown out of the field of flowers and into the studio. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥h sorry, just thinking,鈥?Lily鈥檚 face grew hot as she twisted her ____ ring as an excuse not to look up. How long had she been standing there with that blank, goofy grin on her face? That was what the problem about staring at Dan鈥檚 eyes. They filled her with a warm feeling as she did, but after, she ended up feeling like an idiot. But they were so tempting to look at鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲rong. You where doing something, but you defiantly weren鈥檛 thinking.鈥?he said imitating her face, putting on a dumb grin, and Lila laughed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She winced. Had she really looked that stupid?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淪hut up.鈥?Lily said half annoyed-half amused. Dan had a way with words. As a result, things that he did or said wouldn鈥檛 have been as funny if someone else had. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淎nyway,鈥?he said changing subjects, 鈥淕uys, meet me at my car at around 6. Don鈥檛 worry you鈥檒l have plenty of time to do you hair, Lila,鈥?he added.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lily laughed, because everyone who knew Lila, knew she took forever to do her hair. For Lily, it took about 5 minutes and Lila didn鈥檛 know how she did it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淏ut I don鈥檛 understand how it looks so good! You don鈥檛 do anything with it!鈥?she always said after they got out of the dressing room after work. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲ell anyway,鈥?Dan said, 鈥淟et鈥檚 get going, before Jason kills us.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥ne sec,鈥?Lila said, 鈥淵ou go. I need to ask Lily something.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Once Dan was out of sight, Lila said in a sing-song voice, 鈥淟ooks like someone has a crush on Dan Borski!鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚 do not!鈥?Lily lied, hoping she sound convincing, 鈥淗e鈥檚 just a friend. You know that.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥kaaaayy鈥?Lila said once again in her sing-song voice, obviously not believing her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; They walked over to the set, and Lily couldn鈥檛 help but to think of her conversation with Lila. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淟ooks like someone has a crush on Dan Borski!鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚 do not!鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But that wasn鈥檛 the truth. Not even close. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dan and Lily stood by Dan鈥檚 car at exactly 6:00, waiting for Lila. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲ell, this is strange, Lila鈥檚 late!鈥?Lily said sarcastically checking her watch, 鈥淭his isn鈥檛 like her at all.鈥? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This was a joke of course; Lila was always late, for everything. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dan laughed. 鈥淵eah probably working on her hair, as I predicted.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The conversation became awkward after that. Lily, who usually had a lot to say, kept quiet. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲hat if I say something, and he thinks I鈥檓 weird?鈥?Lily thought frightfully to herself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Half of Lily knew that that would never happen. Dan just wasn鈥檛 that kind of person. But her other half told her to be cautious. That part overpowered the other.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥h look, there鈥檚 Lila.鈥?Said Lily, relieved. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淪orry I鈥檓 late guys,鈥?said Lila running over, 鈥淚 was just-鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淔ixing your hair?鈥?Lily finished, innocently. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dan laughed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淗a. Ha. You鈥檙e funny,鈥?Lila said opening the car door. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚 know,鈥?Lily said getting in the front seat with Dan, 鈥淲hat can I say?鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lily Turned on the radio and Me Love By: Sean Kingston filled the car with sound.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥h, my favorite song!鈥?said Lila and Dan at the same time. Although, Lila sounded genuine and Dan鈥檚 words were dripping with sarcasm. Lily laughed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Rolling down the window, Lily let the sun-kissed air hit her face and started singing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥h, oh, oh, oh, oh, ohhh, why鈥檇 you have to go-oo away from hoooome, Me love.鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lila joined in the next verse swaying her hands in the air. All Dan did was roll his eyes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淐ome on guys,鈥?Dan begged, 鈥淵ou鈥檙e embarrassing me!鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淵ou? Embarrassed?鈥?Lila snorted, 鈥淪ure!鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lily laughed too. He never got embarrassed. One time the two girls dared him to sit on the bench at the park where a couple was sitting. Not only did he do that, but he added a 鈥淐an you scoot over? I鈥檓 squished!鈥?Out of all the traits of Dan she admired, she probably admired his 鈥楴othing can embarrass me!鈥?attitude the most. This was probably because that skill was something she didn鈥檛 have. Whenever someone came over and gave her a compliment, she would blush ferociously.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淐ome on! Sing along!鈥?Lily teased Dan, slapping him playfully. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淯h, no thanks,鈥?Dan said punching her arm lightly. Lily felt a shock go up her arm and into her heart, when his skin touched hers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When they got to Chili鈥檚 heads turned, people whispered. As much as Lily hated it, she just smiled at them politely, mostly to hide her annoyed face. This happened all the time, and Lily had learned how to ignore it. But really, she was just a person going to dinner with some friends. Not an exhibit at the zoo. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淭able for three?鈥?asked the waitress. They all smiled and nodded. Lily was glad she was treating them like normal people- instead of pleading for an autograph.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淗ere you go,鈥?said the waitress pointing at the table, and the three sat down. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Even though Lily had never talked to the waitress in her life, she could tell she was a nice person. A person that didn鈥檛 care about what a person was on the outside, but on the inside. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淪o,鈥?Lila started, 鈥淪urprisingly enough, I wasn鈥檛 late because I was working on my hair, I was on my cell. And you鈥檒l never guess who called!鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲ho?鈥?Lily and Dan said together.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淐ody Lanoka!鈥?she squealed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥hmygod! Why?鈥?Lily squealed back.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cody Lanoka, was one of the 鈥榟eart-throbs鈥?listed in Teen-People magazine. He listed number 5, and boy, was he hot. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲ell,鈥?she said leaning towards Dan and Lily, 鈥淗e鈥檚 throwing a party on next Saturday and鈥? He wants us to come! From what others have heard, it鈥檚 going to be the hottest party of the year.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The two girls squealed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲hy didn鈥檛 you tell me this before?鈥?Lily giggled.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淚 just need the right time to say it,鈥?Lila answered, 鈥淧lus with that hair comment, I thought you deserved it.鈥?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lily laughed and the waitress handed them their food.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淲here is it?鈥?Dan asked. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 鈥淥h, I鈥檓 not sure yet, but he said you needed at date, or you can鈥檛 come.鈥?Lila sighed, 鈥淭hat will stink if I can鈥檛 find one.鈥?br&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lily sighed too. She was sort of 鈥榖oy shy鈥? She barely talked to guys, let alone ask one on a date! She looked over at Dan. Anyway, the one guy she would even think of asking would say no. He wasn鈥檛 interested in her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate my story on a 1-10! Tell me what can be improved and what you like! 1- 2 chapter?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;10 boy what a great read!!! Couldn't put it down. Best out there. Okay no really. How are supposed to rate it if you don't post it????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate my story on a 1-10! Tell me what can be improved and what you like! 1- 2 chapter?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;where is your story?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; how can we read it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; how can we rate your story if you didnt post it to let us read?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate my story on a 1-10! 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Tell me what can be improved and what you like! 1- 2 chapter?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-3985978450673511780</id><published>2010-06-20T18:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:35:02.843-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Dear .................................</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;They liked the Arabs are inherent features : flour nose, and eyes wide Alekhailh and net long neck and body riddled with long black hair and white skin treated net and the Indians , the Persians and they tend to be leaner ... ** West, longitude Alvara ** Algerbeiin at this time. 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The quiet voice, which are given small and thin and close Mshitha written and height were considered a shame for women in favor ** Alaskimoa, the most important ** smell something! some peoples, such as Alaskimoa and the Red Indians : Brahatha particularly interested in the mouth and the smell of hair and body as keen on the development of aroma&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Dear .................................&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;?!?!?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Dear .................................&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;They are saying those hoes are hot!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-3985978450673511780?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/3985978450673511780/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/dear.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3985978450673511780'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3985978450673511780'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/dear.html' title='Dear .................................'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5333663931520647429</id><published>2010-06-20T18:34:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:34:46.290-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;would you not want to talk to me? i kind of get the impression that people dont really want to talk to me at school, only people with the same interest as me, which is kool, but i just want to know what you (the individual) think, im not goth but i do wear white powder, thick black eyeliner and black eyeshadow, and have shoulder length black hair, i listen to bands such as cannibal corpse, behemoth, cryptopsy, six feet under, would you be interested in being friends or not? be brutally honest i dont care if you say hell no or w/e&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, I wouldn't. You may be a great person but...Like my dad always said. If you dress up like a fireman, people are going to think you are a fireman. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In a perfect world this would not be the case but as you are well aware, we don't live in a perfect world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That's not what I mean... If you wear death metal shirts and black jeans, white powder and thick black eyeliner people will usually think one of two things...stonner (pot head) or you are easy. I am not saying that's who you are, you may be a wonderful person but people believe what they see. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And the fact that you had to ask this question, you are seeing the same thing. Again, I am not saying it's right, I am saying that's the way it is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;this was NOT the answer i was looking for, and i dont like you because of what you said &lt;span&gt;Report It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I am sorry but I guess other people did like what I said. I guess you were looking for people to agree with you and not be honest. &lt;span&gt;Report It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Maybe next time you should clarify that you only want people to respond who will agree with what you are asking. &lt;span&gt;Report It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;can u show me a picture of what you look like so i can answer the right way.......i mean i would say yes and cannibal corpse is good....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;of course i would talk to you im a generally friendly person, but some people can be very judgemental and won't talk to you. or if they do talk to you they will hold an opinon about you in your head about they way they think you will be. your not goth the way you dress but what you should do is wear thick black eyeliner but perhaps subsitiute your eyeliner for some dark purple or another dark color because complete black indicates one thing to both other kids and parents your a bad influence or you'll be rude its an annoying sterotype i know. don't wear the white powder either just wear some light foundation. hope this helps%26lt;3&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i think i would confront you look open when people are around don't cross your arms, but more importantly don't give a **** what people think of you if they are truly good friends they will not judge you on your ******* appearance&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;to be perfectly honest youve pretty much reached an extreme. at my school wed prob hang out but for most people its just too different. i understand where your comming from though. what ive seen a lot of people do is just kinda tone it down, get into like dark blue jeans rather than black or something like that, just little things seem to work after a while if youre that concerned about it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;lesbian...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; at least you don't dress like a whore or a hooker.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;omg there is someone else out there like me!!!! nice to meet you i am jenni. i have never met another girl who listens to six feet under or cannibal corpse. there is nothing wrong with you and yes i would talk to you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I wouldn't be interested in being your friend because you act stupid and **** all over my genre of music that belongs to me, it is mine, you can't have it, the exclusive death metal club is full, go home. I might talk to you if I'm bored or if I need someone to make fun of for thinking that they're something special. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lose the white powder, thick black eyeliner, (I'm cool with the black hair), change your pants, don't be a sullen little brat who hates her parents, find out about some actual death metal bands instead of mainstream bullshit, stop trying so hard, spell "cool" correctly, don't cry to security when people push you and slam into you at concerts, and then we can be friends. Remember, I'll be judging you by the bands on your shirt. :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; PS: Obviously you care, otherwise you wouldn't be asking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't worry about it sunshine. i grew up in plainfield nj, and was one of the few white kids in my high school. at the time i was hard core into punk rawk and came to school in my normal plaid blue and yellow split pants, bi-hawk, and ripped misfits shirt. i regularly had to fight my way into being respected and left alone. when i got kicked out of school i was sent to an "alternative" school and had the exact same problem. i was a screwed up sociopath heroin addict and was getting into brutal fights every day. luckily after that summer when i came back to the alternative school i met a girl named cait that blew me away. at the time she was very sceneter into grindcore and screamo but dressed normal. she saw through all my bull **** and helped save my life. we've been together for 2 years now and i love her just as much as i did when i met her. we now have an apartment together and my life is back on track. what im trying to say is if your afraid someone won't like you because you dress or look funny, **** 'em, your too good for some one that shallow anyway. good luck on the hunt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Peace, Love and Unity&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i think you and i would get along great! lol, people are often afraid of what they dont know. a lot of people dont know the bands you listen too and those bands have some pretty crazy, sometimes violent looking shirts, so people see the shirt then just sort of think thats what kind of person you are. like, my fiance has a shirt (i forget which band its for) but its got a decapitated woman on it and a bunch of blood, so people see him in it and get a little weirded out, but anyone who knows him knows thats just the music he listens to, not who he is. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; yeah, id totally be your friend. we listen to the same music, and im sure we could find a bunch more stuff we have similar tastes in.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and wow that mewto girl needs to relax a little...your not the only one who thought her answer screamed poser....like, i hate using that word, but in this case, i gotta...i mean come on, "im so metal i piss corpses?" who the hell says that? ive never even heard people in actual metal bands say **** like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; lol,i love when people comment on our comments. i really dont like that word(poser), but its one of those words where you just gotta use it sometimes. this mewto girl is one of those cases.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well i'd be your friend&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just think of how boring this world would be if everybody was the same,i am sure you are beautiful&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your not goth but your interest are, anyway pishposh....Whatever you like to wear or listen to is your prerogative if I met you and you were sweet, funny, caring and honest I would be your friend. I have friends that range in ages 17 to 77 from all kinds of walks of life with a wide range of likes and dislikes. Personality is what makes a person not clothes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Id say Hi wanna chat....................no seriously wanna chat heres my msn boom_boom_6969@hotmail.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i talk to everyone no matter what they wear also your additional info is funny :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would only date her if she had a tattoo .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;meaby. but it kinda sounds goth to me. but wt do i no im a 7th grader&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WHOA!! and i thought i had problems!!! well i would talk to u ONLY if u were nice!! i wouldnt talk to someone who was mean to me!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WELL EVEN THROUGH YOU ARE NOT GOTH THAT'S HOW YOU DESCRIBE YOU SELF. THROW SOME WHITE OR GREEN W/ THAT BLACK AND YOU MAY CATCH A FRIEND OR TWO.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i definately would. im not even lying. im am very friendly with all types of people. i dont judge ppl before i get the chance to talk with them. nits just not in my nature. it might be wierd, but its who i am :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;it all depends on you, not what you wear. if your a nice person, then id love to hang out with you, but if your somebody, who sits in the corner, and has like 3 friends, then no, probably not&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes i would talk to you! I didnt read all your answer but i know what you mean there for all long time i was wearing nothing but black goth stuff it wasnt because i was wanting to be goth its just it was black and i like the way it fit me i didnt try to do anything like the goths really did but everyone thought i was goth and wouldnt talk to me and those who were goth hated me because they knew i didnt do what they did and they thought it was a joke. But it was just a way of showing how i felt. I get really depressed and when i am in all black my family knows to leave me alone because something is wrong yea they will ask if they can help but they dont go off on me when i hid out in the other room or in/out side depending on where they are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good Luck with everything&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your cool., and to be honest i want to be friends with you., why?? cuase i know your real., and your just showing who you really are., its the fashion you like for yourself., wierd on the outside but a golden heart on the inside., &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if people would think your wierd or w/e well be proud of it., it only means that you got their attention., i dont mean your a attention seeker., no!!! i just mean that your cool and they cant help but to turn their heads to look you up., &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; well your cool., and its your choice of fashion.., you rock!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You rock sister!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5333663931520647429?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5333663931520647429/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-do-you-think-of-girl-who-wears.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5333663931520647429'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5333663931520647429'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-do-you-think-of-girl-who-wears.html' title='What do you think of a girl who wears death metal band shirts and black jeans everyday?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-2466235203095058032</id><published>2010-06-20T18:34:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:34:31.521-07:00</updated><title type='text'>It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;This girl I sit next to has openly stated that her parents are racists mormons who don't care for black people. Over the course of two months shes hinted that I've been stealing stuff from her (it's not true).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So I took revenge and spit, put hairs, boogers, and rubbed the mouth part of her water bottle and did the same to her soda and she drank it. She doesn't know I've done this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Should I ever tell her?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You're right, it is childish. Why tell her? To start a war? Why not take the high road here? Forget it, forget her. Ignore her. I know, it's not easy, but eventually, you'll be glad you did.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Uh, no. It'll just confirm her racist feelings.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yeah it would be funny to see her reaction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no, you got your silent revenge. now just show her that you can be the better person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if you tell her then you'd get caught. You should take a picture of you sticking the end of her water bottle up your butt, then email her that picture from an anonomous email that night.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nah dont tell her unless you have to. Or at least wait until the right moment, like when she is in one of her Holier-then-thou moods.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The only danger with getting even is that it can make you seem just as bad as her. Imagine she tells her parents what you did? Then they'll just shake their heads and say "What else can you expect?" or something nasty like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My advice, if you have to get your revenge then do so, but keep it quiet to be safe!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;hahahahahahahahhahahahahah &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; good job&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nope, if I were you I wouldn't tell her. I wouldn't even associate with her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You might feel good right now, but later you are going to feel shame about yourself. Bad things ARE bad things, doesn't matter what reason is. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My very good friend from work is black. When I am with her I never remember about race. All I think how gentle, wise and kind she is. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She made my world better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You had business to handle...leave it alone now...you will only make her think even more bad things. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I know ppl spit in ppls food when they are mad. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I hope you can be the bigger person next time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I am white and from Mississippi. When I moved to Tennessee, I had a black female working in the same department as me. She had never known anything &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; about Mississippians except the movie Mississippi Burning. She assumed all whites were bigots. I just acted like myself and she eventually told me that I had changed her opinion. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I was the same person I always was...and I made a difference.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Right now, I am a white girl rapper/ comedian (that's what we call it). I just got booked into a new black nightclub...to rap! And I'll be playing at an event that will probably be mostly whites...My two best friends are black...and they'll both be there to see me sing my comedy songs. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't let the haters run you! Be the voice of reason in any room you are in!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's Childish, But IT Feels So Good?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Naw. Never give into childish pranks unless you can get away with it for a long time. Wait til she's pregnant with her first child and all hyper about her health - then tell her what you did and how spit is a known birth defect causing agent.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It's really mean, but two pranks for the price of one? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Priceless.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-2466235203095058032?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/2466235203095058032/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/its-childish-but-it-feels-so-good.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2466235203095058032'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2466235203095058032'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/its-childish-but-it-feels-so-good.html' title='It&apos;s Childish, But IT Feels So Good?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4165564798724134358</id><published>2010-06-20T18:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:34:14.232-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Looking for an online G.F. Guys??</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Sorry, I accidentally deleted the other post for this. I have long brown hair. Im black. I love all types of guys. But, I love rocker guys the most. Ages must range from 14-16. I love all types of music. I love break dancing. I loyal, fun,caring and sweet and honest. I am a little wild and crazy. But, thats good. You can e-mail me at angel.queen82@yahoo.com or send me an Im at angel.queen82. I am signed in right now. Hope you guys really like me!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Looking for an online G.F. Guys??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your to young to use the internet for this purpose. Outside of that, your cookie-cutter, your just like most indivdiuals which takes away from your true individualism, which your not going to understand at your age anyways. Besides your also being selfish, having a relationship for "having a relationship" sake, is amoral. Your simply doing it for your own selfish need to know what it's like, not counting the fact that someone is going to fall in love with you and be heart broken when you finally get tired of "Testing" what it's like to be in a relaitonship. Just dance, don't hurt yourself, or someone else just because your curious. Shoot, might as well just have random sex, atleast that be closer to what your doing here, instead your just having random love connection. And atleast they know were it ends, here, its just not right what your doing. Realize, the human heart is fire, don't play with fire just because your curious, thats messed up....... and don't use the internet for this, your old enough to be overly-confident, but to young to know better. I bet you disagree with me and are feeling like your "wordly" now, your not, trust it makes a person a much different animal then your showing. You are smart, and you do have great potiental, thats why I'm even typing to you......&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4165564798724134358?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4165564798724134358/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/looking-for-online-gf-guys.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4165564798724134358'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4165564798724134358'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/looking-for-online-gf-guys.html' title='Looking for an online G.F. Guys??'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4529033580357500251</id><published>2010-06-20T18:33:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:33:58.171-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How do I use my curling iron? I am African-American and I have a relaxer?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have a Con-Air curling iron w/1-1/2" barrel. It's almost silver-dollar diameter, maybe a little smaller.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have a relaxer in my hair and I'd like to know how to use my curling iron. I've had it for literally 4 years and it's been out of the box 3 times b/c a co-worker relaxed my hair and curled it for me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I normally sleep in big black rollers for big bouncy curls...Can I get the same effect w/my curling iron?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Any stylists/hairdressers out there that specialize in African-American hair........I am quite hair clueless so I am asking this out of sheer wanting to know so I can take care of my hair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Thank you so so so so so much. Also, if anyone can point me to some websites and/or pictures, that would be great too. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Thank you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; PS--%26gt;I want to know how to do this b/c I have a job interview soon %26amp; want to look professional with nice smooth, sleek, wavy or straight hair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do I use my curling iron? I am African-American and I have a relaxer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;A curling iron wont really give you the same kind of curls as rollers. The curls will be a lot tighter but less durable with a curling iron. The curls willbe bouncy though. A good tip is to get a styling spray that holds and spray it on a strand of your hair BEFORE you use the curling iron on that piece. It will hold better. Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do I use my curling iron? I am African-American and I have a relaxer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;after using the relaxer and blow drying it. Spray your hair with oil sheen and curl your hair or make it straight you should also watch how your friend curls your hair and ask if she can show you i'm an african american too and my hair is sleek and shiny and straight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do I use my curling iron? I am African-American and I have a relaxer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;iwould really keep it on the lowest setting for heat, becausepermed hair dosent take alot of heat to curl your hair , and then even checking it by hand to actually see if its cool enough.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do I use my curling iron? I am African-American and I have a relaxer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'll help you but how are you trying to curl your hair? what style Also to answer one of your questions ccurling your hair you won't get the same effect as rollers but you can get a little close to the effect just depending on what product you put on the hair but first I need to know what style your trying to accomplish, I'm a llicensed stylist? email me %26amp; let me know also you can check out hairbyus%26lt;dot%26gt;spruz%26lt;dot%26gt;com.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4529033580357500251?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4529033580357500251/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-i-use-my-curling-iron-i-am.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4529033580357500251'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4529033580357500251'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-i-use-my-curling-iron-i-am.html' title='How do I use my curling iron? I am African-American and I have a relaxer?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5832073957517996218</id><published>2010-06-20T18:33:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:33:43.431-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Your kind of Beauty...?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Mmmk, this may seem like a weird thing to lose 5 points on, but it's a question that torments me often. I know these to girls, and they are both gorgeous; I just sometimes wonder which guys find more appealing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Girl #1&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Tall and very Curvy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Blonde Hair With Black Underneath&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Straight Hair with Side Bang&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dark Blue Grey Eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Kind of a "Baby" Face&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Not Pale, but def not Tan&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Talkative and Social&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Confident and Flirty&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Very Flighty&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Opionated&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Fairly Happy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Ready for anything&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Girl #2&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Petite but Hourglass&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Brown with Red Tones&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Side Bangs and Slight Wave&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Green/Amber Cat Eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Chiseled Face&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Slightly Tan&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Friendly but not outgoing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Vulnerable and Caring&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Loyal and Easygoing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Loves to party &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Depressed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Experienced&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The strange thing is these girls happen to be best friends, if they didn't met when your I would swear they'd be enemies. I tried to be as bluntly honest as I could about them. Just curious to see who you guys would choose.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Love,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For now and Forever&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Your kind of Beauty...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm basically girl number one minus the black underneath the blonde, I have green eyes, I'm not too tall, %26amp; I'm not very "curvy".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Your kind of Beauty...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;DUDDEEEE, girl number one is EXACTLY like me except I have green eyes, not a baby face, and am skinny [[but really curvy!]]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Your kind of Beauty...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If i would of been a man i'll pick girl #1&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Your kind of Beauty...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Girl number two sounds cute, but girl number one sound punk rocky. It depends what you want. If you like both then combine them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Your kind of Beauty...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;OMG GIRL #2 IS ME&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Your kind of Beauty...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;depends on the guy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Your kind of Beauty...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;weird, it sounds like me and my best friend&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; opposites attract I suppose&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5832073957517996218?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5832073957517996218/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/your-kind-of-beauty.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5832073957517996218'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5832073957517996218'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/your-kind-of-beauty.html' title='Your kind of Beauty...?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4244198693080720569</id><published>2010-06-20T18:33:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:33:26.297-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Should I date a Asian guy?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I am half Asian and half Black. I look like my avatar. My mom is black and she wants me to get with a black man. I love black men, but right now I want to go out with a Asian guy in this gym I go to. He is always flirting with me and I really like me, but my mom just wants me to put more black blood into my line. My dad is like he does not care. I do believe my mom doesn't really care and wants me to be happy, but she just worries for my child's. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; she loves my dad and he her, but i sometimes feel that she doesn't really understand were I am coming from. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i know some of you are like well she shouldn't have got with a Asian guy if she was that worried, well my mom never had a boyfriend until she meant my dad. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; she is dark skin and wears her hair natural. most black guys don not like that, but anyway, don't you think I should still go out with him, maybe not tell my mom I am.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is a bit of a tuffie. I would suggest you talk to the Asian guy, but it'll probably be a bit harder since your mixed with black. Try being friends with him to get a since of his family's values and go from there. Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no offense but if ur mom wanted more blk blood in your line then she should have married a black man.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; you do what you WANT. he's asian and you are part asian...i don't see what's wrong with it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Date whoever you want,whats wrong with you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you should have a say in who you date. Go for it. Maybe she just wants to be able to tell that your children are black by looking at them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you should follow your heart! You can't date a man for your mom or your dad. You have to date them for you, make your own choices. At the end of the day, do you want to be unhappy because your mom says do this or that? Or do you want to be unhappy because you chose not to follow your heart! We all want to please our parents, but there comes a time in life, when you have to be strong enough to stand on your own, make your own decisions and live with them. Yes, take guidance from your parents they love you, but you must make your own life choices, live, love, embrace and learn from them! I hope this helps!! Only you can choose, ultimately give it a try. Hey it cant be that bad, it made you!! :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If she's worried about your child, why would she even marry your dad? Does that mean she's worried about you too since you're half Asian and half black? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I think you should date who ever you like. You'll live with that person, she won't. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Obviously your dad is not prejudice but your mom is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I say go for it, if your mom cares about you, she will love you no matter what and eventually except it. I personally find asian guys to be very attractive, so good choice :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;only if you like him&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ummm...it's not up to your mom to dictate who you date. As someone else mentioned, if she wanted to keep the bloodline black then she should have stuck with dating just black men and she has no right to take that out on you. You should date whoever the hell you want to date and just leave race out of the equation all together. Also, isn't it insulting to your father to say that she wants more "black" in the bloodline when he is an Asian man?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your mom sounds like a racist. If shes afraid your children will look asian, then she should have never married your father. Date whoever treats you right and makes you happy. It's your life, not hers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Explain to your mom that you like all people no matter what they look like, and that right now you would like to date this particular guy. He just happens to be Asian.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have had a couple of Asian girlfriends and some people in my family didn't approve it but I don't care. I met them years apart from each other so it wasn't a fad. I just like them because they were good people. And that's one of the most important qualities I look for in a woman.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So, if you like the guy and he makes you happy - and he's a good person, tell your mom about that. Don't focus on his nationality or skin color. And how do you think he would feel if he thought the main reason that you liked him was because he was Asian?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I am half Asian and half Black too. Welcome to the Blasian club! Yay! If your mom was so worried about preserving the black blood in y our family, then maybe she should have thought about that before she had a half Asian baby. You're no more Black than you are Asian and vice versa.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; DATE WHOM YOU WANT. It's your life. The only thing that matters is your happiness. Don't let your 'rents dictate the life that you live.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You should do what is going to make you happy and I would be honest with your mom as well, no sense in lying and making your new boyfriend feel like a dirty little secret. There need to be boundaries in your relationship and who you date and why is one of those things that is really none of your mother's business unless you are dating someone who is abusive towards you or who is getting you into drugs or trouble. If this guy is nice, you like him, and he makes you happy...does it really matter what she wants?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I say this because I have experience in this area. My husband is Japanese/Mexican. His mother is Mexican and wanted him to marry either a Japanese or Mexican woman because "White women do not know how to treat a man." He married me...a white girl from Texas and as you can imagine she was not happy...she learned to get over it. Your mom will do the same. You cannot allow her to make decisions for you because if my husband had allowed his mother to dictate who he married he would be miserable right now. Do what makes you happy. Let us know how it goes. :o)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Blessings,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sharli aka stakekawa&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes, a black guy would probably leave you after he gets you pregnant.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't see any problems with you dating an Asian guy. It's really up to you! Not your mom, all races have good and bad people. If you find someone nice, loves you and treats you with respect, is honest and trustworthy. I'd go for it. When your married--you'll have to live with him, not your parents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (It's hard enough to find someone that is a "soulmate", for lack of a better word, than to be picky about what race they are.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I date a Asian guy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I say go with whoever accepts YOU, not who your mum thinks will accept you. If you are mixed with black and asian, you can date asian, black, and/or any other race of men YOU prefer to date. I am not into black or asian men, but I say go with who you are attracted to, no matter their race, as long as there is a mutual attraction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4244198693080720569?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4244198693080720569/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/should-i-date-asian-guy.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4244198693080720569'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4244198693080720569'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/should-i-date-asian-guy.html' title='Should I date a Asian guy?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-6915603309189932234</id><published>2010-06-20T18:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:33:10.809-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hairstyles for men?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;What is the simplest to get, easiest to care for, best to look at, most handsome to have, and in hair style? I have black hair, and I'm a teenager. No shaved heads, overly added hair stuffs, or Mohawks please : )&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hairstyles for men?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't know what styles of hair people wherer in your city but go with a simple fade a 2 on top and 1 on the sides&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hairstyles for men?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay I Don't Know A Thing About This So Form This Point On My Borther Is Typing: Hey Dude! It All Depends In The Length, Buzz Cut Is Not What you Want! If Its Short Then Brush It The Oppisite Way It Is Make It Look Messy-DONT DO SPIKES!! If Its Long And Curly Like Mine Bye Some Gel And Flat iron It Straight! If You Hair Is Long And Straight Or Even Medium MAKE SURE YOU DONT PUT IT IN YOUR FACE!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-6915603309189932234?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/6915603309189932234/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/hairstyles-for-men.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6915603309189932234'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6915603309189932234'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/hairstyles-for-men.html' title='Hairstyles for men?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-6312358599048949505</id><published>2010-06-20T18:32:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:32:54.347-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Read my short story please and tell me what you think!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;it's long and had grammer errors but please if you take the time to read it you might like it &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; EM-PATH&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Chapter 2 the break down &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Five cloaked figures stud in an open field. One by one they all revealed their faces removing their hoods. The first was a boy he was the tallest of the group and had skin that looked as creamy as milk and his eyes glowed purple in the dark, he also had black shoulder length spiky hair. The second who removed his hood was also a boy. He had brown skin and eyes as red as fire he was fair height bald and had a scare on his left check that seemed to be rather old. The third was also a boy he had Carmel colored skin and emerald green eyes he had hair down to his back that was pulled back into a pony tail and he wore dark marking in his left check he was also the smallest of the three boys. The fourth who removed there hood was a girl she had long silky black hair that was turned into a pony tail at the very tip she had skin like cream a mix between black and white and her eyes were as blue a water it self. The last to remove their hood was also a girl and had shoulder length silver hair and skin as white as snow she had one silver eye and one green eye. Yes but are you sure, axel? Asked the first boy. How many time do I have to say it, yes I閳ユ獡 sure. The vibrations in an aura does not change I can閳ユ獩 see it but I can hear it it閳ユ獨 defiantly his aura it閳ユ獨 over taken the boys. So what do we do ace? Asked the smallest of the three. **** I don閳ユ獩 know I mean I never actually thought that we would find him I thought he was dead all this time, said ace. Well I got an idea, said first girl. What is it now Karin? Asked ace. Well how bout we just go in and give him what he asked for. The second girl began to laugh. What閳ユ獨 so funny Alyssa? I don閳ユ獩 see you coming up with any better ideas, Karin snapped. Well and just what exactly did he ask for? Asked Alyssa. He left us with out a word; he completely turned his back on us and his destiny. Said Karin her voice full of anger. And now he閳ユ獨 hiding out in side the body of a human boy. Said axel laughing a little. He really is a coward, said ace. So I say we find him and give him what閳ユ獨 owed to him, Karin snapped. We can閳ユ獩 just kill him he is the pain keeper with out him. Ace cut his sentence short not wanting to say the next part. He doesn閳ユ獩 know it but he is already taken on so much of the world閳ユ獨 pain the only reason he hasn閳ユ獩 snapped is because of, her, said Alyssa. What do you think Lex? Asked ace. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; There was a silence before Lex spoke. Well, he began. We can at least scare him a bit. Alyssa let out a high pitched laugh that sounded something like a hyena every one covered there ears at the sound of it. Damn what the hell is up with your laugh? Karin snapped in frustration. I閳ユ獡 sorry I can閳ユ獩 help it I閳ユ獡 just so excited, said Alyssa with a huge grin plastered on her face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You should get that checked out, said axel jokingly. I want to see the old Iou not some child, said Karin. Well we can play with him until we force the real Iou to come out, said ace his voice was full of excitement now. Besides we have to wake him up some how, he quickly added. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The next day Emits fourth hour teacher MR. Punkelton asked him to stay after class. Emit didn閳ユ獩 know for sure but he was pretty sure that it was going to be about how he use to be one of his best student閳ユ獨 and now since he had been moved next to kina his grades had decreased dramatically. Emit knew all of this but he didn閳ユ獩 care much all he wanted to do is be with kina and fourth hour was the only time that he could do that well fourth and fifth but two is always better then one and Emit didn閳ユ獩 want to be away from kina anymore then he already was and he didn閳ユ獩 care what any body had to say about it. Besides he needed kina she was like his fix or something the only good thing he ever had and probably would ever get and he would take a thousand F閳ユ獨 if he could spend just an hour alone with her. Why Emit? You use to be one of my best students I just don閳ユ獩 understand it. MR. punkelton said in complete confusion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Read my short story please and tell me what you think!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;hey thats pretty cool..i like it..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Read my short story please and tell me what you think!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are correct about the grammar and punctuation!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But....you know what - I like it - keep going!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That's the view of an older reader!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Read my short story please and tell me what you think!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;good .. keep it up!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Read my short story please and tell me what you think!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yeah, your grammar and stuff isn't all that great, but that's what editors are for!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Amazing story. I hope you finish it...I would buy it if was an already-published book! Great job!!! %26lt;3&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-6312358599048949505?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/6312358599048949505/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/read-my-short-story-please-and-tell-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6312358599048949505'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6312358599048949505'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/read-my-short-story-please-and-tell-me.html' title='Read my short story please and tell me what you think!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-8322410739850552666</id><published>2010-06-20T18:32:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:32:38.818-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I absolutly don't! I have an all black domestic medium hair (spayed) female cat who is currently 2 years old. I belive that if she could choose to have a litter or to be spayed than she would want to be spayed! there are sooooo many benefits of spaying female cats also. people just don't realize this. some people say that it is good for a female cat to have her first litter because it helps with their temperment. sorry folks, it's not! my female never had her first heat and never had her first litter but still is the sweetest cat ever!!! I think that it's really selfish to make a female cat go through unnecesary birth of having kittens. I'm not talking about the (responsible) breeders. I'm just talking about general individuals. cats are not like us, they don't CARE to have kittens!! they don't think even once about it! but, anyway, what's your opinion on this? just curious!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are so right. Unspayed female cats who even have one heat and not a pregnancy are apparently more prone to develop mammary cancer later in their lives. This is a very aggressive cancer in cats, treatable only with radical surgery and chemotherapy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dogs suffer the same condition though in dogs the cancer is not as aggressive. It still has to be treated.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Why would anyone want to put their pet through that?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;im with you...if people love their cats they should spay/neuter and keep their cats inside!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;the same thing with my friends cat ive been wondering well g2g hope you get some good answers besides mine&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree with you, somewhat. Whether cats would WANT to have kittens or not I have no idea, but healthwise it is much better, like you said, to spay your cat. I don't know where people got that idea that your cat should have a litter of kittens before they spay it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree. As much as I love kittens, there are far too many of them. I have 4 indoor cats, all strays that someone else dumped. The first thing I do when I take in a new cat is have him/her neutered/spayed. It makes for better temperaments, and I find that my neutered males especially stay very kittenish indefinitely. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I've made a tee shirt that says FIX YOUR PETS.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I dont know what to think, I spayed my dog when she was 1 yr old and my parents tell me that maybe she would have wanted to have puppies at least once in her lifetime, after explaining to them the importance of spaying our beloved animals they understood what I was doing and why I was doing it. I also put as an example a female boxer my aunt has and that had a litter of puppies, the dog wouldnt take care of them at all and the puppies had to be handfed, I belive that this kind of feeling that we say that animals want to have puppies, kitties, babies is just a human feeling and thats all about it. We just put ourselves in their 'paws' and say they do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i agree with you! spaying cats give them so much more freedom in the workplace!! i mean, all the cuddling with humans should not be wasted on kittens. even though they are realllly cute. let someone elses cat have em.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well, we are taking our little boy kitten (14 weeks old) to be fixed this Friday. I sure don't think he even wants a girlfriend much less any baby kits. He likes being the baby too much himself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The bad news is that he is the kitten of Bijoux. My husband told me last night that he thinks Bijoux is mad at me for taking her kitten and that is why she is preggers again. I told him she is pregnant because she won't let us touch her. She showed up at our home about 5 months ago. Her owners moved away and just left her. I put out food for her because I felt so sorry for her, she was so skinny. Well, she got fat quick...it didn't take too long for me to figure out she was pregnant.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We have put food in a kennel to try and catch her. She won't go near it...our little dog keeps getting in it. Our vet considers her a feral cat and that no one will be able to adopt her. I can't just let her keep having kittens, though. I guess when our neighbors moved they must have left some male cats, too, because I have caught them trying to come in our yard. She refuses to come in our house. I try every single time I see her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Our vet said he might could give us something that will knock her out and we can put it in her food. She will eat it and go to sleep and then we can bring her in to have her fixed. We now have to wait for her to have this new set of kittens. I would have put something in her food before this but she disappeared after the first litter was weaned. She is back again and I am feeding her again. I don't know where she went when she left before...an X-rated holiday by the looks of things.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Anyway, I don't think she really wants to have kittens but she sure seems to enjoy the "making babies" part of it. All of our dogs (we have three) are fixed. As I mentioned at the top of this answer, our kitten will be fixed this week. I am not happy about this situation with Bijoux, but with her refusing to let us do anything other than feed her, we have been left holding the "kitty" bag.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wowza! I couldn't have said it better myself. Great job, gal!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; *Thanks* on behalf of all the feline critters out there, too. :-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think that it is natural for unspayed female cats in "heat" to feel the need to breed. There are few animals besides humans that mate for pleasure; they just have the natural instinct to breed when they are capable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No not really its just like humans they like to screw each other&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and then they just happen to have babies but once they get it they got to take care of it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-8322410739850552666?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/8322410739850552666/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/do-you-believe-that-cats-want-to-have.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8322410739850552666'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8322410739850552666'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/do-you-believe-that-cats-want-to-have.html' title='Do you believe that cats want to have kittens?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-864833983392910132</id><published>2010-06-20T18:32:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:32:22.624-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Girls with an odd sense of style?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I wear winged thick rimmed black glasses. My hair is brown, long, and looks a bit tangled. I have big blue eyes, pale skin, a thin but filled figure, and I wear winter boots with purple knee high socks and colorful clothing. I sometimes look like I just woke up and threw the clothes on without a care even if they didn't even match. I'm very artistic, and some of my favorite genres include independent rock, classic rock, grunge, and some beethoven.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I was just curious, do I sound a little strange, should I change this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girls with an odd sense of style?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;uhm.. just a little strange.. but if it looks good then keep it.. i love it when the girls at my school do that sometimes i think its weird, but in a way cute..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Girls with an odd sense of style?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;my style is very strange as well. i wear guys boxers as shorts (i cant help it they are really comfortable) and i just wear a baggy sweater. i look like a freak some days but its so comfortable. and trust me you cant get any stranger than me i wear the boxers in the winter as well. i dont get cold easily. lol =D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-864833983392910132?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/864833983392910132/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/girls-with-odd-sense-of-style.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/864833983392910132'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/864833983392910132'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/girls-with-odd-sense-of-style.html' title='Girls with an odd sense of style?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-9081784094565511580</id><published>2010-06-20T18:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:32:05.759-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Can some one please read my short story!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;it's pretty long and has grammer mistakes but if you read the whole thing you will not regret it &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; EM-PATH&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Chapter 2 the break down &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Five cloaked figures stud in an open field. One by one they all revealed their faces removing their hoods. The first was a boy he was the tallest of the group and had skin that looked as creamy as milk and his eyes glowed purple in the dark, he also had black shoulder length spiky hair. The second who removed his hood was also a boy. He had brown skin and eyes as red as fire he was fair height bald and had a scare on his left check that seemed to be rather old. The third was also a boy he had Carmel colored skin and emerald green eyes he had hair down to his back that was pulled back into a pony tail and he wore dark marking in his left check he was also the smallest of the three boys. The fourth who removed there hood was a girl she had long silky black hair that was turned into a pony tail at the very tip she had skin like cream a mix between black and white and her eyes were as blue a water it self. The last to remove their hood was also a girl and had shoulder length silver hair and skin as white as snow she had one silver eye and one green eye. Yes but are you sure, axel? Asked the first boy. How many time do I have to say it, yes I閳ユ獡 sure. The vibrations in an aura does not change I can閳ユ獩 see it but I can hear it it閳ユ獨 defiantly his aura it閳ユ獨 over taken the boys. So what do we do ace? Asked the smallest of the three. **** I don閳ユ獩 know I mean I never actually thought that we would find him I thought he was dead all this time, said ace. Well I got an idea, said first girl. What is it now Karin? Asked ace. Well how bout we just go in and give him what he asked for. The second girl began to laugh. What閳ユ獨 so funny Alyssa? I don閳ユ獩 see you coming up with any better ideas, Karin snapped. Well and just what exactly did he ask for? Asked Alyssa. He left us with out a word; he completely turned his back on us and his destiny. Said Karin her voice full of anger. And now he閳ユ獨 hiding out in side the body of a human boy. Said axel laughing a little. He really is a coward, said ace. So I say we find him and give him what閳ユ獨 owed to him, Karin snapped. We can閳ユ獩 just kill him he is the pain keeper with out him. Ace cut his sentence short not wanting to say the next part. He doesn閳ユ獩 know it but he is already taken on so much of the world閳ユ獨 pain the only reason he hasn閳ユ獩 snapped is because of, her, said Alyssa. What do you think Lex? Asked ace. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; There was a silence before Lex spoke. Well, he began. We can at least scare him a bit. Alyssa let out a high pitched laugh that sounded something like a hyena every one covered there ears at the sound of it. Damn what the hell is up with your laugh? Karin snapped in frustration. I閳ユ獡 sorry I can閳ユ獩 help it I閳ユ獡 just so excited, said Alyssa with a huge grin plastered on her face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You should get that checked out, said axel jokingly. I want to see the old Iou not some child, said Karin. Well we can play with him until we force the real Iou to come out, said ace his voice was full of excitement now. Besides we have to wake him up some how, he quickly added. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The next day Emits fourth hour teacher MR. Punkelton asked him to stay after class. Emit didn閳ユ獩 know for sure but he was pretty sure that it was going to be about how he use to be one of his best student閳ユ獨 and now since he had been moved next to kina his grades had decreased dramatically. Emit knew all of this but he didn閳ユ獩 care much all he wanted to do is be with kina and fourth hour was the only time that he could do that well fourth and fifth but two is always better then one and Emit didn閳ユ獩 want to be away from kina anymore then he already was and he didn閳ユ獩 care what any body had to say about it. Besides he needed kina she was like his fix or something the only good thing he ever had and probably would ever get and he would take a thousand F閳ユ獨 if he could spend just an hour alone with her. Why Emit? You use to be one of my best students I just don閳ユ獩 understand it. MR. punkelton said in complete confusion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can some one please read my short story!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It's too hard to read with all the grammar mistakes, but the first bit sounded really good, your description is excellent ;]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can some one please read my short story!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that story was completely weird but it was cool. 7/10 from me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can some one please read my short story!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree with tash. The grammar is really bad but you can edit it anytime. The story itself is obviously not yet complete. The introduction was good. Reminds me of Harry Potter actually.^_^ However, I can see you were slacking off as the story progressed. Maybe a little more revising will do it.^_^&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-9081784094565511580?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/9081784094565511580/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/can-some-one-please-read-my-short-story.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/9081784094565511580'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/9081784094565511580'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/can-some-one-please-read-my-short-story.html' title='Can some one please read my short story!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5441620009179507762</id><published>2010-06-20T18:31:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:31:50.100-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Moms, I need your help!!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I'm 14 years old and am going into high school. I've been wanting to get highlights for like 2 weeks. After my mom got her highlights (she gets them like once every 2-3 months for 2 years now), I asked her if I could get highlights. I said that I wanted them to be natural-looking (I have black hair, and I want auburn highlights), and I said I could take care of them and pay for them. She said "let me sleep over it." Then, later on, I heard her talking to my younger sister about it. And my sister told her that I've been wanting highlights for a few weeks now, I just didn't know how to ask. She said I wanted natural-looking highlights and stuff. It's the next day now so my mom's "slept over it", but she still hasn't said anything about them. Do you think she'll say yes? What does "I'll sleep over it mean? Was my argument convincing? Does her talking to my sister help or not? Help!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Moms, I need your help!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That stuff is getting more and more expensive. The highlights I have gotten can cost like $90. Actually, more than that. I don't know if it's cheaper where you live, but you need to get your own job. You may get the highlights and want to maintain it and get it done every 3 mos. Get your own job and pay for it yourself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Moms, I need your help!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Steph I believe that sleeping over it means no. That is just how I feel. I believe that you are a little young to it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Moms, I need your help!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your mom's probably trying to decide what is age-appropriate. My daughter wanted highlights too, then she wanted to dye her hair a completely different color.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In my mind, that's along the lines of trying to appear to be more of an adult and more attractive to men. It's not that I don't want my daughter to look good. I just can't allow her to send out the "wrong signals" to other people and let her appear to be something she's not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Fourteen might be too young in your mother's mind to get highlights, only because she's trying to protect you from growing up too fast. Unfortunately, the way you dress, the way you do your hair, the way you present yourself to the world has an impact on what people think of you. You create impressions, good or bad, every time you walk out the door. That's why your mom has rules about the clothing you wear.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This also applies to your hair. Whether you get highlights or not is probably not really the issue for your mom. The issue is whether or not kids at school will think you're "easy" at worst, vain at best and what the ramifications of her decision will be.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But, trust me, it will be made out of love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Moms, I need your help!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just to add another comment, do you want to be a "high maintenance" girl?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I agree with the poster who said if your mom said she would sleep on it, was her way of saying no.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No I don't think your argument was convincing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Moms, I need your help!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think she is still trying to figure out if its age appropriate. I don't think I will be letting my daughter change her hair color at 14.. It does tend to give the appearance of being older and start attracting the wrong kind of attention. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have alot of teenage nieces and can see the problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Moms, I need your help!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your mother probably hasn't forgotten, but you have to remember it's very expensive to have this sort of hair coloring procedure done in a salon.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I hope things work out for you hon...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; P.S. I bet your hair looks really nice just the way it is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Moms, I need your help!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Word of advice-Don't push her. Give her a few days and see if she brings it up. You bug her about it, you definitely won't get it done. She may also be wondering if this was suddenly something you wanted to do and giving you the chance to change your mind again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5441620009179507762?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5441620009179507762/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/moms-i-need-your-help.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5441620009179507762'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5441620009179507762'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/moms-i-need-your-help.html' title='Moms, I need your help!!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5070919171290463975</id><published>2010-06-20T18:31:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:31:34.980-07:00</updated><title type='text'>QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;listen i m a rlly hot guy with black hair long but not like girl long hair. and i m rlly good lookin and i rlly take care of my health and my looks alot.i had 4 girls hitting on me this year alone at school. i walked around the school and none of the girls i didnt find attrative enough to make 1 my gf cause i rllllly want 1. but once i get 1 i wnna keap her 4 ever i don change girls. i m very busy i m a musician and i compose music but i go to school to finish collage in case i don make enoguh money from my band so i can get by and keap trying with the songs. i m 16 and i want a rlly nice hot 16 year old girl thats rlly good looking like me with no agony or discusting nose or such cause i m a class A hotty. where can i find some i walked on the beach on the sun set with my dog but no 1!!!! i was all alone there. i went to school they r all ugly 80% chinise nerds. wtf m i gnna do!? btw i m a virgin give me some tips!?!? where should i go!???? should i move to L.A when i m 18 or what&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ok first you need to pull your head out of your a$$ you are without a doubt one of the most stuck-up guys i have ever heard about, i mean i know teenage guys are immature but give me a break, i mean none of the ones at my highschool were THAT bad&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so once you're back in reality the next thing to do would be to get a life, you are so shallow its not even funny and its obvious you just want to lose your virginity and believe me, thats never gunna happen when you keep acting the way you are. So start thinking about whats beneath the surface, im not saying go for butt ugly girls, but those ones who 'dont quite make it' deserve another look. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; finally make some friends, it makes the progression easier, get some girls to be your friends because this question makes it blatantly obvious that you have no friends who are girls, and im actually doubting wether you have any guy friends either, but hey, not for me to find out&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so if you follow those steps maybe you'll finally realise that there are many nice girls out there, and i hope that you might follow these steps and maybe mature a bit&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;stop loviing yourself you nerd&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you have an attitude like that, you are never going to find a girl. You need to be a little less self confident and a little less shallow. Be nice to girls and maybe they would consider dating you. But, to be honest, I wouldn't want to date someone who had an attitude like that. Just brush up a little and you'll find a girl in no time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;looks aren't everything.your a loser dude. translate this:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ein Leben sich erhalten!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;im a 16 year old girl :) then again i dont judge my looks so i dont know lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; umm you can go to the mall, movies, park, anywhere in public---im having the same problem--looking for a hot guy but one with a great personality , but no one in school b.c they are too weird and expect too much ...well good luck, hopefully oyu wil find your girl.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Quit looking for girls and spend your time learning to spell. No college is going to let you in if you spell it collage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I bet you're not as hot as you think, so a hot girl probably wouldn't want you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WOW, you r really self centered! you really need to get over ur self! the way i see it, is you might b hot, but i think that is as good as it gets! i really don't think that ppl would even wanna go out wif you! when you start to think bout others.... then let me no so i can actually help you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; GET OVER URSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Seriously, if you want a relationship that's going to last (which I highly doubt you'll be able to find, coming off the way you do right now, especially since you're 16), you'll need to put the girl's personality above all else. Sure, you can have standards (I personally require a nice smile and a more athletic girl), but if you can't hold meaningful conversations with the other person, your relationship can't possibly last or grow into love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My advice to you: Don't look for love yet. You're only sixteen! Enjoy it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You need to get over youself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5070919171290463975?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5070919171290463975/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/question-for-guys-and-girls-its-rlly.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5070919171290463975'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5070919171290463975'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/question-for-guys-and-girls-its-rlly.html' title='QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS its rlly important!!!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-802017648227988606</id><published>2010-06-20T18:31:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:31:19.196-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How do u get rid of cradle cap???</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have a little African-american girl (6 months)... actually she's of mixed heritage, but I just check the box African-American on all of her record... anyways I digress. Her hair is curlier and softer than many Af-Am babies due to her background. She also has ALOT. However, I have heard horror stories about parents trying to get rid of cradle cap and causing their kid to go bald. And then the baby comes back with terrible hair!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What can I do in this situation??? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I need to get rid of it!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Any people with mixed babies or black babies especially care to share???&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I used the equate gel baby oil. It worked miracles! I used the soft baby brush because the comb would just irritate the scalp and make it come right back. Yes this does make the hair greasy but nothing baby shampoo cant wash out. Two times of this and my daughter never go it again!oh I forgot to say... my daughter is mixed also I am white and her dad is black.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Try Gentle Naturals cradle cap shampoo or put sum baby oil in her hair and try combing it out gently. But it doesn't bother her it bothers us moms more, my son still has it and he's 3mths.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;olive oil hun...works great and its all natural..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My son had it really bad when he was about 6 months as well. What I used to treat it was baby oil and a comb to comb it through. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "How is it treated?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Generally, cradle cap does not need to be treated as long as it doesn閳ユ獩 bother you or the baby. Sometimes it itches.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The gentlest treatment is to simply rub a small amount of baby oil or olive oil onto your baby's scalp. Wait several minutes for the oil to soften and loosen the scales, and brush them away with a soft brush or a dry terry-cloth washcloth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If the cradle cap is especially pronounced, or if your baby is over six months old, you could also wash the hair with a seborrhea shampoo, such as those containing selenium, salicylic acid, or tar. These shampoos don閳ユ獩 have the "no tears" factor, so be careful or your child may not like bath time as much as they usually do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If the cradle cap is especially reddened or inflamed, a small amount of over-the-counter cortisone cream may help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; These measures may be needed, off and on, until your baby outgrows the condition. Nevertheless, if the cradle cap does not respond rapidly to these treatments, be sure to inform your pediatrician."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;put baby oil on it rub it in real good it'll come out if you want comb it the baby oil will loosen it and give the babys head the oil it lacks [why it got cradle cap] and when its gone after baths put baby oil or lotion on the babys head to keep it from comming back &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; p.s it only makes there hair fall out if you scratch it off with out anything you'll be suprised how well the baby oil works&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;use this, you can get it at target:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.gentlenaturals.com/products/c...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well my luck has always been with baby oil...just apply it and gently comb through, making sure to cover scalp, i call it cradle crap...lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Theres also over the counter stuff ...ask your pharmacist.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i've got my little 7 month old and she still has a tiny bit of cradle cap. i used to pick at it every once in a while until she learned how to push my hand away... lol... so i stopped immediately... so i just let it go with the flow now and it'll come off when it comes off.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i don't think it's unhealthy... may actually help protect the skin, not sure. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; it's pretty common for babies to get some bald spots or even a little mohawk look, but the hair that falls out can always grow in differently... even another color.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;baby oil&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I found something called "Cradle Cap Care" - oil free. I wanted everything prepared and "the best" before I had my baby. (Now 1 month old)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It didn't work. It almost seemed to make it worse.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My mother in law said to just use baby oil. The cradle cap was gone within a day.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just use baby oil. Trust.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Mustela foaming baby shampoo..Oh this stuff smells so good. And it's good for gently treating cradle cap. It's made for newborns, just like all Mustela stuff, and it washes out the cradle cap a few shampoos at a time. Mustela's products are kinda pricey, but I've used this one foaming shampoo since Zacky was born sixteen months ago, and there's plenty left :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cradle Cap is generally a build up of skin that hasnt been washed off..... you need to know that once you get rid of the build up, how to keep it away!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When we wash our hair, we do it vigorously, thus removing dead skin cells each time - brushing and combing also helps stimulate the scalp and get rid of the dead skin cells just waiting to be shed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I always found that soaking the scalp in olive oil..... yep....... just like the one you use to make dressing!!! and leaving it a couple of hours, then using a comb to remove the build up gradually. Remember that the skin under the crap may be sensitive, so take care. Shampoo will always get rid of the oily residue!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;put baby oil on her hair...and leave there about 3 hours before you give her a bad...massage it...then when you give her a bad brush her hair in a circle motion with a hair brush or tooth brush.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do u get rid of cradle cap???&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;olive oil and a little water in a bowl whisk it up until it goes white and then lather her little head up, get a comb and just gently comb it it will slowly come off. do this daily&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-802017648227988606?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/802017648227988606/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-u-get-rid-of-cradle-cap.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/802017648227988606'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/802017648227988606'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-u-get-rid-of-cradle-cap.html' title='How do u get rid of cradle cap???'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-2880059287471104805</id><published>2010-06-20T18:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:31:02.300-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How do i grow and manage my hair?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have very course thick dark hair. I am white, but but my hair is so fluffy its almost like black hair. When it's short, its manageable, I look better when it's longer. When it grows longer about 3-4 inchs max length, it gets very bulky, full and unruly. I have used hair relaxers for years-professionally applied and at home. Sometimes it works and most of the time it ends up causing breakage and I end up cutting short and starting over. I have used the best and the cheapest relaxers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If I attempt to grow out, I can get to a certain length, mid way and gels or hair spray won't control it. So I would get it relaxed and it would be fine until about 3 months at which time I would do it again and then it starts to look fried despite all the conditioning and care in the world. My goal is to get it to 3-4 inches at the longest point. How do I process and manage to get it to that length. I am thinking about extensions but don't want it to look fake. my hair is about 1/2 in now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do i grow and manage my hair?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Dye it Green with pink polka dots!! If you have dark hair you can't even see it. It really helps I did this!!!!鈾モ櫏&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do i grow and manage my hair?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The secret formula for hair growth is to see that hair remains healthy. And these simple home remedies which will help your hair to grow can be made at home and work out less expensive than other alternative forms of medicines. Try&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://solutionsforhairgrowth.blogspot.c... for more details.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-2880059287471104805?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/2880059287471104805/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-i-grow-and-manage-my-hair.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2880059287471104805'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2880059287471104805'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-i-grow-and-manage-my-hair.html' title='How do i grow and manage my hair?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-7239726886741670145</id><published>2010-06-20T18:30:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:30:47.470-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Story i wrote for a contest please read and tell me what you think (im 14 go easy on me.)?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;(no stealing my story. I worked hard on it.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It isn't fair. All I want is a friend. Someone who cares about me, and will tell me that everything is all right. Too bad a life like that is only good enough for people like my big sister, Nichole. She is everything to my parents. She's smart, pretty, athletic, and everything else a perfect daughter is. She is constantly being complimented on her long, silky blond hair and big, blue eyes. I can't stand it! The only difference in our looks is that she's older and has longer hair. She gets the royal treatment, and I get to be the little rat that lives in the cramped attic. I can barely fit a bed in my room. The only reason my parents treat me so badly is because some crazy lunatic burst into the room I was born in, and told my mom some absurd story about me being an evil child. Yeah, like that's true! After that my mom named me Dana, Dana Maria Collins. She hated that name. She once said that it suited me because I was hated by everyone. I hate my life. Oh well, I guess I'll just have to live my life day by day and hope it gets better. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Dana. Dana! Dana get down here right now!"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I groaned inwardly. Why did my mother have to get me up at 4:00 A.M. every morning? I could do my chores when I got home. I mean, it's not like they let me be in any after school activities. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Dana!" my mother screamed again, "You get your butt down here right now or I'll send your father up there to teach you a lesson!" &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That got me up right away. The only person crueler than my mother was my father. He didn't want me from the beginning. He wanted my mom to get an abortion, and when he heard what that man said about me when I was born, there was no way he would ever see me as his daughter, let alone love me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Alright, I'm coming" I hollered as I ran down the steps.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Well, it's about time you got down here!" She replied in a cold, cruel voice that could have made a grown man want to run for it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Alright what are my chores today" I said with little interest.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Well, you can start out by doing everyone's laundry, making breakfast, making your sister鈥檚 lunch, fixing the heater in the basement, mopping the kitchen, sweeping the porch, vacuuming the rest of the house, and cleaning your sister鈥檚 room after she wakes up. I'll give you the rest of the list later. I'm going back to bed." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I sighed and said, "Alright"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Excuse me?" she exclaimed as she looked at me expectantly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I sighed again, "Yes ma'am."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As I walked up to my room to get my laundry I heard a faint rustling. I couldn't imagine what it could be. No one, besides my father, had set foot in my room since I had learned how to crawl. I was always expected to take care of myself. So, I figured the sound was just a mouse or something. I would have never guessed that it was actually the best thing that ever happened to me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When I got into my room everything seemed the same. Same cramped room, same low ceiling that leaked when it rained, and same raggedy bed that was almost worse than sleeping on the floor. It never occurred to me that someone else might be in the room. When I reached over my bed to get the little basket of dirty clothes I heard someone sneeze. I immediately froze. I stood there for what seemed like an eternity just waiting to hear another sound. Finally I got fed up with waiting. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I know someone's in here," I said in a panicked voice, "come out now or else."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All of a sudden something grabbed my leg from under my bed. I screamed as loud as I could. I didn't care what my parents thought. I was scared to death! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ssssshhhh鈥? Be quiet. Do you want to get in trouble?" a mysterious voice whispered from under my bed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Wh鈥...who are you?" I stammered as a boy with short brown hair, and chocolate brown eyes climbed out from under the bed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Tyler Anderson's my name. I'm your new neighbor. Sorry about sneaking into your room, but when I heard that there was a kid the same age as me in the neighborhood I just had to check it out. What's your name?" &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I'm Dana. Are you 13 years old, too?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yep, I sure am."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Cool鈥? but you should probably get out of here."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Why is that?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "If someone sees you talking to me the whole town will shun you."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "So, what's your point?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Don't you want to make friends?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I'm ok as long as I have one close friend, and I'd like you to be that friend."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ok, but we have to keep it a secret. By the way, how'd you get in here?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Like this鈥?" Tyler walked over to one of the walls and pressed on it. A small part of the wall lifted up and a small staircase was revealed. I was amazed. It was perfect for sneaking in and out of the house. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Then Tyler turned to me and said, "You know what? You're pretty cool." Then he smiled and closed the secret staircase. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My face turned beat red. "Uummm鈥hanks, you too."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So we talked for a while. He told me all about himself. He had an older sister, too, but he said that they were treated as equals. How I wish I could live as Nichole's equal. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "So what's your life like? How come you don't have any other friends?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I was glad he considered us friends. I told him about the day I was born, and about all of the horrible things I was forced to do in the past. He frowned the whole time. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You deserve better than that Dana. I promise that someday I'm going to get you out of here."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It meant a lot to hear him say that. It had only been an hour or two since I met him, and yet it seemed like we had been friends for years. "Thanks Tyler," I whispered, "thanks for everything." He smiled and nodded as he silently entered the secret staircase. I closed the entrance behind him, grabbed my dirty laundry, and went to do my chores. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Everyday after that, Tyler came back at 4:15 A.M. There were a few close calls where we had gotten a little too loud, and my father had threatened to come up to my room. One time Tyler asked what would happen if my father did come up there. It was a topic I didn't like to talk about, but I told him anyway. Usually my father yelled at me, backed me into a corner, and then walked away. There had been one time, however, when he had struck me, but my sister said that it had been my fault. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Everyday when Tyler left he would whisper "Soon, Dana, I promise." I really hoped that it was true. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; On my 14th birthday, January 18, 2007, Tyler came into my room with a big grin on his face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Happy Birthday Dana!" he almost shouted.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I giggled slightly, "Thank you, Tyler." He was the only person in the world who could make me laugh.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Guess where I'm going to take you for your birthday." He asked anxiously.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ok, where?" I responded obviously confused. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I'm taking you over to my house for breakfast!" He exclaimed. He sounded extremely exited.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "To鈥our house?" I asked. I had always wanted to go to Tyler's house, but I was only allowed to leave the house for school, and to get groceries. It was my parents' biggest rule. I couldn't imagine what they would do if they found out I had broken it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Oh Tyler I would love to but鈥?quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He cut me off saying, "But nothing. It's your birthday, and we're going to celebrate it whether your parents like it or not. It's a Saturday, Dana, we don't have school, so you have all day to do your chores. You can spare an hour or so." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Well鈥 don't know鈥sn't it kind of early to be eating breakfast? It's only 4:30." I responded.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "That's why I'm going to come and get you later on. You said that the rest of your family goes out for breakfast on Saturdays around 8:00 A.M. I'll come and get you at 8:10, Ok?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Tyler鈥?quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Don't worry, Dana. It's going to be ok. I'll see you in a few hours," and with that he climbed into the secret staircase and went home. I closed the staircase behind him and sighed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I hope you鈥檙e right, Tyler," I whispered to myself as I went downstairs to start my chores.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I had just started doing the laundry when Nichole came and told me that our father wanted to talk to me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Why? What does Father want with me?" Father never wanted to talk to me. The only times I even existed in his eyes was when I was doing something wrong, and then he just yelled up the stairs for me to stop. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I don't know," She replied with a smug smile on her face, "but it can't be good for you. Daddy better tell me what you did because if you did anything to any of my stuff you're going to be hearing from me, too." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yeah, yeah I always do" I murmured quietly as I turned and walked to my father's office. He was a very successful lawyer. The only person he wasn't usually too busy for was Nichole. Even mother got pushed aside, sometimes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I knocked on the door of father's office and said, "Father, It's me, Dana. Nichole said that you would like to speak with me." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Hurry up and get in here. I want to get this over with as soon as possible." He said in a gruff, manly voice. I silently walked into the room and stood in front of his desk. Once when I was little I had sat down in one of the chairs, and he had started yelling at me. He said that those chairs were for clients only, and that I should know better. I don't even dare to touch the chairs now. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "If you can't even do simple chores correctly, then I don't see the point of us housing and feeding you anymore!" he said abruptly. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I don't understand father" I whispered.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yesterday you were told to make us lunches."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I did make the鈥?quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Silence!" he yelled, "I know that you made the lunches. I'm not as stupid as you are. The problem is that you put peanut butter on my sandwich. I'm allergic to peanut butter!" &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I鈥ou鈥ou never told me that," I stammered as he glared at me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I shouldn't have to tell you things like that. You are responsible for figuring it out on your own. Now, if anything like this ever happens again you are going to wish that you were never born. Do I make myself clear?" &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yes, sir" I said mumbled quietly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Now get out of my sight. I can't stand to look at you," he said with harsh voice. I walked out of the office quietly. I saw Nichole peek her head out of her room. She had a big grin on her face. I assumed that she was eavesdropping on the lecture I had just been given. I glanced at the large silver clock hanging in the hallway. It was 6:10. It would be another 2 hours before Tyler got here. I couldn't wait. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It seemed like 8:10 would never come, but it finally did. Nichole, Mother, and Father all left the house for breakfast at 8:00 A.M. sharp. As always they told me that they would be back at 10:00, and that if they found anything damaged or missing when they got home I would be severely punished. As soon as they pulled out of the driveway, I ran up to my room to brush my hair and wait for Tyler. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; At last Tyler arrived. I was so happy to see him. I was still a little upset about my talk with Father. It seemed like he was always in a bad mood on my birthday, but he had never threatened me like that. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "What's up, Dana? Are you ok? You look a bit shaken." Tyler asked after he had gotten out of the secret stair case. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "It's nothing, Tyler. Don't worry about it." I replied. He had a doubtful look on his face, but he just nodded. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You ready to go?" he asked after a minute.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Are you sure this is a good idea Tyler?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Come on Dana, what could possibly go wrong? As long as you're back before 10:00, your parents will never know that you left" &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ok, I guess you鈥檙e right. Let's get going," and with that we both entered the secret staircase.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As I walked into Tyler's house, I noticed that it was very different from mine. While my house looked boring and stiff, his looked fun and energetic. The walls were all painted bright colors, and there were several interesting paintings hung around the house. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Did I ever tell you that my mom is an artist, Dana?" He asked as we walked through the living room. I simply shook my head no. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You must be Dana!" I heard someone say with excitement as I rounded the corner into the kitchen. I looked up to see a woman that appeared to be in her late thirties. She had brown eyes like Tyler, and black hair. I assumed that she was his mother. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Welcome to our home." She said as she smiled at me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Uummm, you must be Tyler's mother. It's nice to meet you Mrs. Anderson."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You can call me Sherry, dear." She replied&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yes ma'am." I whispered.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Loosen up dear, I won't bite." Sherry said with an amused smile on her face. Tyler gave his mother a warning glance. I decided that it was time to change the subject. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You have a beautiful home Mrs. Ander鈥?I mean, Sherry."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Thank you! Well, we should probably go get some food. You look starving." I smiled. I was quite hungry. On school days I ate right before I walked out the door, but on weekends I had to squeeze meals in when I was doing something like a load of laundry. There had been days when I didn't eat until that night after all my chores were done. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As they all sat down at the table, Sherry asked, "So Dana, How has your birthday been so far?" I didn't know what to say. Had Tyler told her about where he went every morning? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I was thankful when I heard Tyler say, "Uummm Mom, shouldn't you go wake sis up?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Oh yes, Julie will want to meet you too. We can talk more in a little bit Dana," and with that she walked out of the kitchen. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Sorry about that," Tyler whispered.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "It's no problem. I just didn't know if you had told your mom that you come over every morning."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "She knows that we meet every morning, but she thinks that we go on a walk together before school. I haven't told her about how your family treats you because I didn't know if you would want her to know." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "It's not that I don't want her to know. I'm just afraid that she will either say something to my parents, or she won't want you to come and see me anymore." I didn't want to have to say goodbye to my only friend. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "My mom wouldn't tell us to stop hanging out. In fact she would probably try to encourage you to come over as much as you can, but for now well just keep it a secret." I nodded and smiled. Turning to my plate of food I began to eat hungrily. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A few minutes later Tyler's sister came into the room along with Sherry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "How is your breakfast Dana? Do you need anything?" Sherry asked me with a smile.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "It's delicious! Thank you for inviting me." I replied&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Well when Tyler told me that you weren't going to celebrate your birthday I just had to do something." Sherry and Julie sat down at the table and began eating. Julie was a beautiful girl. She looked about 17 years old, the same age as my sister. She had beautiful shoulder length brown hair, and sapphire blue eyes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "So鈥hy weren't your parents throwing you party?" Julie asked as she took a drink of orange juice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Uummm鈥ell鈥?I've never really celebrated my birthday."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Is it something with your religion dear? If it is we don't have to make this a birthday party. It can just be a normal breakfast," Sherry questioned with a look of concern on her face. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "No it's not that. It's just鈥ntil now I've never had any friends to invite to a party, so I never really saw the point of having one." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Well from now you will be celebrating holidays with us," Sherry said with a grin. I smiled back at her and glanced over at Tyler. He had a smile on his face too. For the first time in my life I felt at home. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; After breakfast, we all went into the living room. I was shocked when Julie placed a present in front of me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "What's this?" I asked as I picked up the small, rectangular box.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Open it and you'll find out" Tyler said excitedly. I slowly began to rip the pink rapping paper off. Under it was a velvet box. When I opened the box I gasped. Inside was a necklace. It was a very simple necklace, but I still thought it was gorgeous. The necklace was a golden heart with a small ruby diamond in the middle that hung from a golden chain. I was speechless. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Tyler picked it out himself," Sherry said with a smile on her face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I had some help from Julie." Tyler said as he blushed crimson red.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Thank you so much everyone," I whispered, "This means a lot to me." We all talked for a while longer. Julie had seemed very quiet at first, but as we started talking I really began to like her. While Tyler was talking to Sherry I quietly asked Julie where her father was. A sad expression crossed her face. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Our Father died not too long before we moved here." She whispered.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Oh鈥'm so sorry." I whispered back. The last thing I wanted to do was upset them. They had been so kind to me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Don't worry about it," Julie said as a smile replaced the frown. I was about to ask her another question when I spotted the baby blue clock hanging above the doorway going into the kitchen. It was 9:56. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I turned to Tyler, "Tyler I think its time for me to go." I say to him as I stood up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He nodded, but Sherry said, "There's no need to rush of, Dana, why don't you hang around a little longer. I'm sure your parents wont mind." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I would love to Sherry, but I have to be home by 10:00, so I better go." I said as I headed for the door. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I'll walk you home," Tyler said walking right behind me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I nodded, "Thank you for having me over," I say as I walk out the door.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You come back soon, dear. You are always welcome here." I heard Sherry say as Tyler closed the door behind us. As I turned around to head home, I looked down the street only to see my family driving down the road. I grabbed Tyler's arm and yanked him behind the bushes in front of his house. My heart was beating a mile a minute. We sat there silently until my Mother, Father, and Nichole entered the house. Then we sprinted across the street and over to the entrance of the secret staircase. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I can go the rest of the way by myself," I say breathlessly as I enter the secret staircase.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Good luck," I hear him whisper as he closes the entrance behind me. I scrambled up the staircase as I heard my father yelling for me to come downstairs or he was coming up. As I climbed out of the staircase and closed the entrance in my room, I heard my father start climbing the stairs to get to my room. I swung my bedroom door open right as he got to the top of the stairs. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I'm sorry for not responding father, I was just鈥?quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He cut me off by yelling, "How dare you disobey me! When I call for you, I expect you to come no matter what you're doing." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Please forgive me father I鈥?" he held his hand up to silence me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I am so close to just鈥?" He stopped suddenly, "Never mind鈥?you are nothing but a burden! Now go do your chores." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yes sir," I whisper as I quickly walk down the stairs to begin dusting the house and scrubbing the floors. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The next day Tyler hurried into my room. He looked incredibly relieved to see me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You're wearing it!" He whispered with a smile. I followed his gaze to my neck. Around it was the necklace that he and his family had given me the day before. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yep, I am, but I have to take it off when I'm not up here alone. If my parents see it they are going to know that I broke one of their rules." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Did you get caught, yesterday? He asked as a concerned looked appeared on his face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "They didn't find out that I left, but I did get a stern yelling from my father for not responding when he called me." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Next time we'll just have to make sure you leave my house at least 15 minutes before your parents get home. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Next time?" I asked obviously shocked. Did he really think that I was going to risk getting caught again? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Yeah my mom said that you can come over anytime you want to." He said as he grinned at me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "We'll see," I said. We talked for a while, and then he went home. After closing the entrance to the secret staircase I headed downstairs to see what mother wanted me to do. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For the next couple months I went to Tyler's house every Saturday for breakfast. It was so much fun! We played games, and told each other stories. Once I got to help Julie pick the fabric that she was going to make a dress out of. She was going to a big party soon. I had never seen so many sublime fabrics. Sherry said that fabrics were like people. Each one was unique. She said that our personality and the choices we make determine what fabric we are. I wonder if that applies to me as well. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ready to go, Dana?" Tyler asked me as he opened the secret staircase. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I finished tying my right shoe as I said, "Yep, I'm all set. Let's go!" We walked across the street to Tyler's house just like we did every Saturday morning. As I entered his house, I was greeted by the sweet smell of pancakes and sausages just like always. Julie and Sherry came out of the kitchen to greet us as we walked into the living room. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You're right on time, Dana." Sherry said smiling, "We just put the food on the table."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "It's your turn to pick the game that we play, Dana." Julie said happily.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I think I'll choose鈥?quot;I froze instantly. This couldn't be happening. As I looked through the big window in the living room I saw the one thing I had feared over the past couple months. My parents' car was in the driveway and the lights in the house had been turned on. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "This is bad," I whispered as to myself. Unfortunately Sherry heard me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "What's wrong, Dana?" She asked in a concerned voice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I鈥'm sorry鈥 have to go," I was petrified! Had father noticed that I wasn't there? What would happen if he did? This was bad, very bad! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Dana what's鈥h no!" Tyler said as he dashed into the living room and glanced through the window.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ok what is going on?" Julie demanded. The whole situation was clearly confusing and worrying her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Uummm鈥ell鈥鈥?quot; I stammered. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Whatever it is dear, I'm sure it's not that bad. You can tell us," Sherry said soothingly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I hesitated but finally said, "My parents don't know that I've been coming here every Saturday. They take my sister out for breakfast every Saturday morning. They get home at 10:00 exactly. That's why I always have to be home by then, but鈥ut鈥hey came home early. Who knows what they'll do when they find out." I shuddered just thinking of all the possibilities. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Now, now I'm sure your parents will understand." Julie said coming over beside me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Tears stung my eyes as I hear Tyler say, "That's the problem. They won't understand. The only time Dana is allowed to leave the house is when she is going to school, or getting groceries." Tyler's eyes held the same fear and panic that I knew mine did. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I looked up suddenly and said, "Maybe they haven't noticed that I'm missing yet. If I hurry I might make it in time." I doubted that was true, but I hoped that it would convince them. This was my problem. I am the one who decided to sneak out of the house. I could see no reason to get them involved. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; They all looked skeptical, but Sherry replied, "It's worth a shot." I nodded silently and with that I was off. I bolted across the street and up the secret staircase. While closing it I heard my father yelling downstairs. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Where is that incompetent brat? She has crossed the line this time."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I quickly picked up some dirty laundry on the floor and scurried down the steps.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Mother, Father, is that you?" I called as I entered the living room.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You!" They both screamed in unison&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "How dare you leave this house! I warned you not to disobey us! Now you're going to be sorry," Father roared. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Wait Father I..," I tried to say, but the look on his face showed the cold, hard truth of the situation. There was no getting out of this. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I have fed you, given you a place to live, and even let you go to school! All I ever asked of you was for you to stay in the house, and do some simple chores. Instead you deliberately break all of my rules, and then try to get out of it with that little whimpering, whiney voice of yours." Father spat out. Out of the corner of my eye I saw my mother scurrying out of the room. Nichole followed her with a smug look on her face. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Father, I'm begging you. Please for鈥?quot; I suddenly felt myself being shoved against the wall. Father had one hand on each of my shoulders. His eyes were filled with such hatred, and disgust. The thing that I hated the most was the fact that all of that hatred was aimed directly at me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I shuddered as Father's grip on me tightened. In the next instant I felt myself being thrown to the ground. A sharp, throbbing pain engulfed my lower arm as I hit the hard, wooden floor. Struggling to my feet I tried to figure out what I should do. My mind was telling me to scream at the top of my lungs and pray that someone heard it, but my mouth wouldn't make any words. The only thing I could do was slowly creep backwards as Father inched closer to me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I knew you were trouble the moment you were conceived! It's time that I took responsibility for letting you be born." Father mumbled before lunging at me. I was tackled to the ground with such a great force that the wind was knocked out of me for a moment. Kicking and thrashing was all that I could do while Father tried to strangle me. My thoughts were slurred and mixed together. The only thought in my head that was clear was that this was the end. Father was finally going to do it. He was going to get rid of me once and for all. All of a sudden I heard footsteps on the stairs. Had mother or Nichole snuck up there to watch? I watched Father raise his hand to strike me when another pair of hands grasped onto his. I was dumbfounded! Who could it be? In the distance I heard police sirens. Could it be? Had someone heard the commotion, and decided to call the cops? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sitting up, I glanced at the face of my rescuer. I was shocked to find that the person holding my fathers arm back was Tyler! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "You ok, Dana?" Tyler asked. I simply nodded. I was too tired and confused to speak. A moment later the police barged into the house. By then both Mother and Nichole had joined us in the living room. Both of them had ghostly white faces. Father had sunk down on the floor. The police had taken over by then, so Tyler was able to release his hand. A look of shame and defeat had crept onto his face. The rest of the afternoon was mostly a blur. Apparently Tyler had decided to sneak into the house and make sure I was ok. When he heard the racket downstairs he had used his cell phone to call the police and Sherry. When he talked to Sherry, she had told him to stay put until the police arrived, but when he saw what Father was doing he couldn't just sit there. The police interviewed each of us and then they took Mother, Father, and Nichole downtown for further questioning. After a medic looked at me, and said I just had a sprained wrist from being shoved around so much, I went over to Tyler's house to spend the night. One of the officers, Officer Groundling, said that he would stop by with a full report tomorrow afternoon. Getting into the bed that had been prepared for me, I said goodnight to everyone. I thanked them all before they walked into their own bedrooms. Gently, I lie down, and let myself be consumed by sleep. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Dana, it's time to get up dear," Sherry whispered startling me out of a dreamless sleep. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Just let her sleep, Mom," I heard Tyler say in the background, "She had a rough day yesterday."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "It's ok, I'm awake," I said groggily while sitting up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I've got breakfast ready if you're hungry. Nothing is better than a good breakfast." Sherry said while walking towards the door. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ok thanks!" I said. I stood up, stretched for a minute, got dressed, and went into the kitchen. The breakfast was marvelous! We had scrambled eggs, biscuits, toast, bacon, and apple juice. We all laughed and joked through the whole meal, but I couldn't get my family out of my head. What if there wasn't enough evidence? What if I had to go back and live with them? What would they do to me? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Dana, are you ok? Do you need anything?" Julie asked with a distressed look on her face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "No, I'm fine," I said with a smile. We finished our meal around 10:30, so we all gathered around in the living room to play monopoly. About 15 minutes later Officer Groundling knocked on the door. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Well, I've got good news and bad news. The good news is not only is your father, Mr. Collins going to jail for child abuse, but they are both loosing custody of you. That means you don't have to live with them anymore," Officer Groundling announced. I know I had a huge grin on my face. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "What's the bad news?" Tyler asked.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Since we don't have any foster homes in the area you are going to have to live in the orphanage about 2 hours from here until someone agrees to take care of you. It's not the prettiest place on the planet, but it's better than the attic that you were living in." I couldn't believe it. 2 hours away! Were they really going to take me away from Tyler, Sherry, and Julie? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "We better get going," Officer Groundling said. In his eyes I could see that he didn't want to take me away from them either. It was clear that he had no choice. I went and got my things from both houses. Before I left I turned to the 3 people who had been so kind and friendly to me. They all had depressed looks on their faces. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Well, I guess this is goodbye," I said as I turned to leave.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Dana, wait," Tyler said as he grabbed my arm.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Tyler鈥?quot; I began, but he cut me off.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "This isn't goodbye. I'll see you again soon, I promise." I smiled at him, but said nothing. Quickly I turned and followed Officer Groundling out to his car. I didn't want Tyler, or the rest of his family, to see the tears that were about to fall from my eyes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It was a long 2 hour drive to the orphanage. When we got there, the first thing I noticed was how melancholic it looked. The grey, brick walls of the building looked as if they could collapse at any time. The hinges on the scratched up, wooden door looked rusted and ancient. A few children were sitting on the steps that led up to the door. They were wearing ragged clothes that looked like they had never been washed. Officer Groundling led the way into the run-down orphanage with a scowl on his face. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I really hate to leave you here, but I don't have much of a choice," Officer Groundling said when he was about to leave, "I can assure you that Ms. Summerland will take good care of you." I glanced over at the woman that he was gesturing to. She looked as old and run down as the building was, but her eyes held kindness and compassion. Maybe she was alright after all. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I spent the rest of the afternoon learning the rules, being introduced to all the other children, and doing simple chores. I had to admit it wasn't nearly as bad as living with Mother and Father had been, but I still missed Tyler, Sherry, and Julie. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The next day I was called to Ms. Summerland's office after breakfast. I wondered what I had done wrong. Memories of the day that Father had called me to his office flashed through my head. Had I done a chore wrong were they kicking me out on the street? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Ms. Summerland? It's Dana Collins. You asked to speak with me." I whispered after knocking on the door. I waited for her to yell at me and tell me to get my butt in there, but she simply said to please come in. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Uummm did I do something wrong ma'am?" I asked. I could feel my hands trembling.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Of course not, why would you think that? I just wanted to tell you that your new family will be here to pick you up in 1 hour." She responded with a gentle smile on her face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "What do you mean my new family? Officer Groundling said that they didn't have anyone for me to go and live with." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "They didn't, but last night not long after your arrival we got a call from a family that said they would love to adopt you. You're going to have 1 brother that's about your age, a 17 year old sister, and a mother that's in her late thirties." I was so excited! I was going to have a real family. The best part of it was that they had called specifically for me! I instantly ran into the girl's quarters to pack up my belongings. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; About an hour later Ms. Summerland escorted me outside. I was about to meet my new family. The bright sunlight outside temporarily blinded me, but when I was able to see again I could scarcely believe my eyes. There standing in front of me was Sherry, Julie, and Tyler with big grins on their faces. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "But how鈥?" was all that I could say.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "I told you that this wouldn't be the last time we see each other," Tyler said with a mischievous grin on his face. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "It only took us about 15 seconds to realize that none of us wanted you to leave," Julie stated.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "So we decided that the simplest solution was for you to join our family," Sherry finished as they all walked up to me. Tears stung my eyes as I hugged them all one by one. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Thank you," I whispered as we all got into the car and drove home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I became part of the family. I was given my own room, Sherry bought me a whole new wardrobe, and I lived at their house permanently. The thing that made me the happiest, though, was the fact that I wasn't Dana Maria Collins anymore. I was Dana Maria Anderson. I finally had a family. For the first in my life I knew I was where I belonged.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Story i wrote for a contest please read and tell me what you think (im 14 go easy on me.)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Holy COW! For fourteen, that's amazing composition. I say, you're definitely college bound. I'd actually give you credit for Freshman Composition I based on that story alone. One minor word that I noticed was "loosing" in "losing custody of you," but even the best writers have to pay editors to fix their work. Did I say, AMAZING? Let me know when you're rich and famous! I was wondering where your inspiration came from...I guess we'll see your story on Oprah someday.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Story i wrote for a contest please read and tell me what you think (im 14 go easy on me.)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wow that was a lot to read and must have tooken you a lot of time to write it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; it was a good story and i didnt see errors in it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i hope you win this contest because it really was a good story&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Story i wrote for a contest please read and tell me what you think (im 14 go easy on me.)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Great use of language! You have a lot of skill, and I would recommend you look into writing professionally. I really enjoyed it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Story i wrote for a contest please read and tell me what you think (im 14 go easy on me.)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;OMG! i must have took you a long time to write it, its detailed, interesting, and fun. You will so win in the contest, but there is a few errors. BUT TOTALLY AWSOME!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Story i wrote for a contest please read and tell me what you think (im 14 go easy on me.)?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Truly Amazing =D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-7239726886741670145?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/7239726886741670145/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/story-i-wrote-for-contest-please-read.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7239726886741670145'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7239726886741670145'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/story-i-wrote-for-contest-please-read.html' title='Story i wrote for a contest please read and tell me what you think (im 14 go easy on me.)?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1200485915317648655</id><published>2010-06-20T18:30:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:30:31.773-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Nagging family coming for a month?! plz help!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I'm in high school and some of my family is coming to stay with us for a month. They are all deeply religious and believe in only wearing long skirts and conservative clothing. I honestly don't care what they wear until they start trying to change who I am. I'm half punk and half preppy. Ex. Black nails, dark hair, w/ miniskirts %26amp; tanktops. One of the biggest issues is the black nails and my dyed hair. They talk about me behind my back and how I'm not pleasing God and all this other stuff and they try to change how I dress. All of my clothing is approved by my parents, allowed at school, and NONE of it is slutty. My parents have talked to them about why I can wear what I do, but nothing makes anything different. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; How can I make this visit easier so I don't have to listen to them nag about changing my style?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Nagging family coming for a month?! plz help!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I presume they have been invited by your parents? In which case, there is not much you can do since it is not your house but rather your parents. You can speak with your parents telling them just what you have written here. I believe if you have a good talk with your parents and reminid them how they approve your clothing, they might help you. Otherwise, I wouldnt argue with these people, just go tell your parents on them and if you complain enough to your parents ( dont argue with the visitors) your parents might be more reluctant to have them visit in the future.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Nagging family coming for a month?! plz help!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't think those type of people belong at a family gathering. They are trouble makers. I am sorry for you, but your parents hold the key to all this. They should tell those overbearing fanatics to stop, or stop coming to the house. They should tell them that you are their daughter and though they may not agree with your appearance, they still love you. I hope things get better for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Nagging family coming for a month?! plz help!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Talk to your parents and calmly explain that the crazy religous family's behavior is demeaning and insulting to you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Offer your parents several solutions that work for you. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Do you have a friend with whom you could spend a week end to get some time away from the crazy religious family? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Can your parents send a polite but firm email to this family before the visit explaining that what you their child does, wears, listens to is their parental responsibility and your parents insist that they do not interfere with them raising you %26amp; that includes making any comments about you?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Nagging family coming for a month?! plz help!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;They are really being crude and rude if they are coming into your home and criticizing you. It is none of their business. What you do is between you and your parents. As for trying to restrict your music, avoid being around them when you are playing it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Nagging family coming for a month?! plz help!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;All I can suggest is to minimize the amount of time spent around them. Use any excuse that you can get away with, spending the night with friends, after school activities, library, get a job quick! The less they see of you the less they will have to annoy you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1200485915317648655?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1200485915317648655/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/nagging-family-coming-for-month-plz.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1200485915317648655'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1200485915317648655'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/nagging-family-coming-for-month-plz.html' title='Nagging family coming for a month?! plz help!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-732127395183037625</id><published>2010-06-20T18:30:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:30:15.027-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Guys who would you choose?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;these are real girls that I know&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1. A girl, 5'3 with dark brown eyes, light brown hair, and loves to have fun. She is weird, outgoing, and is a good friend who cares about her friendship. Loves basketball, and loves to dance and sing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. A girl long black hair, and 5'0 loud and wild.If someone messes with her she will beat them up. She is a great friend, and if someone starts something she will always get their backs. She stands up for her boyfriend, and always be there for anyone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3. The popular girl, 5'2 that knows everyone. She had many boyfriends. She is loud, and very hot. She's the girl that everyone wants to be with. She has dark brown hair, and acts wild around friends. Wants to be the center of attention.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. The funny *** chick, that everyone loves. Blonde hair, and 5'3. She's weird and a great friend. She laidback loves to be around friends. She likes playing sports, and strong chick. She is wild, and likes having parties at her house. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Which one would u pick&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys who would you choose?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;#1 without a doubt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; #2... black hair is a turn off to me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; #3... the "popular girl" for some reason always ends up being a huge ***** in the end&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; #4... i'm not 100% into the party mood with the girls... i've had bad experiences when girls close to me get drunk at parties lol...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so #1 because ... brown hair and brown eyes are the best traits ever... fun, outgoing, caring are all excellent traits&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; singing is 1 of the biggest turn ons in my world.. and i would love a girl to shoot hoops with...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; #1 no contest.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-732127395183037625?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/732127395183037625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-who-would-you-choose.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/732127395183037625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/732127395183037625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-who-would-you-choose.html' title='Guys who would you choose?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1732775995842994584</id><published>2010-06-20T18:29:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:29:58.827-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I had a silly question about my heritage?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;my moms black and my dads a vanilla toned black man as well, i dont know much about my dads side of the family due to my dads death when i was younger hes parents dont really care for my mother . but growing up ive always wondered why im very light skinned even lighter then my dad , people always ask me and when they see my half sister they joke and say my mother adopted me and i look different then all of the i have long curly hair its nothing like my sisters and my aunts on my dads side have the save curly jet black indian like hair , the reason why i ask cause my husband knows his heritage through and through and i dont know much about mine and i want to know why im so different when i have nothing but african american family&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I had a silly question about my heritage?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;AT SOME point in one`s life he/she asks such questions about one`s identity...do u know about any of ur mom`s relative whom you resemble?anyways dont bother much.does your husband have any problem with your skin color?if you have so many doubts and questions talk to elderly people in your family(from your mom`s and dad`s side).do u anything about genes?some dominant genes appear in babies even if they are present in any of the partner(parents)but reccessive genes appear when there are many contributers or beholders of that genes...its bit confusing though.anyways..dont worry so much.your man should love you for what and who you are...and not what haritage you have.GOOD LUCK!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I had a silly question about my heritage?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well your family could be racially mixed from way back. Where I live, there are several blond, blue eyed children who have two parents who look like full blooded natives. They're just throwbacks. That happens sometimes when you have the light skinned genes somewhere, even way back, on both sides. If you want to know for sure you can get a gene test but it's pretty expensive for the full test.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I had a silly question about my heritage?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There are always variations in how our genes combine. Any of the stories of 'passing' testify that your characteristics are not uncommon.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'd recommend contacting your father's parents or siblings if they are still living and try to get more info on the family, for the benefit of your children in the future. Names, stories, pictures.. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In the journal section of bookstores there are usually some beginners family history record books and grandma %26amp; grandpa memory books. I suggest gifting some of these to your relatives, and spending time with them, as they fill them out - or they tell the stories and you fill it out, then you'll have priceless stories that matter so much more than a quirk of genetics.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I had a silly question about my heritage?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There are some genetic testing that they can do for Native American, way back when tribes openly welcomed African people into their tribes maybe you can get in touch with your granmother or other relatives to trace back your geneology. I am polish and Italian only 3rd generation here and I look more Native American than anything else, so much so that people make comments thinking that I am. As far as I could trace there is none. So who knows where some features come from when mixed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I had a silly question about my heritage?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sometimes you get white kids born of black parents. They still have their parents features, but their skin colour is different. It might be something to do with pigmentation problems, or being albino, but I'm guessing here. It is possible and nothing wrong with it. It's just something that happens in the genetic makeup.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1732775995842994584?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1732775995842994584/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-had-silly-question-about-my-heritage.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1732775995842994584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1732775995842994584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-had-silly-question-about-my-heritage.html' title='I had a silly question about my heritage?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-229572681304286430</id><published>2010-06-20T18:29:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:29:44.289-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What do ya'll think?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;im wondering, what do you all think of these pics? people tell me i am gorgeous all the time and every hair style i have ever had people seem to like, its like i can do no wrong, i think they are lying but i dont really care because im confident enough in myself to not get hung up on my looks, but im really bored and curious since i just dyed my hair black (and yet again everyone is like o its so awesome) but i dont know if i like it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and no smart a sses ok? if u dont want to look you dont have to, i dont care, im just curious&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://s270.photobucket.com/albums/jj89/...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do ya'll think?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i think you have a really cute face, but you need to get bangs or grow your hair out to shape it well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; you have amazing cheek bones, and i feel you need to accentuate them more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do ya'll think?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;eww which one are you?. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; btw,conceited much?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do ya'll think?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't really know what these people are seeing in you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Your definitely not gorgeous, you look like every other girl out there.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do ya'll think?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree with V, I don't think anyone in that pic is attractive at all and find it very hard to believe that ppl would say any of them are gorgeous......&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do ya'll think?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;cute but lose the tongue ring&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-229572681304286430?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/229572681304286430/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-do-yall-think_20.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/229572681304286430'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/229572681304286430'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-do-yall-think_20.html' title='What do ya&apos;ll think?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-3221345476937074358</id><published>2010-06-20T18:29:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:29:26.770-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Why are people so stuck on which race looks better?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Why do people hate on black people so much, but if you really look we are the most influential race you can take offence but it's reality, i have not seen any race that has not been influenced by black culture. So if we are so lazy, why are people so into our culture. and if you are always talking down about something doesn't that mean one is jealous. Down to braiding your hair, dressing, talking, even other races are going as far as to dread there hair. If the world doesn't like us so much why do the things that we do and follow the things we've started. Especially saying black people are lazy, didn't black people build america, why listen to hiphop, reggae, r and b. don't be fake, if you don't really like black people don't get into things that are associated with blacks. I could care less what people think of blacks, cause i am proud to be black, no other race is better or will ever be better than me. We were all created from the same god. so what now&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are people so stuck on which race looks better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree with you. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If every black person would say something like that and the world would ACTUALLY listen and pay attention...............it would be a miracle. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Black and proud.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bless up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are people so stuck on which race looks better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;How does this question pertain to Singles %26amp; Dating? I've seen all races date and have fun.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are people so stuck on which race looks better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Who cares? Go eat doritos and leave us alone, *****&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are people so stuck on which race looks better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wow, thats not a racist question. and black ppl built america and ther the most influential race? haha thats hysterical. its ppl like u who make some ppl dislike blacks. ya arrogant ****&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are people so stuck on which race looks better?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Very interesting, but where does looking better have anything to do with your supporting argument?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-3221345476937074358?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/3221345476937074358/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-are-people-so-stuck-on-which-race.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3221345476937074358'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3221345476937074358'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-are-people-so-stuck-on-which-race.html' title='Why are people so stuck on which race looks better?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5757734866926667886</id><published>2010-06-20T18:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:29:09.879-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What is the best store-bought hair dye?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My natural color is almost black. It's actually brown, but so dark it looks black. I'm Hispanic, so imagine your typical Hispanic black hair. Mine is a tad darker than that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It's currently dyed dark red with hilights, but I wanna go back to my natural color. The roots are majorly showing, and I don't wanna go to a salon for touch-ups, since I'm not a girly girl.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What is the best store bought dye? Is there such a thing as a good store bought dye? I don't wanna dye my hair again, just wanna go back to natural coloring, that's it. I don't even care if grays show, which they do, 'cause that's normal. Grays and wrinkles have never bothered me, I've never fallen for the idea that only the young are beautiful (I'm 38). I plan to mature gracefully, accepting all that comes with it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Any advice? What about the stylists here, do any of you have advice?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What is the best store-bought hair dye?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm not a stylist, but I know that there are different types of hair color, even within the brand. You need to buy the "professional grade" hair color that the salons use. You won't be able to get it from a drug store or supermarket. That stuff will just wash out quickly. You can buy it from beauty supply stores though. Be sure and ask the clerks what I am talking about. Once you get your hair color established to your satisfaction, you can always think about highlights.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What is the best store-bought hair dye?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Why don't you cut your hair to where your natural color is and let it grow from there. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Doyle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5757734866926667886?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5757734866926667886/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-is-best-store-bought-hair-dye.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5757734866926667886'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5757734866926667886'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-is-best-store-bought-hair-dye.html' title='What is the best store-bought hair dye?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-6335708751567818012</id><published>2010-06-20T18:28:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:28:55.397-07:00</updated><title type='text'>My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Hola...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; One of my very dearst friends is going down the wrong path. She's talking about drinking, she's joking about things like overdose, and she's been asking me questions that put me on the spot. Questions like.... "If I were to cut myself right now, would you care?" She's also dying her hair black, and drawing knives on her wrist in pen.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I want to be her friend, but with this slow turn of events, I find it annoying when she calls, because I expect serious and drama-filled conversation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Should I stick with her through it or break our bond? If so, how do I do it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Denada :(&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Her manipulative behavior is a huge turn-off where you feel oppressed and used as her audience.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My advice is, when she asks you those questions, say, "I just remembered something-I have to go now!" and leave immediately. If this is a phone conversation, end it the instant she starts with this crap. IOW, stop being an audience for her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Even if she doesn't change, you will at least have trained her to know that you won't participate.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you should if she doesnt want to be helped out&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;she needs your help...but if it gets to be too much you need to pull back. she's obviosly disturbed or looking for attention be understanding&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would suggest to her to talk to a counselor. It sounds like she needs a little bit of honesty too. Maybe tell her that yes you care what happens to her, but you are not qualified to handle hers. That you want her to get help and be the friend that she used to be!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't think you should end your friendship, but you should alter it slightly. Talk to your friend, and remind her how much she's changed and tell her quietly how you feel. I don't think she should be your best friend, because she'll end up leading you down this path aswell, and you will be destroyed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hang out with other friends, that are good and going down the right path. They will help you and stick by you, and walk with you down the right path, and you will be happy. You WONT be happy with this other friend of yours...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck, hope I helped.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you should sit her down and talk to her. May be even do homework with her and invite her over. If your mom cooks well invite her over for dinner. If you want have a movie night!!!! Good Luck :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Oh she's going through the attention grabing, emo fase. It is very stupid and she will get over it soon enough. Chanses are, that she won't REALLY cut her self and OD. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Like I said, all she wants is attention.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if you pry to hard--she will get mad at you and you'll never talk again&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;she needs to know how u feel. if she's a true friend she'll change but w/o ur telling her how u feel, she'll never know. if things get way to bad like if she starts cutting herself, tell an adult immediatly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My friend is starting to go down "the wrong path". Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think that you should just chill...I mean I had a friend like that too. But when I called to talk she would hang up on me and I didnt know what to do. So I felt bad. But then she would call me as if to talk and then hang up. I think that if she is a true friend, she would understand that it would hurt the ones she loved or loves.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-6335708751567818012?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/6335708751567818012/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/my-friend-is-starting-to-go-down-wrong.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6335708751567818012'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/6335708751567818012'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/my-friend-is-starting-to-go-down-wrong.html' title='My friend is starting to go down &quot;the wrong path&quot;. Help?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-8624262231505354911</id><published>2010-06-20T18:28:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:28:38.994-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Guys what type of girls do you like?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;PLEASE CHOSE 1 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; BODY: skinny/athletic/chubby&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; GRADES: As/As %26amp; Bs/Cs/ don't care&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; PERSONALITY: shy/outgoing/funny/normal&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; HEIGHT: short/average/tall (not taller that u)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; STYLE: girly/tomboy/goth&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; HAIR: long/medium/short/bald&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; HAIR COLOR: black/dark brown/light brown/brown/dirty blonde/bleach blonde&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ACTIVITIES:none (want her 2 spend her time with u)/sports after school&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; SPORTS: dance/gymnastics/track/basketball/other....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I honestly have one big rule:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't like girls who are insecure about themselves.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I had a girlfriend once who was in the habit of calling me like 5 times a day while at work.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She would also call in sick just to be around me. Obsession turns a lot of guys off.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Your list is mainly about outward characteristics. A girl can be attractive in many body types, hobbies, hair...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i love how you were able to catogorize all women into different stereotypes...that's fantastic...(sarcasm)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;skinny&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; outgoing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; short&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; girly&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; short&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; blonde&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; to spend time with me, and my activity (jazz band)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; gymnastics.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I would suggest that you include other varieties of choices.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;shy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i dont like girls.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i like boy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; =]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; correction:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i LOVE boy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 閳?br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;youi forgot in hair color the red heads&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Body: athletic and a bit chubby&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Grades: B's&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Personality: Normal&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Height: Not taller than me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Style: More girly that the others&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hair: Medium&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; color: Doesn't matter&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Activities: sports&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sports: doesn't matter&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; email me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;skinny or athletic&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; don't care&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; shy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; short or average&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; girly&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; long or medium (never short)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; light brown/dark brown/dirty blonde&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; sport after school, or none , but not because I feel the need to control her...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; dance/track&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;my boyfriend likes me so he likes athletic. dont care the grades, funny, tall, girly, long, black, spend time with him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Athletic&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As and Bs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; funny&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; average&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; girly&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; long&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; black&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; sports&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; basketball&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;as long as she loves me, it dosen't really matter,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys what type of girls do you like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Skinny&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A/s&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; shy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; tall&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; girly&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; long&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; light brown&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; sports&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; dance-ballet&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I do ballet, so I like girls who share my interest, plus they are hot.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-8624262231505354911?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/8624262231505354911/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-what-type-of-girls-do-you-like.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8624262231505354911'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/8624262231505354911'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-what-type-of-girls-do-you-like.html' title='Guys what type of girls do you like?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1207189460608145541</id><published>2010-06-20T18:28:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:28:22.842-07:00</updated><title type='text'>OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;alright, so. a korean woman and a russian man marry. The korean mom has all the basic asian features. such as dark brown eyes and black hair. The russian dad has blue eyes and light blonde hair. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Is it possible for them to have a kid with blue eyes? or a kid with blonde hair? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; please cite your source. or dont. i really dont care.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; just answer the question...thanks. =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most time the dominant color come through. Which would be brown eyes and dark hair. But in saying that there is chance the baby might have blond hair or blue eyes, it's just not very high. My sisters boyfriend is South African and has a cousin that is blond with blue eyes. The mother is white and the father is black. So in this case the child got the least dominant genes. It can happen just not very common.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;brown eyes and dark hair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm caucasian (mostly German, Norwegian, and Irish). My husband is half Japanese, and the rest Italian and Irish. Our daughter was born with blue eyes but recently here eyes have turned for blue/gray/green w/ flecks of gold. Our daughter's hair is a light beautiful chestnut brown. I hope this helps.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There is a chance of course, it depends on whose genes will be stronger really. It's a toss up there is no way to tell one way or another. Sorry:)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;it will prob have lite brown hair and hazel eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yes, anything is possible as far as the childs traits go. its a wait and see game. one just never knows&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It's always possible. The blue/blonde are recessive, so there is a lower chance the child will get it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;the baby can have either the moms or the dad genetics so yes it is possible.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sure it is possible. Blue eyes and blonde hair are both recessive where brown/black are dominant, meaning more likely to occur. Most likely the kid would have darker features but blue eyes/blonde hair aren't an impossiblity, just not a likelihood.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The genes are there so it is possible for the child to have blue eyes and blonde hair. a girlfriend of mine has a black cousin while both father and mother are white. the dark skin came from a great-great grandfather who's gene had just come up in this kid. and yes they did a DNA test to to confirm that was the father.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ok i can't remember the source of this info, but i looked it up when I was pregnant. There is a 72.4% chance the child will have brown eyes because the gene is dominant. I am waiting now to see what my son's eyes will look like. I am not so sure on the hair color, but I am sure it falls under the same rule of dominating genes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The baby will probably have more of a korean look..stronger features.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have blue eyes, blonde hair and my hubby has brown hair brown eyes and my daughter has blue eyes and dark blonde hair..we are both "white".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would think that the Korean features would dominate because as a general rule of thumb, the dark traits are the dominant and the lighter features tend to be recessive. I think the baby will probably end up with either light brown eyes or dark brown eyes. I think the hair thing is the same way. Your child would end up with light brown hair. If the Korean woman has someone along her family line with blue eyes, the odds even out a little bit and you end up with a slim chance that the baby could have blue eyes. This is because then you would have two recessive genes for blue rather than just one dominant for brown eyes. They balance out. I am no expert, this is just what I remember learning in school. Hope it helps. I would google genetics to find a better answer though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes...blue eyes come from two recessive genes. The dad only has recessive and the mom must have at least one recessive gene (one recessive and dominant gene) which can still give her brown eyes. The blonde hair came from the dad. It's very possible!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I learned about this in grade 12 biology. the answer is yes it is possible however slim. This is mostly depending on the traits of the parents of korean and russian.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i will take the chances of my daugter being left handed as an example.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I am left handed so i have a LL handed gene. My Wife is right Handed but her mother is Left Handed so she has a RL gene. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; based on the LL an RL there are four possiblities.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; L(1) and R(1)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; L(1) and L(2)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; L(2) and R(1)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; L(2) and L(2)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; to be a lefty you need to have a LL combination. so according to the matrix my daughter has a 50% chance of being left handed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I hope this helps.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes, it is possible for the kid to have blue eyes, but the eyes will tend to have an Asian look no matter what color. Blonde hair is less likely, but possible.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Contrary to poster below, both parents do not necessarily have to have the blue eye gene to get blue eyes. Eye color frequently does not follow Mendelian genetics. Even hair color has exceptions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no....not possible&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; the recessive gene of blond and blue eyes MUST come from BOTH parents.....not one&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; the mother has the dark dominant gene with no family history of blond and blue eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; the child will most likely have medium brown features&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i am white ( mostly Irish ) and my sons dad was 3/4 Mexican and 1/4 black . I am very pale and the dad was Dark with dark eyes and hair . My son came out with blue eyes and blonde hair . I have green eyes and blonde hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; HE/ She will be beautiful no matter what . I think mixed children are always pretty . Especially black and white&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sure. The traits can come from either side. It's really the luck of the draw :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Its more than possable for them to have a child with blue eyes, as blue over rides brown when it comes to eye colour,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yes it is possible. skin color is the only genetic trait that "blends" darker features are dominate but recessive traits like blue eyes can still happen....it is just sort of the luck of the draw. I am pale with dark hair and blue eyes my husband is blonde with a good tan and brown eyes our first daughter is a blue eyed blond and our second is a brown haired brown eyed little sweetie....I don't know if they have good skin pigmentation like my hubby or are fair like me because it is cold and we don't get out much ( live in NY)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I have blonde hair and blue eyes, the father of my child has brown hair and brown eyes, and my daughter has black hair and blue eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;very possible&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm a native american, dark brown hair, brown eyes %26amp; skin. The father of my 3 sons is light colored skin, nearly alabaster in the winter, light brown hair and blue eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All 3 of my sons were born with dark brown hair and deep blue eyes. Their skin color was extremely light, like their father. Over the years, their hair color has darkened up, my oldest has my skin color %26amp; eye color, my middle son has tan skin and light brown eyes, my youngest is even lighter, but he's darker than his father, with freckles and almost amber eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It's interesting the way genes can mix and you never know till they get older, what traits they will inherit. It is entirely possible for their child to have blue eyes, blonde hair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm no expert, but I've known more than a few half-asians and they all favor the asian side. I even know a couple kids who are only a quarter asian, and it still comes through more than anything else. Cousins of mine are in fact half Korean, but you would hardly know that they are only half.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;depends on whose genes is more dominant. My guess would be yes I think its possible, also possible to have a totally asian looking child ;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Morgaine&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1207189460608145541?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1207189460608145541/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/omg-best-answer-will-be-chosen-asap.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1207189460608145541'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1207189460608145541'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/omg-best-answer-will-be-chosen-asap.html' title='OMG! best answer will be chosen ASAP.?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-634630525055743288</id><published>2010-06-20T18:28:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:28:06.869-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Career hairstyle?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I need help on what hairstyle I should have to make me more mature. I am 37 years old and many people think I am in my early 20s. I fear this could be the reason why I could not get management positions. I got several job interviews but no one offered me the job. I know I have the qualifications they need. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My hair is black and straight and it is little below my breast. It is some style of Demi Moore's hair. I don't look like Demi Moore but only my hair bec. it is black and long and have that simple one length style and I am an Asian. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have been wanting to let the salon take care of it but I'm afraid they will ruin it. Any help? maybe some highlight and which color? Please remember that I have a tan skin. Maybe cut it into medium length and which style? ANY SUGGESTIONS PLEASE.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Career hairstyle?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if i were you i would cut it to your shoulders and get brownish redish higlights&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Career hairstyle?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You should try curling your hair or pulling it back. (half way up)And yeh cut it to a lil longer than shoulder length with some highlights. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; hope this helps! :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-634630525055743288?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/634630525055743288/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/career-hairstyle.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/634630525055743288'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/634630525055743288'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/career-hairstyle.html' title='Career hairstyle?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-3731562282156814251</id><published>2010-06-20T18:27:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:27:51.355-07:00</updated><title type='text'>GUYS ONLY, describe the perfect girl?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Just wondering:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Height: below 5', 5' "1 - 5'3", 5'4" - 5' 7", 5'8" up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Eyes: dark blue, light blue, dark brown, light brown, hazel, dark green, green&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hair: long/short, dont care&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hair color: light brown, dark brown, black, toe-head blonde, dirty blonde red&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Personality: (describe the perfect personality here)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Major turn offs: (write any major turns offs here)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;GUYS ONLY, describe the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Height : Under 5'5&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Eyes: Stunning and captivating, doesnt really matter the color because a pretty set of eyes can come in any color.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hair: I like long hair but, thats cuz I like to have something to grab onto later....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Personality: Grounded, not pretentious or stuck up but self confident, funny and able to take a joke, not a drama queen, loving, caring, kind and sweet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Major turn offs: Dishonesty. People might SAY they get over being lied to, but they dont. Take it from me, a lie from some one you care about can slowly kill you from the inside out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is a silly question because all men know the truth. There is no perfect woman. A "perfect" woman is one that knows you inside and out. One that loves your jokes and makes you smile, inside and out. A perfect woman is one you are physically attracted to. A perfect woman does not exist.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;GUYS ONLY, describe the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The characteristics I want in any woman I date regardless of ethnic background-love long, big hair(preference for dark, but any will do), 32a-38DD, 22"-28", 34"-38", long legs , shapely butt(Jlowish), big eyes (prefer dark, but any will do), full pouting lips(Angelina Jolenish),size 8 or less, +/- 10 lbs. or less over/under weight-prefer normal to slightly over-more pleasurable to straddle during intimacy, 4'10 "- 5'7", medium-brown skin(prefer, but any will do) . Mixed ethnic are some of the most beautiful in the word-(i.e.-Tyra Banks, Vanessa Williams). I have not run across any mixed ethnic women I did not find attractive and have dated almost all of the ones I have had contact with.Borrowing from Forrest Gump-women are like a box of candy, you never know what you might get and I love tasting as many as I can from vanilla to dark chocolate and everything in between-variety is the spice of life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Peronality-intelligent, sexy,full of life, kind, nonpredjudicial, doesn't have any or only a few minor bad habits, honest, sincere, no disappearing acts, independent yet vulnerable, no emotional baggage(especially exs), no mind games, not whinny/clingy/henpecking/nagging/domimee... hygienic, swears little or not at all, polite, well mannered .Not a smoker/alcoholic/druggie/hooker/murderer... MARY TYLER MORE TYPE ON THE OLD DICK VAN DYKE SHOW.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Tur-offs-the exact opposites of the above&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-3731562282156814251?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/3731562282156814251/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-only-describe-perfect-girl.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3731562282156814251'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/3731562282156814251'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/guys-only-describe-perfect-girl.html' title='GUYS ONLY, describe the perfect girl?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-2983439011361886579</id><published>2010-06-20T18:27:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:27:34.373-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What do you think about this poem of mine?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My Minnie Mine&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her hair is like chains of gold&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She smiles like sunshine and her attitude is bold&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her strength is her tenderness and her heart is pure and fair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She is truthful and we have true love, that閳ユ獨 rare&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her light she devotes to friends and mostly to God&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She has great love for me and I love her so much more every day&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her love is true for me and we embrace our individuality in every way&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She lets me lead the relationship and I never have to prod &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The things that she does are both all right and sublime. My love, I do love you I have to say&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She is my fair maiden, good games with me she loves to play&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Maters of the heart she never lets me down&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She makes things better for me when ever I frown.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My true love fair with hair of black&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Beautiful skin and nothing good she lacks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her eyes are of chocolate and dark so nice&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her teeth are straight and her discipline is never slack.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I love you so I love you now I love you every way and the love that you may stack.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So remember love as love can be.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My friend, someone so special, but it first starts with me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My love is Minnie and I love her so&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We have been threw heck and back to rescue her I go&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her past loves were of trouble and strife&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Because of them she hated love and she regretted life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her heart was torn and trust was shorn she wanted none of that&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When I came to her with lust for life and desires of love&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With faith in maters of the Heart and God up above&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Friends we first became as I showed her what love can be&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She saw my heart and finally saw the inner me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I showed her love and what love could be&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We cried at the idea of being parted and the future together started &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; To be more of a good less of a bad. Soon after she lost both her mom and her dad&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She decided to love me and embrace my love that was pure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her heart was pierced and there was no sadness cure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Except to live out a promise for me, to her, take care&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That was the last promise I made to her mom there&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It took long nights with prayer and strife&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But after 5 years of this she became my wife&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Happy ever after is now our life. We still have problems we still have strife but &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It is all very bearable as Minnie as my wife.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her hair is like chains of gold&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She smiles like sunshine and her attitude is bold&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her strength is her tenderness and her heart is pure and fair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She is truthful and we have true love, that閳ユ獨 rare&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her light she devotes to friends and mostly to God&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She has great love for me and I love her so much more every day&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her love is true for me and we embrace our individuality in every way&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She lets me lead the relationship and I never have to prod &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The things that she does are both all right and sublime. My love, I do love you I have to say&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She is my fair maiden, good games with me she loves to play&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Maters of the heart she never lets me down&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She makes things better for me when ever I frown.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My true love fair with hair of black&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Beautiful skin and nothing good she lacks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her eyes are of chocolate and dark so nice&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her teeth are straight and her discipline is never slack.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I love you so I love you now I love you every way and the love that you may stack.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So remember love as love can be.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A friend, some special but it first starts with me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think about this poem of mine?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;very nice i liked it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think about this poem of mine?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Why did you repeat an entire section of the poem? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Check your spelling.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Try harder. Vary your diction. Develop your rhyme scheme and meter. Your inflection shows no pattern.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I can appreciate the subject, and your intent is clear, sweet and honorable, but the poem parallels a middle school effort or a drawn-out Hallmark card.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Since you mention marriage, I surmise that you're at least in your early 20's. There are more elegant ways to express your feelings. Sorry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think about this poem of mine?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Is it a poem or a descriptive story?????????????????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think about this poem of mine?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cliche and inconsistent in rhyme and form.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Better luck next time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-2983439011361886579?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/2983439011361886579/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-do-you-think-about-this-poem-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2983439011361886579'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2983439011361886579'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-do-you-think-about-this-poem-of.html' title='What do you think about this poem of mine?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-833830410612519946</id><published>2010-06-20T18:27:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:27:18.363-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hair Crisisss!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I've had a short hairstyle for three years!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The first year when I got it cut, my hair was in pretty bad shape. It was uneven and breaking because I didn't know how to care for it correctly. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I had to get it short. But I liked it then. And I went to the salon regularly to get it relaxed and conditioned. It was shiny---kinda like Judge Hatchett's! For some dumb reason, I got it cut because I didn't like the length it had grown out to. Those days I wasn't up for weave so I thought I couldn't do anything with it. After I cut it, I started going to the salon less and less. I noticed my hair had lost its shine. Since the beginning of this year, I haven't been to the salon. For a couple months I just let it sit there! But now I'm using boxed relaxers [which I don't like.] Still, a mixture of me not knowing what exactly to put in my hair, me letting it go for so long, and stress are getting to it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1. What is a good weekly/monthly routine for black hair? Including all the hair products&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hair Crisisss!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Palmer's has an Olive Oil Formula Hair Conditioner that will really work on keeping the shine in your hair as long as you use it everytime you wash it and keep your ends clipped...you only have to use it once when you wash it and it stays until you shampoo it out...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As far as hair care--I recommend you wrap your hair, because it's short---get a good flat iron and straighten it really good and just wrap it before you go to sleep at night--it'll keep your hair straight and you won't really have to do too much to it when it's time to style or put that much heat on it--it'll already have a little bump to it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I wash my hair with the Optimum Oil therapy shampoo and conditioner. It smells good and it doesn't leave that weird film on your hair, like some conditioners do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hope you get some more good advice on keepin that hair healthy and shiny!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hair Crisisss!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;u idiot go 2 the ******** salon!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hair Crisisss!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There is no set routine for black hair. Your individual hair texture and condition of the hair will dictate what maintenance you need for your hair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A good web site/forum to visit is called Black Hair Media Forum. It's hair care and beauty information for women of color.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/default....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; On the site you can learn all about what kind of hair texture you have and the best way to care for it from other members who have experience with their own hair. It is not product affiliated. It's simply a group of predominately black women sharing hair care strategies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I am a member and have used the advice from the site to transition from relaxing my hair to going natural to learning how to care for my hair in it's natural state (curly as opposed to straight).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I've gotten recommendations on products and hair care routines and ultimately found a mix that works for me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hope that helps you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hair Crisisss!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If your hair is anything like your avatar, you should wash ur every 2 weeks with a really good shampoo and conditoner. Olive oil products are really good and make ur hair really shiny. also if you u use a box relaxer, try the olive oi one. Using the entire line of a certain product works well. Also when you wash it, use a mousse foam wrap lotion and comb it down straight with a little of gel and sit under the dryer. Afterwards, comb it out and apply a silicon based serum, like biosilk. This will enhance the shine and protect it from heat. Flat iron or curl in whatever style you like. But I would leave that up to a stylists if u can't do it. But in between salon visits, try this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hair Crisisss!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Try using Vitale Super Reconstructor Conditioner....it has menthol for dry itchy scalps. It will give you that shine that you are talking about. I use it weekly. It contains Protein, so it will aid in streghtening and growth. You can get it at any beauty supply. And drink that water girl...most of the time its the lack of it, that causes most of our problems from the top to the bottom.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; p.s. I understand the financial part of it. I haven't been able to go to the salon in about 6 months. I have 3 kids and just couldn't keep up with it. But basically if you get a good conditioner and use mild relaxers. I think you will be okay until you make it to your appointment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; www. vitaleproducts.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-833830410612519946?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/833830410612519946/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/hair-crisisss.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/833830410612519946'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/833830410612519946'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/hair-crisisss.html' title='Hair Crisisss!?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5401404097889508831</id><published>2010-06-20T18:27:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T18:27:06.048-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness &amp; to forget every bad t</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Here's the story, She is or was a really close relative to me, We were together since we were born, raised up,ate, slept%26amp; shared every thing together, that was in the 3 vacation months; But U know what? She never loved me or at least not as much as I loved her %26amp; sacrificed for her, She was always selfesh%26amp; very very jealous of me, As I'm lovely with long black silky hair, stylish kid till now %26amp; She is just the contrary, Dont think that I'm saying this cuz I feel highly of my self PLZ, What I'm saying is the truth I swear, I've never done any thing bad to her;no; Iwas so kind with her meanwhile she was evil with me, U just cant imagine how much she hurt me.. The most painfull part here is that :- I really loved her as a sister or maybe more%26amp; all what I get from her is pain, neglection%26amp; she never cared about my feelings, I rememmber I spent 3 months to write a letter for her which she didnt bother herself to just read,I've forgotten her totally for ayear till now, I'm happy without her??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Forgive her. If someone is sorry, they deserve to be forgiven because they realized their mistake. You wouldn't want to bet the type of person that follows the eye for an eye theory. Just because she hurt you in the past, doesn't mean you should hurt her too by saying she doesn't deserve forgiveness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; However, this doesn't mean you should welcome her back with open arms. Keep moving forward with your life and never let anyone walk over you again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;keep her out of your life, and stay happy. why ruin something that's working well for you?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I know you love her, but sometimes the ones we love most need to be kept at a distance. I would try and be happy without her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Forgive just don't forget. If your happy without her then be happy. why put yourself through more pain.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She probably loves you. But she sounds like she may be dealing with strong feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem (jealousy). Just be yourself and don't exspect anything in return, cause when you do thats when your hurt. People will never live up to your pre-determind exspectations but they can surprise you and surpass them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you answered your own question! You forgot about her, keep with it... &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My grandfather had a saying:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; " Don't stir up Sh**, it will always end up stinkin." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; meaning... Just dont go and disturb things that have settled over, it will always end horriably.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if this person was so horrible to you the entire time you have known her then why would you even consider wanting to re-enter an abusive relationship? If you are happy without her then remain that way - happy and without her!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You can always tell her that she needs to prove to you and show you that she is a different person! Ask her how she is going to do this what is she going to do and say differently and why all of a sudden has she decided to beg for your forgiveness?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If she doesn't give a satisfactory answer or is exactly the same then don't even consider getting back into a relationship with her!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck in whatever decision you make!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You have to decide if you can really forgive this person, let go of the past and move on or if you should leave things as is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Given her past and from what you're saying I don't know that you will be able to fully trust her again and the relationship may be irreparably damaged.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Depends on how you feel about her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Honestly, you don't sound like you want to give her a chance... you sound more to me like you want her to give you a break. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So take the chance of the break to take a break from her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What is to be gained by holding a grudge? Why not thank her for being open with you and tell her that you forgive... and know that sometimes all of us don't act the way we know we really should. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The grudge drags on *you*. Don't waste any more energy being mad at her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This things can happen in life man ,I think you should forgive her atleast you come from far with her man,unlike other people being hurt by strangers give her a second chance she has finally realised that what she had done was bad enough find it in you heart to forgive her let the love and caer come back to you for her ,dont think i didnt read your story i did very well and i anderstand how you feel.slums aka Pesalema %26lt;chao&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5401404097889508831?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5401404097889508831/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-should-i-do-with-her-she-sent-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5401404097889508831'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5401404097889508831'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/what-should-i-do-with-her-she-sent-me.html' title='What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness &amp; to forget every bad t'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1066635921928921015</id><published>2010-06-18T01:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:38:12.069-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Am I the perfect girl?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I am a &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; skinny petite girl &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; only 5'1, 5'4 with heels on&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; small waist&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; skinny arms&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; muscular legs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; long black shiny hair in layers&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; nice tan skin not too tan&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; coffee colored deep little eyes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; little nose&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; big lips but not too big&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; longish elegant neck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; nice shoulders&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; intelligent&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; popular&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; good girl&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; sweet&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; caring&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; dignity&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; respected by everyone&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; loving to only my man&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; good at other things in private&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; never trashy always classy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; dress really cute&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; polite&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ? =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;sound wonderful to me!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't bother with the ugly comments--they're jealous!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ;-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sounds good, but you're probably 14. In that case, no. Not even close.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;pamela anderson and paris hilton are two of the ugliest women ever to become infamous. so no, you're not perfect at all..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but the sweet, caring and dignified part is nice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; popular, good girl.. bad. thanks for calling...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;god wats wrong with u? do u just want compliments??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You forgot modest!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;OMG..... dude, no one is perfect. So just shut up, you're going to attract an online predator... wtf were you thinking?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nobody, I repeat nobody, is perfect. Sorry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You certainly are confident, tho.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;do you do windows?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you sound a little insecure and high maintenance to me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no, sorry my girl is the perfect girl&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;im sure lotsa guys find you cute but i hate paris hiltons looks she is too ugly and i dont like skinny girls i like girls with big butts a c cup is not bad but are they nice you are not the perect girl there has never been such thing but im sure you are decent looking at least&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you are very cocky. you dont have to be a certain way to be "perfect". and know, you dont sound perfect at all, you sound normal, so get over yourself!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Honey, get over yourself. You know that your pretty. You gotta tell the whole wide world. You Have self esteem issues hun. You are fishing for a quick complement.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm sure that is many people's idea of a perfect woman! It sounds perfect to me! Good for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are too full of yourself.... You can tell just because you asked this question. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Besides, I only like big fat Santas, and so does the rest of the world you twiggish weirdo.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ha ha ha then what the hell are you doing here ms. perfect?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I would think that someone like you will be out partying with your look a likes...get real.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;And so humble.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No one's perfect.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You appear to be vain. Strike one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;a little bit full of yourself...actually a lot full of your self&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Very nice I'd say!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Too short, skinny arms and muscular legs (yuk), long neck like giraffe, saying good at other things in private proves you're not classy, you are egotistical, way too conceited and sorry but you need some work. Where is your picture if you think you are so hot?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yeah u sound really stuck on yourself and no guy likes that cuz it means high maint.....and u forgot to put not to smart u are prob going to get a online pred... good one...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Beauty come from within you sound beautful Stop looking in the mirror and do someting beautiful with your life Beauty fades brains don t Tutor Mentor get innvolved in community and church Make sure the inner beauty reflects your outer beauty&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;what is perfect to one may not be to another. so for someone out there you are but not to anyone else. we all have flaws&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Bimbo, is more like it, you sound like a train wreck. God, you really have issues. I went to high school with girls like you and I hated every last one of them. Don't fall into the trap, you're looks will only get you so far and then you're on your own. Good luck with that, you'll need it. Hope you grow up someday soon, somehow I don't see that happening. Oh yeah, good luck with your online predator too. You sound like a b*tch.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Unfortunately your not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I the perfect girl?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;AND MODEST TOO, JUST LIKE PARIS HILTON...DID YOU KNOW SHE IS GOING TO JAIL FOR 45 DAYS....still want to be like her????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1066635921928921015?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1066635921928921015/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/am-i-perfect-girl.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1066635921928921015'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1066635921928921015'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/am-i-perfect-girl.html' title='Am I the perfect girl?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-2772429926415122981</id><published>2010-06-18T01:37:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:37:39.817-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wea</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;its the last day of school and i need to look pretty! i have blondeish brownish hair blue eyes and sun kissed fair skin. i have a shimmery eye shadow,lip stick/gloss, and face illuminater. and redish pink blush, black mascara. black,brown,dark green,silver, eye liners. pink lipstick. antique rose glitterey lip gloss. white eye shawdow,brown eyeshadow, green eye shadow, purple eye shadow, and blue eye shadow. what should i use? and dont give me an answer like "girls your age dont need to use makeup" or "u spoiled brat who cares" or something like that...well plz help!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 閳?Savannah&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you want to look good dont wear the flip flops they may a person look cheap.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay well my answer won't do you any good!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think it would all work.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Probably a sheer or lighter lipgloss. Focus on the eyes. Put a black eyeliner on. I would suggest light eyeshadows for a summery look. If your trying to be sexy then dark eyeshadow (black), For you I would use goldish, turqoise, whitish, light colors on your eyes and then in the crease a slightly darker color. black mascara.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; dont listen to the first girl. are you in middle or high school you can wear flip flops. adults look cheap wearing flip flops though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;use black mascara, shiny lip gloss, dash of lipstick. straighetn ur hair. touch of light-brown eyeliner. wear an anklet and something on ur neck. wear hoop or long earrings.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'd go with silver or a grey. It says "wow" but not too "i am trying to look good to impress people". I don't know but i'd go for it. also, if you have a lilac, do that. also, do NOT do an eyeliner on the last day. It looks way too......snotty. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Signed, &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; LoViNg LifE&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Honestly if you start matching your make up to your clothes as opposed to your complexion you could get in trouble. But considering you seem to know your colors. I say bronze your self in the cheek area contrast with green to bring out your blues and purples and lite gloss on the lips.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Go for surfer girl subtle. A good base is great. Use you illuminator above the brows, down the centre of the nose, under the eyes and on the chin. Use the blush on your cheekbones and lower lids. The rose lip gloss on your lips. Skip the eye liner and go for two coats of mascara. Hope you have fun!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay , I recommend going to the nearest mall and head straight a department store to ask one of the beauty consultants for help. The consultations are usually free and you get alot good advice for applying makeup.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;never match your makeup to your wardrobe! wear makeup to complement your face and make you glow! makeup should be subtle (especially during the day) and make you look naturally flawless. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So if you have brown hair and tan skin try golden browns for the eyes with a warm brown liner (smudged not hard lines).brush a medium tone of golden over most of your lids but not much past the crease in your eyelid. you can use a darker accent at the further corners of your eyes and a little bit in the crease to further define the shape of your eye. the last accent you can use is a lighter shade of brown or even ivory within the inside corner of your eye and along the bottom of your eyebrow to give your eye a nice openness and lift. make sure to not go too heavy on any of the colors and bland them so you look natural (ah, what us girls do to look like we don't need makeup at all...) For the eyeliner try a pencil or very dark brown eyshadow (applied with a this angled brush). apply the liner across about 2/3 of the top of your eye and over about 1/2 of the bottom of your eye. I know this sounds weird, but this will help you not make your eyes look smaller. make sure to smudge the lines so you can't see where they actually stop or a definite line (also need to get very close to the lashes). Mascara should stay in the dark browns and only needs to be brushed on once, maybe twice, with long, upward strokes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; for the cheeks try a pink that is actually decently bright (seems scary, but you need a color that will emulate a natural flush). brush this color lighty in a circular motion over the apples of your cheeks (it helps if you smile while you're doing this). make sure to blend the blush though, as you don't want two have two spots :). next lip gloss, cause you don't need lipstick since you are younger. try something with a pink tint and nice shine. as to face illuminator try lightly sweeping it on with a large blush brush along your cheekbones, over your forehead, on the very top of your nose, and a little on the most potruding part of your chin (the parts of your face that naturally exposed to the sun). as with everything make sure this is very well blended as you just want it to give a hint of shine and sun-kissed look.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; well, i know that is a lot of stuff, but i hope it helps and gives you some tips to play around with. it's not bad to wear makeup but it is a good ego booster and can help you feel extra-pretty. but as you are young and it is summer keep it subtle and light (and NEVER match your clothes) as you want to make people think you don't even need it (which I'm sure you don't :D).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Girl you know what would look so totally awesome with your completion and those clothes is some light blue eye shadow as a shade for the eyes all the way up to your eyebrows. Then use some lilac eyeshadow on only your eyes lids make it noticeable though. If you going to wear blush try a lite peekaboo pink as in a really light pale pink. for lip gloss use light brown or cream color that is light but sparkly and finally if you want to add an extra flair Add a touch of blue body glitter near your eyes. careful not to get in your eyes though. wow i see you looking awesome already!! =D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wear!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;somethin natural, if yah play up ya eyes go nude on the lips yeah,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-2772429926415122981?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/2772429926415122981/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/ok-im-wearing-purpley-blue-shirt-and.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2772429926415122981'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/2772429926415122981'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/ok-im-wearing-purpley-blue-shirt-and.html' title='Ok, im wearing a purpley blue shirt and a jean skirt with black flip flops. what makeup should i wea'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-800094224954382057</id><published>2010-06-18T01:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:37:07.733-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Whats your definition of a beautiful women?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;my beautiful girl is any color,from any race,height doesent matter,less then 300 pounds with long black flowing hair a pretty face,eyes that shine in any light,has little cute habits and little gestures,u know the little things,but most of all,a beautiful women to me is a girl that will stand by me no matter what even if she has to get a little dirt or something happens to me,she will be there,and she will be compassionate and caring and faithful,and most of all understanding.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My husband wants me to tell you this...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A beautiful woman is one that loves you no matter what, if you forget it is her birthday, she forgives you and loves you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She is of any size and any shape, any color.. as long as she is confident and takes pride in the way she looks and feels. She stands beside you through thick and thin, and when you are sick, she is the first at your bedside and the last one to leave.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She holds your hand when the days are tough, and makes love to you whenever you need it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Like a butterfly, she floats into your life and makes your heart and head flutter with hope and dreams for the future, and if you are lucky enough to make her your wife, then little angels can make your life even brighter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What makes a beautiful woman? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The beauty that lies within, not that which lies upon her skin.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cute, kind and heartfelt. Says what she means. Overall looks nice. I really go for the personality a bit more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;a beautiful women is a women that doesn't think she is beautiful and she makes others feel like they are&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;me jk! Can't answer that really cause i'M A GIRL&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My wife&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sounds like you have the perfect woman for you all figured out. Now, lets hope that you are the right one for this so called beautiful woman.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;A beautiful woman is a moving beautiful mind in a beautiful embodiment where the mental faculties should be mostly alluring in this game!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My wife (oh how sweet)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Definition is :%26gt; God gift from heaven.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;A beautiful woman is someone who is comfortable in her own skin and embraces her individuality in a way that others respect her and want to be near her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;my beautiful girl is blue, green or brown eyes, brown or blonde hair and weighs less than 135 pounds&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WTF?!!? Less then 300 pounds? i want a women not a gorilla, sorry no fat chicks for me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This woman that I work with. She's as close to "PERFECT" as any human being I've ever known. It's such a pleasure to be around her. She's pretty, smart, happy, treats everyone nice and has the most soothing voice that I've ever heard. I just hope she's as lucky as her husband is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;A beautiful woman is any size, with a strong sense of faith, pride in her character, respect for others, and never lets anyone define her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Outward physical appearances help, but I'm attracted to women with beautiful minds and good linguistic skills. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Which is why the Internet is so great. It's like the 16th century all over again. Where love is profess on paper (email), and cards (e-cards). Only this time you don't have to wait 3-5 months for a reply.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;blond skinny sexy and likes to have fun a lot more then making fun of people&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;To answer your question Jon. Any woman that love you back as intensely as you love her, is a beautiful woman. Its' no use to have a good looking girl/boy friend if he/she cheats, lies and steal on you. More people should watch Jack Black in Shallow Hal. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You'll find that beautiful women, and on that day, she'll meet a beautiful man in you. Best wishes!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ( ) ( )&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (o_o)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sabrina :-) Not just another pretty face!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Someone who makes you feel good just by being in her presence is beautiful. Someone that has a glow of confidence and self worth. Someone that is a positive influence on others and helps others feel good about themselves. If she has a beautiful face, body, perfect nails or shape- that's all secondary. It may help her win a mate- but it doesnt define her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Whats your definition of a beautiful women?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no fat chicks lol no whores i h8 dem as long as there real den there fine&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-800094224954382057?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/800094224954382057/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/whats-your-definition-of-beautiful.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/800094224954382057'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/800094224954382057'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/whats-your-definition-of-beautiful.html' title='Whats your definition of a beautiful women?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-7855148748230324185</id><published>2010-06-18T01:36:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:36:35.066-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Why do people ask me "are you black"?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have had people (especially in school), some people stare at me for about like 2 minutes when I do not look and then they ask me "are you black", why is that? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I am mixed with a black/white mother and a blackk/indian father.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is me:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://s244.photobucket.com/albums/gg5/P...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://s244.photobucket.com/albums/gg5/P...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://s244.photobucket.com/albums/gg5/P...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ge:14&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; eye color: brown&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; hair: curly (gets nappy at times and gets nice and soft at times)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; skin tone/color: caramel or light skinned (who cares)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Is it because I am mixed or something?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I am not asking this question for attention or anything, please do not call me cute or good looking, that is getting old now, I just want some answers!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; After this i am retiring, ok you guys happy? lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yea, it's because your of a mixed family. When 2 people, *mate* lol and one is black and the other is whit, the black geen is usualy the dominating geen. And ik you said not to do this but u have amazing eyes!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hope I helped!搂 Emily 搂&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;because you look it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yeah, you totally look black&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i guess it masks over everything else&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You appear as if you are black. I don't know why some people stare, thats just a rude thing to do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;u do look full black and what kind of question is this if u r&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;becasue you are black.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ummm...cuz you look like you're black? Wtf kind of question is this? Your parents are both half black!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;what does it matter your hot so dont worry&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;umm because u are&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ok, no offense, but u do look black. I have a friend and when i first met her, i thought she was black but shes like not. lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i guess their stupid lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; your half black... but maybe they see some white/indian in you? who knowss&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is because your skin is darker than most of the people that ask you and then if they know your mixed they don't want to say "Are you black/white and black/indian?" Or they may know only 2 different ethnics.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes you look African American, but be proud, some traits of your parents are stronger than other genetic traits. When someone asks you, just tell them your heritage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It doesn't matter what people ask or say. Your parents are part black so that would make you black too. You can answer "yes" to "are you black/white/indian".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Bcuz u look black..... so of coarse people r going to ask you that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;B/c u look black...i would think u were black.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;IDK are you black.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;because you look like you are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; although, it is rude for people to ask you that question.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; tell them to piss off.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;From those pictures, you look black? Not even look it, you are black.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you do look black in the photos you have put up but some people have dark complexions especially as you are mixed race you may look more white on certain days then others. or people are just rude and need a life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wow you asking this question is now getting annoying. Hun your black...accept it. You look it even if your mixed your features are more afro american looking than anything else. You even have that african american hair for goodness sakes. I'm puerto rican but some of my features including my skin color appear of a african american descent! I accept it and don't rant around about why this %26amp; why that. Seriously kid enough!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;def. cuz u look black but why are people asking that? and there is so many "mixed" people out there that that question should offend you...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people ask me "are you black"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;because you look black....and goofy...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-7855148748230324185?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/7855148748230324185/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-do-people-ask-me-are-you-black.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7855148748230324185'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7855148748230324185'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-do-people-ask-me-are-you-black.html' title='Why do people ask me &quot;are you black&quot;?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4647730507530150354</id><published>2010-06-18T01:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:36:04.365-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How do you picture Naruto and Hinata's kid looking and being like?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My description is below&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sex: Female&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Physical appearance: Average looking but cute.Has dark or black colored hair like her mother but her fathers Colorful blue eyes.She is tough and looks a bit like a Tomboy much like her Grandmother as she gets older.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Keeps her hair longer when she is a kid but cut's it off to about shoulder length around the age of 16.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Personality: She is very smart and is considered at or near the top of her class in the Academy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; as a kid she is Very quiet and shy around Strangers but is rather hyper around her few friends and loved ones.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As a teenager to an adult she is more reserved and controlled yet still has a goofy sense of humor.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; yet at the same time she can be very thoughtful and business like when it comes to mental tasks or missions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She is very sweet and caring for unknowns and friends alike.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Also Rather clumzy which is embaressing to her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do you picture Naruto and Hinata's kid looking and being like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I kind of imagine him/her to be a demented, anorexic and neurotic freak, with an insanely colored, impossiblely styled hairdo, with over sized eyes and a knife sharp chin: Just like her parents! (and every other manga character)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Please! Bloody hell, its a cartoon (and a bad one at that)! You effin' fanboys make me sick! Sick! Sick! (*retches horribly*)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My humble advice is to, by any means, procure the nearest life available! (ie get a life)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'd rather compare deutoplasms of variants Gallus Gallus' unborn with b/w pigmentation-anything-rather than imagine what the horrible demon offspring spawned from the loins of a psychotic idiot and a Pinata!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do you picture Naruto and Hinata's kid looking and being like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;love your discripiton i agree with you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do you picture Naruto and Hinata's kid looking and being like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Same I agree with you,well I'm not really sure how there kid will turn out,but first they need to get together first,and they will,but I would expect that there child would be fun and energetic,but still have responsibility and control.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; NaruHina Forever!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hinata Rocks!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Naruto Rocks!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do you picture Naruto and Hinata's kid looking and being like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;naruto is gay and hinata is lame but i like the show anyway&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do you picture Naruto and Hinata's kid looking and being like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;hahha&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i like it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and by the way&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; NARUTO IS NOT GAY ;(&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How do you picture Naruto and Hinata's kid looking and being like?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Truthfully i think he is going to end up with Sakura but i would picture their kid like a blond hair hinata only male and with whiskers and maybe a new doujutsu (eye technique) thats combines the kyuubis chakra with the Byakugan.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4647730507530150354?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4647730507530150354/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-you-picture-naruto-and-hinatas.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4647730507530150354'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4647730507530150354'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/how-do-you-picture-naruto-and-hinatas.html' title='How do you picture Naruto and Hinata&apos;s kid looking and being like?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-1509905724056400639</id><published>2010-06-18T01:35:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:35:33.791-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Black Blimish? Hellp plz, Read details?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I had a regular blimish on my face. Well When I thought I got rid of it. It had come back. so Now I finally got it all the way. but the next day my blimish got purple around it and the blood was black. I have put blimish stuff on it and some Neosporin and hoping it will go away this time. Cause there is guy I like and im afraid he will see it so I wear my hair in my face everyday=/&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and the makeup I try to wear gets all chunky when I put it on. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Im mixed so its hard to find the right makeup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't tell me that he should like me for me instead of caring about a blimish. They dont say anything about it. I can tell when they are not looking into my eyes. help! How do I cure it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Black Blimish? Hellp plz, Read details?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;can you get to a dermatologist? did a doctor tell you it's a blemish? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; it sounds like a bruise&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; definitely have a doctor check it out unless you've already done that and just trying to cover it while it heals&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; to speed up healing - you can try the herb sage for inflammation, you can dab some hydrogen peroxide on it too for extra oxygen in a lacking oxygen area and lots of extra vitamins, you're lacking something, try to find vitamin d3, take 2000iu a day, you can find lots of good info about it online&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; do you live in a rainy area or low sun - how long has this been taking to heal?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; either way, definitely have a reputable doctor check it out for you just so you know exactly what to expect kind of thing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Black Blimish? Hellp plz, Read details?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;um im pretty sure its dryed blood under the skin. it will take time to heal theres not much to do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Black Blimish? Hellp plz, Read details?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Its called a blackhead and it probably got infected because your hair is in your face everyday and you wouldn't stop messing with it!!!!!!!!!!! No ttrying to be mean or anythin but you just made your blackhead worse. Plus blackheads are hard to gert rid of especialy when they get infected like yours. If your need it to go away really fast you could go get a shot of cortisone in your zit for $20-$60 or you could just use a commmercial blackhead removerfor about $5&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-1509905724056400639?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/1509905724056400639/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/black-blimish-hellp-plz-read-details.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1509905724056400639'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/1509905724056400639'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/black-blimish-hellp-plz-read-details.html' title='Black Blimish? Hellp plz, Read details?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5815444594071059637</id><published>2010-06-18T01:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:35:00.594-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Translate this english into spanish !!!!!!!!!! fastt. no internet translations please.?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;what should be translated: Gruff Rhys has long, black , curly hair. He also has big, brown eyes. he is fairly tall and quite thin. he is 1 METRE 75 tall and he weighs 85 kilograms. His skin is not dark.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Euros Childs has long, brown wavy hair. He has grey eyes and sometimes has a moustache. He is short and is very thin. Personally i think he is too thin because he does not eat hamburgers. he weighs fifty kilograms.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cerys Matthews has small, blue eyes and she doesn't wear glasses. She has wavy hair and she is blonde. i think that she is a bit fat because she eats a lot, but she also is beautiful.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I think Angelina Jolie is a very kind person. she is kind because she donates a lot of money to charity. She is also very caring because she adopts orphans in need. i think she is also very beautiful and very generous.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Translate this english into spanish !!!!!!!!!! fastt. no internet translations please.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Gruff Rhys tiene al cabello largo, ***** y chino. Tiene ojos grandes, caf茅s. Es un poco alto y muy delgado. Mide 1.75m y pesa 85 kilos. Su piel no es obscura.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Euros Child tiene cabello casta帽o largo y ondulado. Tiene ojos grises y a veces usa bigote. Es bajo en estatura y muy delgado. En lo personal pienso que est谩 demasiado delgado porque no come hamburguesas. 脡l pesa cincuenta kilos.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cerys Matthews tiene ojos azules peque帽os y no usa lentes. Tiene cabello rubio ondulado. Pienso que est谩 un poco gorda porque come mucho, pero tambi茅n es hermosa/bella.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yo creo que Angelina Jolie es una persona muy amable, porque ella dona mucho dinero a obras de beneficencia/caridad. Tambi茅n es muy buena porque adopta a ni帽os que necesitan ayuda. Tambi茅n pienso que es muy hermosa y generosa.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Translate this english into spanish !!!!!!!!!! fastt. no internet translations please.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Gruff Rhys tiene el pelo largo ***** y chino. 脡l tiene los ojos caf茅 y grande. 脡l is un poco alto y delgado. El mide 1 metro con 75 centimetros and pesa 85 kilogramos. Su color de piel no es muy oscuro.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Euros Childs tiene el pelo largo, caf茅 y ondulado. Sus ojos son gris and a veces tiene un bigote. 脡l es chaparro and muy delgado. Personalmente, creo que 茅l es demasiado delgado porque el no come hamburgesas. 脡l pesa cinquenta y cinco kilogramos.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cerys Matthew es peque帽a, tiene ojos azules y no usa lentes. Ella tiene el pelo ondulado y rubio. Creo que ella esta un poco gorda porque come mucho, pero como queira ella es muy bella. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Creo que Angelina Jolie is una persona amable. Ella es amable porque dono un monton de dinero a la caridad. Ella es muy cari帽osa porque adopta hu茅rfanos que necesitan ayuda. Creo que ella es muy bella y generosa.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Translate this english into spanish !!!!!!!!!! fastt. no internet translations please.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;El Cerys Matthews tiene ojos peque帽os, azules y ella no lleva puestas gafas. Ella tiene el pelo ondulado y ella es el rubio. pienso que ella es un poco gorda porque ella come mucho, pero ella tambi茅n es hermosa.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Pienso que Angelina Jolie es una persona muy amable. ella es amable porque ella dona mucho dinero a la caridad. Ella es tambi茅n muy humanitaria porque ella adopta a hu茅rfanos en la necesidad. pienso que ella es tambi茅n muy hermosa y muy generosa.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-5815444594071059637?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/5815444594071059637/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/translate-this-english-into-spanish.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5815444594071059637'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/5815444594071059637'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/translate-this-english-into-spanish.html' title='Translate this english into spanish !!!!!!!!!! fastt. no internet translations please.?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4509257571595657158</id><published>2010-06-18T01:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:34:29.138-07:00</updated><title type='text'>BORED?! read my story.. help me out...lol?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My diary&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My heart hurts. It really hurts. It hurts bad閳ヮ洈ot mentally my really inside my heart. It feels crushing. I have 2 days of summer school left, and I am really feeling finished. I traveled on the ******* MTA for 3 hrs閳?looking for some **** that never got found. I am soo stressed, Idk if my credit card payment made it on time. Im really scared about my credit. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My mouth tastes like creamy ***, and I almost got mauled by a crazy raccoon. I am trying to be strong, but sometimes it is really hard for me to keep going. Keep pushing and make something of myself, its times like these when I wanna drop out of school, get skinny, let my hair break off and just count on my mom to feed me. No bath, no teeth brushing閳?just ****. I feel like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I havent wrote a diary in a while but I need to clear out my chest, because my heart is breaking. I am in an eternal inner conflict with my mind and my heart on the subject of Jumel. In my heart I want to get rid of these preconceived notions of beauty and not be afraid, knowing that no matter what Jumel will be a good father, and with love and support my children will turn out to be great people. Then its my dreams that my children will be everything im not, smarter, prettier, lighter, with parent who have lots of money to give them everything they want. But even if all that shows up in my kids閳?what good will it do if they have no father? I know the pain of the absence of a father.. So how will they grow up if they don閳ユ獩 even know who their father is? In response to this thought, I think of all the men in the world.. What makes you think that you wont find the perfect man who will stand by your children and help raise them? Then I relax, until I think of my mother. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My mother thought she found the perfect man, and it turned out to be a lie. She wasted good years of her life on me, because she wanted me to have a father. I guess that閳ユ獨 why I feel like I cant waste a day, not a minute, not a year. I have to make sure everything is perfect. But nothing is perfect. I cannot make life perfect. And that scares the **** out of me閳?what if I do something wrong? What if I make a mis-step? What will I do? I have already cause my self to graduate high school 6 months later than class of 2007. But I credit my self with my turn around from pothead, pregnant, and class cutting. To a young woman with a 85% avg, in a stable non- abusive relationship, with a black and irish ( and did I mention gorgeous) boyfriend of 6 months. My problem is his background, his mother was a druggie and he has 6 brothers and sisters who were all given into foster care because his mother couldn閳ユ獩 take care of them. His father is in and out of jail, and will die soon because of lack of medical care for his emphysema. Do I want these ppl as grand parents? On top of his coarse and brittle hair.. Adding to the unmanageable- ness of my possible childrens hair. My family puts great value in our 閳ユ笀ood hair閳?however superficial, it still matters to me. Now it 11.43 pm and I should have been sleep 43 minutes ago but im up writing this. I cant sleep閳?im stressed. I have finals this week, and my math finals will make me pass or fail the critical math credit I need to graduate on schedule. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My man and I had a big fight, im so tired of his ****. But inside I think im expecting too much, I keep telling myself if I want someone who is intelligent and all this stuff I want.. I am not going to find it in the inner city. I tell myself I will find someone better in college. Then I get depressed because I cant see myself without my boyfriend. I want to spend my life with him (even though the hair閳? but every time I decide to overlook all his fault and past, he does something to show me that maybe in the long run he isn閳ユ獩 going to have what I need in a life long partner. Then goes my obsession with chris brown, I keep hoping to marry him so my children will have a rich daddy who is caring and smart and with pretty hair and caramel skin. Then I sigh.. Cause even though I hope and pulling the forces of attraction to help, inside im not sure if it will ever really happen. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; After my fight with Jumel, I walked home and was stopped by a boy who asked me my name. he obviously wanted to get to know me and date me. He looked younger than his age. But he was tall, brown skin like me, with light brown eyes, really deep dimples, a beautiful smile, exotic eyes, and curly brown hair. He is black which made me happy閳?because I havent really thought of having interracial children (don閳ユ獩 get me started I could write a whole nother page.. If you wanna hear send me a message) I only dated white and Spanish b4, but I thought of asian/black kids sometime before.. After been walked halfway home, I reluctantly gave him my mom cell number hoping he wouldn閳ユ獩 call. It was nice to get male attention from someone new. Walked the remaining 2 blocks home, I fantasized about our children and what the sex would be like. Then I felt bad but determined to weigh my options.. At least on the way home. I decided to keep my options open. Now its 11.56 and im am officially tired. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Almost being mauled by a giant raccoon in central park which I really thought was the kitty who always comes to eat the chicken bones me and Jumel drops on the grass on our weekly buffalo chicken and fries binges. (we like to feed the kitty because we feel bad we cant bring him home). I turned around to a mother- F-ing raccoon right behind the bench we were sitting on.. And all I kept think was 閳ユ辅ow people must be feeding kitty, he sure is getting big閳?until my eyes focuses and I screamed out loud. With the recent attack of a child in the newspapers by a raccoon I was sooo scared. Well I feel better now. Just remember take it a day at a time. that閳ユ獨 what I do. I have you enjoy my day today.. I閳ユ獟l be sure to post more&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;BORED?! read my story.. help me out...lol?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are doing an excellent job so far. You turned your life around and to tell you the truth (even though I don't know you) I am proud. That takes a lot of guts. I wouldn't worry about grandparents. They do not effect who you are, or who you children will be. Be strong. You can do it. you will look back at this in a few years as your "tough spot"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; At least you, unlike most people, CARE about your children's future. I think that they are very fortunate to have you as a mom. Don't try to rush into marriage, or havin children. Finish your education, don't get married if you aren't 100% sure, and get help if you ever need it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;BORED?! read my story.. help me out...lol?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;make it simple, friend...........duh!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;BORED?! read my story.. help me out...lol?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;lol wow that's a crazy one thanks for the points though go make a movie scene it would be funny, maybe the heart hurts because of the buffalo chicken and fries!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;BORED?! read my story.. help me out...lol?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I read all that stuff for HAIR? Whats up with that.?! You may need psych help, seriously. Sounds Bipolar to me. You are up and down like a roller coaster. Good luck. ??????????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;BORED?! read my story.. help me out...lol?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WOW! You are a really deep emotional High School kid. That was a great one and I hope you figure your life out. You have plenty of time. Don't rush a thing. Don't worry about what your kids will look like until you finish school and get a foundation for yourself. Make your life better before starting another life (having a baby). I am 31 and I find it difficult. Don't be confused. Make it simple. Between the sex and the guys keep it real and focus on you. If one of them sticks it out with you long enough then you will know what to do! Have a great life kid! Enjoy yours while you still got it!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4509257571595657158?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4509257571595657158/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/bored-read-my-story-help-me-outlol.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4509257571595657158'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4509257571595657158'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/bored-read-my-story-help-me-outlol.html' title='BORED?! read my story.. help me out...lol?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-7504207507424629831</id><published>2010-06-18T01:33:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:33:55.263-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Manic panic?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;alright, so i'm doing my hair blue (it's not their *whoa BRIGHT* blue/turquoise, but it's not like "i'm dark, waaaa"...it's just blue lol)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; anyhow, i have a few questions:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1) it says to get best results use "low pH" products...are color care shampoos low pH?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2) my hair is naturally black %26amp; preparation, ive refrained from dying it for 2 months. manicpanic says to use their bleaching kit (there were numbers like 30 %26amp; 40...dunno what those mean) but i dont know where to get them. can i just bleach with like drugstore stuff? the lady at spencers said that she bleached %26amp; then the color didn't hold. any suggestion on getting to work properly? (id prefer to do the bleaching on the same day as the color tho...is that alright?)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3) i got the stuff in the jar. semi-permanent. says use half the jar for short hair. can i save the other half for touch-ups in the next month? or will it got bad?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4) it says to add heat to intensify. is this like blow drying while dying? sort of? lol.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; THANKS!! =D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Manic panic?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WOAH!. i love that you want to dye it blue! That's ROCKS!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; However, I want to give your some warnings...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Ir your hair is black or dark brown, getting it to be bleached and not be orange %26amp; brassy is very, very difficult! It also completely kills your hair. I bleach with high lights b/c I also have very dark hair naturally. Then coloring to the blue is def. something to be careful of. Your hair could def. break. If your a guy then ur ok, if your a girl be so, so careful. The manic panic might not hold at all. Might I suggest getting a highlight w/ bleach and then adding the blue, do not do ur whole head at once, ease your way into the color, let your hair get used to the name bleach and color. It's a temp color, therefore it will wash out, getting duller and duller each day, then you be left looking like a 10 year old who used kool aid and sun in! :) I would suggest going to the hairdresser, they make some great funky colors that professionals use. They can also do the highlight and then the blue. I've been doing hair and nails for years, and I have used manic panic (purple) and it sucked!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; please go to a professional!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; To answer ur ?'s&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; low pH products are color care shampoos and ones with an over all lower pH level. Look at the contents, you want to try to find a shampoo with out any alcholol. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The #'s 30 and 40 VOLUME (creme developer) refer to the levels of white developer you use, at min please do to a sally's beauty supply and ask for help there. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bleach and use heat/ yes blower dyer will help don't put very close to the head, keep a distance and move slowly around the dyed areas. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I believe you can save the other half of the jar, but read or call the 800 # to be sure, I haven't used the product in a while.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; *** please also make sure that for the few days after you color it, you def. use a deep conditioning treatment...see link below for a good one***&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Look at Gina's hair from american idol...see the red with the dark, that might look great on ur hair with the dark and blue! :) Def...HIGHLIGHTS!!!!!!! Chunky or little.! I think adding the multi colors will make your hair look thicker and also add diminson. Then see how long it lasts....if it doens't really last then you can, try another brand such as the one I suggested below or a blue tinted color from the grocery store. If you do the whole head, I just think it won't stay true blue for long. At least if it's highlighted you won't see soo much of the fading...also you could flat iron your hair and add some shine and that would look amazing. I'll see if I can find you a pic of what I'm talking about...best example is gina from american idol!. GOOD LUCK!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/1215/302...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Ok here's some style and how to do's&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=h...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Look at the pics on this page too&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=h...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ****I'm assuming your a guy based on the name MR. WONDERFUL! :) so I would def. highlight the dark and blue! see how that goes, then do the whole head if it lasts!******&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Manic panic?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if you use manic panic- the color isnt permanent. it doesnt really show up unless you bleach it first, and the color rinses out in about a week it starts to fade.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if you want dark navy blue without as much hassle i'd get garnier midnight blue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; better results- less work and less damaging&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Manic panic?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;As far as your first question, I've never figured that out, I use the color care shampoo when I put manic panic in my hair. I also heard that running white vinegar through your hair right after you rinse out the color restores the pH balance, but its really hard to do with the smell. I tried it once and said I would never do it again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For the bleaching part I think the drug store ones would work, but I used the bleaching kit by manic panic called flash lightening, the sell it at sally beauty supply, its located right under the manic panic hair dye. Just make sure you leave it in there long enough, the color stays better in lighter hair and more dry hair. Make sure you don't put any kind of conditioner in your hair before you put the dye in.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As far as if you can save it, I do, because I only have a few streaks in my hair it takes a month or two for me to go through a jar, and I haven't had any problems. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And yeah, when it says add heat most people you a blow dryer on it. Another tip is to leave it on there as long as possible, I usually do it for at least three hours.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Also blue is the color that rinses out the fastest so you may have to touch up every week, I have to touch up my hot pink every week to keep it vibrant, but it stays in there for only two weeks. Another tip is to not wash your hair as much, but I just can't do that so my color fades fast.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Manic panic?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1) yes, color care shampoos are best. I stick to L'Oreal. It really does make a difference.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2) Yes, it really is best to bleach it first, otherwise you'll end up with just blue-black hair: shines blue but doesn't actually look blue. If you don't buy a kit, you need bleach powder and peroxide. You just mix the two together into a smooth paste and put it on your hair as quickly as possible. The numbers are for strength of peroxide - the higher the number, the faster the bleach works. Generally, you should bleach the hair lightest yellow (hair doesn't bleach white) and then rinse the HELL out of it with HOT water before coloring. The problem is, bleaching opens all the follicles of the hair and thus the color often will rinse right back out. Thus, you need to smooth the follicles down first with deep conditioner (just put some conditioner on for a few minutes then rinse again with cool water) &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3) yes you can save it. it really doesn't go bad. It will seperate and that's about it, just mix it up again before using. I've had jars sitting on my shelf for years and they still work fine.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4) you can put the color on and add heat to seal it into the follicle. If you use heat, you put a plastic cap on your head first then use the blow dryer - that way the color doesn't dry up while soaking in. Or you can just put the cap on and let it sit: heat from your own head usually works well enough. Leave it in for 30 mins.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Then, once you've had it on long enough, rinse with cool water until the water runs clear then put conditioner on and leave it in until the next time you wash.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Manic panic?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. yes, shampoos that are formulated for color care are low ph...i bleach %26amp; color my hair frequently, %26amp; i have found that tigi products, especially the dumb blonde shampoos/conditioners, seem to work the best for me personally...it`s not just for those who have blonde hair, but it`s good for colored hair because it`s gentle yet it cleanses really well...u can find it at places like trade secret, etc....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. yes, if u want to have the color show up on your hair, u should definitely bleach it..u can use any of the bleaching kits u find at cvs, walmart, etc., or u can order the flash lightening kit from manic panic at http://www.manicpanic.com my hair is naturally dark brown, %26amp; i strip the color out until my hair is white, just to make the color really "pop"...if u don`t bleach your hair 1st, %26amp; u have dark hair, the color won`t really show up, it will just be like a "wash" of color, in other words, probably just a slight hint of tint on your hair...yes, u can bleach %26amp; color on the same day, that`s what i do...manic panic is a semi-permanent color, which means a little of it will come out every time u wash your hair...i`ve used manic panic %26amp; i like it, but i`ve recently started using another color called special effects, that can be found at hot topic, etc, %26amp; i`ve found it lasts much longer than manic panic...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3. yes, as long as u close the container tightly to keep the color from drying out, it will last a while for u to do touch ups...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. yes, u can put a plastic cap on your hair %26amp; apply heat from a blow dryer to both processes (bleaching %26amp; coloring), to increase the effects...just make sure to use a clean cap for each process if u decide to do the heat for both processes...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; hope this helps!!! good luck!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Manic panic?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Go to a local Sally's Beauty Supply or something like it. They have Manic Panic products. Ask whoever helps you your questions. They will be able to give you the best answers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-7504207507424629831?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/7504207507424629831/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/manic-panic.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7504207507424629831'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/7504207507424629831'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/manic-panic.html' title='Manic panic?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-4710992370504435386</id><published>2010-06-18T01:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:33:23.363-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Now that I'm 55 What should I do ?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I'm turning 55, which is an old way of saying it... Never the less,My Birthday is Feb. 4, &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I dont had a BoyFRIEND and I dont know what else I Need and don't have....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so What kinda thing should I sign up for, enroll into, set-up, do today, Organize Etc..,.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'm a Single, Black, Female, Self-Employed, Independent Contractor, aka..HAIRSTYLIST, 27years Hair Care and Beauty Industry..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; .....Last week my client told me that I Should have Had an "A.A.R.P" Card when I turned 50...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now , WHAT ELSE Should I HAVE, or Need to KNOW ABOUT ? EveryThing and Anything...I forgot That I was right HERE , 55 Years Old...What Kinda Benefits are there for me and what do I have to apply for?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; HELP a "Senior" Please ! !&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Now that I'm 55 What should I do ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just keep plugging away, and stay active in things which you enjoy doing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Now that I'm 55 What should I do ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;An AARP card can be acquired at age 50. U also need to check your bone density. See a doctor&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Now that I'm 55 What should I do ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you are thinking you are old shame on you. You can do anything you want to do unless you are ill. If you feel the need to&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; sign up for something, then sign up for a cruise, dancing lessons,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or at least start doing some of the things you have always wanted to do. Buy some new clothes, do something different, in &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; other words... enjoy your life!! You are still the same person you have always been. My birthday is in Feb too. I will just keep on&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; enjoying life as long as I am able. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Happy Birthday .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Now that I'm 55 What should I do ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Figure out all the things that you wanted to do but never did and go do them and have fun while doing it..My birthday is Feb 21, that makes me a pisces and i will be 49.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2612072201959094945-4710992370504435386?l=black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/feeds/4710992370504435386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/now-that-im-55-what-should-i-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4710992370504435386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2612072201959094945/posts/default/4710992370504435386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://black-hair-care-es.blogspot.com/2010/06/now-that-im-55-what-should-i-do.html' title='Now that I&apos;m 55 What should I do ?'/><author><name>Sekohac</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13738467152798706018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2612072201959094945.post-5039682341760553634</id><published>2010-06-18T01:32:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T01:32:53.160-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Who would you go out with?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;A) Tall, curly blond hair, blue eyes, fit. He comes from a rich family and dresses like it (expensive polos, cardigans, classy prep school stuff). He's kind of shallow, arrogant and can be a jerk, but a really good guy who'll do anything for you once you show that you're on his team. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; B) Average height, shoulder-length dark hair, brown eyes, emaciated looking (very thin) with a feminine face. He's really quiet, and always looks sad but can be funny when you get him to open up. Nice. Very smart (academically) but is unmotivated so he's just scraping by. He wears his brother's hand-me-downs from stained tees to ripped jeans and hightops. Middle class.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; C) Average height, slim, black wavy hair, dark eyes, mixed (Eurasian). Very outgoing and funny, well-mannered, polite, caring, and gifted (academic). Tight pants and flannel shirts. Bisexual and broke up with bf of 3 years two months ago. His dad died when he was 10 so he lives w/ his mom. Low-middle class.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Who + why?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Who would you go out with?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well, I hate to sound like the spoiled brat here, but I like guy A best. He sounds really good once you get to know him nd you learn to trust him. Sounds a bit vain, but hey, so am I. Arrogance can also be kind of sexy, in a strange sort of way. Shallow? I'm sure I could learn to live with that. Plus he sounds cute, and there has to be some sort of chemistry between the two of you, or whats the point? Also, I like there to be some sort of competition and a bi of a chase. I love a man that keeps me wanting more. So sexy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; B sounds boring, and not somebody I could have fun with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; C I would find it weird going out with a bisexual, knowing that he liked guys to. I mean, you could never tell which way he would go. I just wouldn't be comfortable. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So A. I know I sound such a brat saying this. But he honestly does sound the best.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Who would you go out with?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;the b is almost like me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Who would you go out with?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;A BUT IF YOURE OFFERING &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; JUST KIDDING&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Who would you go out with?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;C becuase I like guys that are bi, skinny with dark hair. =]\&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; yum.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Who would you go out with?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;whoever you like the best.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Who would you go out with?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;B or C.......because i like those kinds of guys and A sounds like a *****&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Who would you go out with?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Can I have them all?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The guy I like is:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Rich-ish like the first one, but not preppy And he's kinda arrogant. But not all the time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Has dark hair, a bit wavy, not quite shoulder length. He's not thin, very smart, but is motivated and does well at school. He's the coverse type. And the ripped jeans type.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&
